Ghost to Most
Drive-By Truckers Lyrics


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I guess I'll never grow a side-burn
It's a shame with all I've got to go between
I hope somebody's cause takes soon
It's getting hard to find a place a root can sink
Mama said a lot of things and be thankful was the one she never minded saying twice
Thanks to her I can think clear enough,
To be thankful that she died before tonight
Saving everybody takes a man on a mission
With a swagger that can set the world at ease
Some believe it's God's own hand on the trigger
And the other dumping water in the streets
Talking tough is easy when it's other people's evil
And you're judging what they do or don't believe
It seems to me you'd have to have a hole you're own
To point a finger at somebody else's sheet

Baby every bone in my body's gone to jumping
Like they're gonna come through my skin
If they could get along without the rest of me, it wouldn't matter if they did
But skeletons ain't got nowhere to stick they're money
Nobody makes britches that size
And besides you're a ghost to most before they notice,
That you ever had a hair or a hide

I don't know how good it does a man,
To keep on telling him how good it is he's free




Free to wash his ghost down the drain,
And free for them to tell him there's no such a thing

Overall Meaning

The song A Ghost to Most was released by the southern rock band Drive-By Truckers in 2008. The lyrics of the song are a reflection on mortality, human fallibility, and the fleeting nature of fame. The first verse is about the singer's inability to grow sideburns, it is used as a metaphor for the singer feeling like he is missing out on something that he should have been able to achieve. He then goes on to talk about how hard it is to find a place to truly belong, and how his mother's death has affected him and allowed him to think more clearly about life.


The chorus speaks of saving everybody, a belief that some men have a role to play in the salvation of others, but the singer goes on to question the nature of judging others and how easy it is to talk tough when it concerns other people's wrongdoings. The second verse talks about the feeling that the singer has, how every bone in his body is jumping and he feels as if they are going to come out of his skin. He reflects on the idea of being a ghost to most, how people don't notice one's existence until it's too late.


Overall, the song explores the idea of mortality and the fleeting nature of fame. It questions ideas of judgment and salvation, and reflects on the idea of being an outsider in society.


Line by Line Meaning

I guess I'll never grow a side-burn
It's a lamentation about not being able to become someone he admires or idolizes.


It's a shame with all I've got to go between
It's a shame with all the options there are but I can't seem to find what I am looking for.


I hope somebody's cause takes soon
I hope someone else's purpose or movement can take over to create a change.


It's getting hard to find a place a root can sink
It's getting hard to find a place to fit in and belong.


Mama said a lot of things and be thankful was the one she never minded saying twice
The mother emphasized the importance of being grateful even if she said it frequently.


Thanks to her I can think clear enough,
The singer's mother helped him/her understand the importance of being thankful.


To be thankful that she died before tonight
The singer is thankful his/her mother didn't have to witness or experience a particular situation.


Saving everybody takes a man on a mission
Creating a change that benefits everyone requires a person with a goal and a purpose.


With a swagger that can set the world at ease
The person making a difference should have an aura or confidence that can calm others.


Some believe it's God's own hand on the trigger
Some people believe that God is responsible for the good or the bad happening in the world.


And the other dumping water in the streets
Instead of helping, some people can make things worse.


Talking tough is easy when it's other people's evil
It's easy to criticize others from the outside.


And you're judging what they do or don't believe
You are passing a judgment on their thoughts and ideas.


It seems to me you'd have to have a hole you're own
A person who is broken in their own way can find faults and cracks in others easily.


To point a finger at somebody else's sheet
To criticize or blame someone else for their actions or choices.


Baby every bone in my body's gone to jumping
The artist is feeling anxious and uneasy to the point of discomfort.


Like they're gonna come through my skin
The anxiety is intense and suffocating.


If they could get along without the rest of me, it wouldn't matter if they did
The singer's anxiety is overwhelming to the extent that they feel their body could do without their existence.


But skeletons ain't got nowhere to stick they're money
Monetary possessions don't matter after death because no one can take them along.


Nobody makes britches that size
Money or possessions can't buy everything.


And besides you're a ghost to most before they notice,
People don't pay attention to you until you are gone.


That you ever had a hair or a hide
People won't remember or care about you even after you're gone.


I don't know how good it does a man,
The singer is unsure how helpful it is to tell someone they are free.


To keep on telling him how good it is he's free
Being free is important, but the constant reminder of it can be somewhat pointless.


Free to wash his ghost down the drain,
Free to erase and forget oneself.


And free for them to tell him there's no such a thing
Free for others to deny what he believes in or hopes for.




Lyrics © CONCORD MUSIC PUBLISHING LLC, Peermusic Publishing, WORDS & MUSIC A DIV OF BIG DEAL MUSIC LLC
Written by: JOHN MICHAEL COOLEY

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Comments from YouTube:

Kyle Littleton

For me this is a truth about handling struggles on the inside and how it effects us on the outside. I lost a child and the pain of moving on and how torn I have been about putting one foot in front of the other. it's almost like one part of you is dead and the other is judging your self and everyone else. Cooley you're a true talent.

David Wurm

Hope you are doing ok, friend

zipy doda

I lost someone very special to me. That little boy turned a hard ass into a gentle soul. O miss him terribly

Chrissi Matusevics

this band is just blow you away amazing seen them live and just....WOW!!!!!!!

Princess-Caro

This is my favorite DBT song, Cooley songs are always the greatest.

Scott Gilbert

I agree ✌️

paul grim

It's brilliant!

CountryMusic52

My favorite song of all time.

fisty mopar

Cooley's magnum opus....

J.B. Beverley

This song saved my life.. Literally. I owe Cooley a debt of gratitude like none other. 

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