When I Was Down
Donell Jones Lyrics


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When I was down you wasn't there for me
Pushed my love right out the door
At this point I can't take no more
When I was down you wasn't there for me
That's the reason I'm leavin' you
Girl I'm through

My all and my everything
She couldn't do no wrong
Until the cash was gone
And she fronted like she cared for me
But what's the possiblity that she was gettin'
Me for my money

When I was down you wasn't there for me
Pushed my love right out the door
At this point I can't take no more
When I was down you wasn't there for me
That's the reason I'm leavin' you
Girl I'm through

No more lies
Baby things done change
I'm not the man I used to be
I gotta look out for me
And after all that we've been through
I can't believe that you would think
That I could love you

Oh
Things done change
And my life just ain't the same
And you been tryin'to come back home to me
That ain't gonna happen

When I was down you wasn't there for me
Pushed my love right out the door
At this point I can't take no more
When I was down you wasn't there for me




That's the reason I'm leavin' you
Girl I'm through

Overall Meaning

The lyrics to Donell Jones's song "When I Was Down" tell the story of a man who is fed up with his partner's lack of support when he was experiencing tough times. He was struggling financially and emotionally but his significant other was not there for him. The man feels betrayed and hurt by the person he trusted and loved. He wants out of the relationship because he has lost faith in his partner and doesn't believe they have his best interests at heart. The song itself is a standard R&B ballad with a smooth melody that complements the lyrics.


The lyrics also bring to the surface issues of trust and manipulation within a relationship. The man feels like his partner may have been using him for money all along, particularly since their relationship started to deteriorate as soon as his money ran out. This reveals the possibility of the woman's true motive and whether her love was genuine or just a façade.


Overall, the song depicts the painful realities of love, heartbreak, and moving on. The situation described in the lyrics is relatable, and many people may have experienced similar situations in their own lives.


Line by Line Meaning

When I was down you wasn't there for me
When I was going through a tough time, you weren't there to support me.


Pushed my love right out the door
Your actions caused me to lose my feelings of love for you.


At this point I can't take no more
I've reached my limit with this relationship and can't continue anymore.


That's the reason I'm leavin' you
Your lack of support during my difficult time is the main reason why I'm breaking up with you.


Girl I'm through
I'm done with this relationship.


My all and my everything
You were my everything, and I gave you everything I had.


She couldn't do no wrong
I believed that she was perfect and couldn't make any mistakes.


Until the cash was gone
When I ran out of money, things started to change.


And she fronted like she cared for me
She pretended to care about me and my well-being.


But what's the possiblity that she was gettin'
There's a possibility that she was just using me for my money.


Me for my money
She was only interested in me because of my money.


No more lies
I can't deal with any more deceit or dishonesty.


Baby things done change
Things have changed between us, and I can't ignore that.


I'm not the man I used to be
I've grown and changed as a person, and my priorities in life have shifted.


I gotta look out for me
I need to focus on taking care of myself and my own well-being.


And after all that we've been through
Despite everything we've experienced together, I can't continue in this relationship.


I can't believe that you would think
I'm surprised that you could still imagine a future together after everything that's happened.


That I could love you
I no longer have romantic feelings for you and can't imagine loving you again.


And my life just ain't the same
My life has changed since we broke up, and I've moved on to a different place emotionally.


And you been tryin'to come back home to me
You've been attempting to reconcile with me and come back into my life.


That ain't gonna happen
I'm not interested in getting back together with you and moving backwards in my life.




Lyrics Β© Downtown Music Publishing, Kobalt Music Publishing Ltd., Warner Chappell Music, Inc.
Written by: Curtis Mayfield, Donell Jones, Sheldon Goode

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Soul Flower

Donell is underrated it doesnt make no sense.. love this man

Jarel Grant

Played this at work and they looked at me like I was crazy

Jason Emile

Bruh...this album is his magnum opus and probably in the top 3 albums of the early 2000’s late 90’s for its overall lyrical content, flow, consistency, vocals, musicality.

David Leonard

Jarel Grant they wasn't ready for it...most the world wasn't...props to you for trying to educate lol

Donell1975

Donell jones the smoothest in the game πŸ•΄πŸ‘ŒπŸ‘ŒπŸ‘Œ

Jason Emile

2020 it’s still a random go to song. Whole album should be canonized in the R&B bible.



Update...still listening in 2050.

R Carter

love how he flipped that curtis mayfeild

Augustus White

Like its that hard.come on, the credit is all Curtis Mayfield.

Paperplane Jane

still underrated and I still love to hear his voiceπŸ’•βœ¨

ohandza jean

One of the best song of this album

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