It's Not the Way
Donna Summer Lyrics


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We used to south of paradise
That was okay until you put your heart on ice
Walked out the door but you couldn't say goodbye
Hide away and left me lonely
When I asked you why
You wouldn't be precise
Now it's my turn, start taking my advice
It's not the way that you love me
It's not the way that you care

Running down long back alleys
Pouting like a spoiled child
You've been acting so crazy, driving me wild
Your heart is like an elevator
You tell me that's just human nature
I've done all I can, I can't seem to change you

It's not the way that you love me
It's not the way that you care

Oh no, it's not the way
Oh no, it's not the way
Listen mister to what I say
Oh no, it's not the way

Your love is like a nasty habit
I finally got control but I just can't take it
I tried to be cool but I just can't make it
Your heart is like an elevator
You tell me that it's just human nature
I've done all I can, but just can't change you

Oh no, it's not the way
Oh no, it's not the way
Listen mister to what I say
Oh no, it's not the way
Oh no, it's not the way
Listen mister to what I say
Oh no, it's not the way

Love is tough, love is tender
Love will make your heart surrender
Love is sweet, love is kind
Love will always blow your mind

It's not the way that you love me
It's not the way that you care

Oh no, it's not the way
Oh no, it's not the way
Listen mister to what I say
Oh no, it's not the way
Oh no, it's not the way
Listen mister to what I say
Oh no, it's not the way
Oh no, it's not the way
Listen mister to what I say
Oh no, it's not the way




Oh no, it's not the way
Listen mister to what I say.

Overall Meaning

“It’s Not the Way” is a song by Donna Summer from her album “All Systems Go”, released in 1987. The song is about a failed relationship that has left the singer feeling lonely and confused. The song starts by talking about the good times the couple used to share, however, things have now changed due to the other person putting their heart on ice. The singer asks why the other person is acting this way, but doesn’t get a clear answer, so decides to give some advice instead. The chorus of the song repeats the line “It’s not the way that you love me, it's not the way that you care,” emphasizing that the way the other person is treating the singer is not a healthy form of love.


The second verse talks about the other person’s behavior, describing them as acting crazy and driving the singer wild. The other person’s heart is compared to an elevator – always up and down, with no explanation. The singer has tried to change the other person, but nothing seems to work. The chorus is then repeated, followed by a bridge that describes love as both tough and tender, sweet and kind. The song ends with a repetition of the chorus and the call for the other person to listen to what the singer is saying.


Line by Line Meaning

We used to south of paradise
We used to be happy and content.


That was okay until you put your heart on ice
Everything was fine until you became cold-hearted.


Walked out the door but you couldn't say goodbye
You left without even saying goodbye.


Hide away and left me lonely
You disappeared and left me feeling alone.


When I asked you why
When I asked for an explanation.


You wouldn't be precise
You wouldn't give me a clear answer.


Now it's my turn, start taking my advice
It's my turn to give advice because I've had enough.


It's not the way that you love me
The way you love me is not right.


It's not the way that you care
The way you care for me is not right.


Running down long back alleys
Trying to escape and hide.


Pouting like a spoiled child
Behaving like a child who doesn't get their way.


You've been acting so crazy, driving me wild
Your crazy behavior is making me lose my mind.


Your heart is like an elevator
Your emotions are constantly changing up and down.


You tell me that's just human nature
You excuse your behavior as just being normal.


I've done all I can, I can't seem to change you
I have tried to change you, but it seems impossible.


Oh no, it's not the way
No, this is not right.


Listen mister to what I say
Pay attention to what I am saying.


Your love is like a nasty habit
Your love is like something I need to quit.


I finally got control but I just can't take it
I am finally able to control my emotions but I can't stand it anymore.


I tried to be cool but I just can't make it
I tried to handle the situation calmly, but I can't do it anymore.


Love is tough, love is tender
Love can be both difficult and gentle.


Love will make your heart surrender
Love has the power to make you vulnerable.


Love is sweet, love is kind
Love can also be beautiful and compassionate.


Love will always blow your mind
Love has the ability to affect you deeply.




Lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group
Written by: MICHAEL S OMARTIAN, DONNA SUMMER

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