Shop Around
Don Bryant Lyrics


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When I became of age my mother called me to her side,
She said, "Son, you're growing up now pretty soon you'll take a bride"
And then she said, "Just because you've become a young man now,
There's still somethings that you don't understand now,
Before you ask some girl for her hand now
Keep your freedom for as long as you can now."

My mama told me, "You better shop around, (Shop, shop)
Oh yeah, you better shop around" (Shop, shop around)

Ah, there's somethings that I want you to know now
Just as sure as the winds gonna blow now
The women come and the women gonna go now
Before you tell 'em that you love em so now.

My mama told me, "You better shop around, (Shop, shop)
Oh yeah, you better shop around" (Shop, shop around)

A-try to get yourself a bargain son
Don't be sold on the very first one
A-pretty girls come a dime a dozen,
A-try to find one who's gonna give you true lovin'

Before you take a girl and say I do, now,
Make sure she's in love with-a you now.
My mama told me, "You better shop around."

Ooh yeah, a-try to get yourself a bargain son
Don't be sold on the very first one
A-pretty girls come a dime a dozen,
A-try to find one who's gonna give you true lovin'.

Before you take a girl and say I do, now,
Make sure she's in love with-a you now.
Make sure that her love is true now.
I hate to see you feelin' sad and blue now"

My mama told me, "You better shop around (Shop, shop)
Don't let the first one get you
Oh no 'cause I don't want to see her with you
Uh huh before you let her hold you tight, ah yeah make sure she's alright




Uh huh before you let her take your hand my son
Understand my son, be a man my son I know you can my son I love you"

Overall Meaning

Don Bryant's "Shop Around" is a song about the wisdom behind being patient and choosing carefully when it comes to love. The song tells the story of a mother's advice to her son as he comes of age and begins to consider settling down. She urges him to be cautious and not rush into anything, counseling him to "keep your freedom for as long as you can now." The mother emphasizes the importance of shopping around, of not being sold on the very first girl he meets, but instead taking his time and finding "one who's gonna give you true lovin'." The song is a timeless reminder that love is something that must be chosen wisely and deliberately, that the heart should not be given away too quickly or too easily.


The song's chorus, "You better shop around, (Shop, shop) Oh yeah, you better shop around" is sung over and over, emphasizing the advice that the mother is giving to her son. The repetition of this phrase reinforces the central message of the song, that shopping around for love is the wise course of action. The lyrics also allude to the impermanence of relationships and the fact that people come and go in our lives. The singer's mother tells him that he should be aware that "the women come and the women gonna go now" and that he needs to be prepared for this reality.


One possible interpretation of the song's lyrics is that the mother's advice is not just about romantic love, but also about the importance of being discerning and patient in all areas of life. By encouraging her son to take his time and not rush into anything, she is teaching him a valuable life lesson about the importance of wisdom and discernment.


Line by Line Meaning

When I became of age my mother called me to her side,
As I reached a certain age, my mother reminded me that I am growing up and will soon start thinking of settling with a woman.


She said, "Son, you're growing up now pretty soon you'll take a bride"
My mother told me that I'm reaching adulthood and soon I'll get married.


And then she said, "Just because you've become a young man now,
My mother cautioned me that despite my age, there are still things I don't fully understand.


There's still somethings that you don't understand now,
My mother wanted me to be aware of the things that I have not yet grasped.


Before you ask some girl for her hand now
My mother advised me to evaluate things carefully before proposing to a girl.


Keep your freedom for as long as you can now."
My mother encouraged me to stay single until I was sure that I had found the right partner to settle down with.


My mama told me, "You better shop around, (Shop, shop)
My mother instructed me to explore all my options and not settle for the first girl I meet.


Ah, there's somethings that I want you to know now
I was curious about the advice my mother gave me and wanted to hear more from her.


Just as sure as the winds gonna blow now
My mother wanted me to understand that women come and go just as easily as the wind blows.


The women come and the women gonna go now
My mother told me to brace myself for relationships that don't work out because it's inevitable.


Before you tell 'em that you love em so now.
My mother cautioned me against declaring love too soon in a relationship.


A-try to get yourself a bargain son
My mother advised me to look out for someone who is worth the effort I'll put into the relationship.


Don't be sold on the very first one
I was warned not to sell myself too quick or too easily especially to the first girl I meet.


A-pretty girls come a dime a dozen,
My mother reminded me that there are many lovely women in the world.


A-try to find one who's gonna give you true lovin'
My mother encouraged me to find someone who will love me truly and faithfully.


Before you take a girl and say I do, now,
My mother cautioned me to think carefully before marriage.


Make sure she's in love with-a you now.
My mother wanted me to ensure that the girl I want to marry reciprocates my love.


Ooh yeah, a-try to get yourself a bargain son
My mother reminded me to make sure that I'm investing my time and effort into someone worth it.


Uh huh before you let her hold you tight, ah yeah make sure she's alright
I was reminded to evaluate the girl closely before becoming emotionally invested in her.


Uh huh before you let her take your hand my son
My mother cautioned me to avoid getting carried away by a girl's advances.


Understand my son, be a man my son I know you can my son I love you"
My mother's final words of encouragement and love towards me as I navigate the world of relationships.




Lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC
Written by: BERRY GORDY JR, WILLIAM ROBINSON JR.

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