not today
Dr. Dre Feat. Mary J Blige Lyrics


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This is another one of those heartbreak hotel joints for the ladies
Why won't you grow up and be a man someday
I can't believe that you're still playing silly games
Now why do I put up with all this child's play
Now if your word is all you have
Then you ain't worth a damn thing

Promises you told me every day
That you made you never ever kept
By me I really want to believe
But not today, not today, not today, not today

You're the worst
I can't even depend on you
you say a lot of good things
But something else you always do
Be a man of your word
Try to love something other than you
But now you can be on your way
'Cause I don't want you to stay

Promises bout our house
Bout the kids
Lifestyle we would live
Who the fuck you really is
In my face
All the time
Spittin' line after line
Broke down my wall and you got in my mind
You's a fake shoulda known
All the signs I was wrong
Believed what I saw
And your cover was blown
Breakup, leave
Make up, please
You's a magician all them tricks up your sleeve
Had me for a minute
I was in it
you played good
But I'ma get you
I'ma make moves
And I'ma leave you where you at dog, chill
Go back to square one
Wait for something real
Selfish nigga
Could have helped you nigga
Usually know betta but I felt you nigga
I guess getting in my head was a part of the plan
'Cause in reality the only thing you giving me is

Promises you told me every day
That you made you never ever kept
By me I really want to believe
But not today, not today, not today, not today

Promises you told me every day
That you made you never ever kept
By me I really want to believe
But not today, not today, not today, not today

Don't let him waste your time, girl
He's only telling lies, girl
And when he apologizes (and he will)
Don't be believing that man
'Cause he gon' do it again

Promises you told me every day
That you made you never ever kept




By me I really want to believe
But not today, not today, not today, not today

Overall Meaning

The song "Not Today" by Dr. Dre featuring Mary J. Blige is a powerful message to a man who has been playing games and breaking promises. The lyrics express the frustration and pain of a woman who has been lied to and let down multiple times. She pleads with him to grow up and be a man, to be honest and keep his promises. But she has reached a breaking point and declares that she can't put up with the games and lies any longer. Mary J. Blige's soulful voice captures the emotion and reinforces the message of the lyrics.


The song touches on themes of trust, honesty, and accountability in relationships. It highlights the importance of keeping one's word and the pain and damage that can be caused when promises are broken. The lyrics also emphasize the need for self-respect and the courage to walk away from a toxic situation.


The chorus of the song repeats the line "Not today" four times, driving home the point that the woman has had enough and won't tolerate any more lies or broken promises. The song is a powerful anthem of empowerment for anyone who has been let down and hurt by someone they trusted.


Line by Line Meaning

This is another one of those heartbreak hotel joints for the ladies
The song is a sad one for women who have been hurt by men


Why won't you grow up & be a man someday
It's time for the man to act like a grown-up


I can't believe that you're still playing silly games
The man is still doing childish things


Now why do I put up w/ all this child's play
Why does she tolerate his immature behavior?


Now if your word is all you have
The only thing the man has to offer is his promises


Then you ain't worth a damn thing
If you don't keep your promises, you're worthless


Promises you told me every day
The man made a lot of promises


That you made you never ever kept
But he never kept them


By me I really want to believe
The woman wants to trust the man


But not today, not today, not today, not today
But not anymore, not today, not ever again


You're the worst
The man is terrible


I can't even depend on you
She can't rely on him


you say a lot of good things
The man talks a good game


But something else you always do
But he always does something else


Be a man of your word
The woman wants the man to keep his promises


Try to love something other than you
The woman wants the man to care about something other than himself


But now you can be on your way
It's time for the man to leave


Cause I don't want you to stay
She doesn't want him around anymore


Promises bout our house
The man made promises about their future together


Bout the kids
He promised things about their future children


Lifestyle we would live
He promised a certain lifestyle


Who the fuck you really is
Who is he really, anyway?


In my face
He's always around


All the time
It never stops


Spittin' line after line
He's always making promises


Broke down my wall and you got in my mind
He broke through her defenses and got into her head


You's a fake shoulda known
He's a phony and she should have seen it


All the signs I was wrong
She missed all the signs that he was no good


Believed what I saw
She trusted what she saw, even though it wasn't real


And your cover was blown
His true nature was exposed


Breakup, leave
Their relationship is over


Make up, please
But he wants to get back together


You's a magician all them tricks up your sleeve
He's a master at deception


Had me for a minute
She fell for it for a while


I was in it
She was swept up in the lies


you played good
He was convincing


But I'mma get you
But now she's going to get him back


I'mma make moves
She's going to take action


And I'mma leave you where you at dog, chill
She's going to leave him behind and move on


Go back to square one
He'll have to start from scratch


Wait for something real
He should wait for something genuine


Selfish nigga
The man is selfish


Could have helped you nigga
She could have been there for him


Usually know betta but I felt you nigga
But she should have known better than to trust him


I guess getting in my head was a part of the plan
He intentionally manipulated her


Cause in reality the only thing you giving me is
In reality, he's not giving her anything at all


Don't let him waste your time girl
She shouldn't waste any more time on him


He's only telling lies girl
He's not telling the truth


And when he apologizes (and he will)
He'll probably apologize, but it won't be sincere


Don't be believing that man
She shouldn't believe him anymore


Cause he gon' do it again
Because he'll do the same thing again




Lyrics © JELLYBEAN MUSIC GROUP, RINCON AVE MUSIC, BMG Rights Management, Universal Music Publishing Group, Warner Chappell Music, Inc.
Written by: Andre Young, Michael Elizondo, Theron Feemster, Mary J. Blige, Eve Jeffers, Bruce Miller, Curtis Lee Hudson, Lisa C. Stevens

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