Panties In Your Purse
Drive-By Truckers Lyrics


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Saw you standing in the hallway, red plastic
Cup, and one of those big long
Cigarettes
You asked me if I could play you some Dylan
I said "Dylan who?" you told me to kiss your ass
I apologized, but you could tell I didn't
Mean it by the way I rolled my eyes
And when you said it wasn't me it was you
Somehow I knew you were gonna tell me why

Stuff was flying out of the window
Falling and breaking on the pavement underneath
He's screaming at you, red faced and fuming

He'd come home early, parked his car way up the street
You had your stockings in your hand, panties in your purse
It was ten a.m. and all the neighbors heard
Him calling you a whore and a tramp
You just stood there while your heels sank into the warm wet ground

He got a lawyer, you got a bottle
He got the children and you moved in with your mama
She fixes breakfast and lets you use her car
She don't care how late you call to tell her where you are
Ya'll still fight and she still nags you some
But somehow it's different now than when you were young




It's your own damn fault you been threw hell
For one reason or another, somehow she kinda blames herself

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of "Panties In Your Purse" by Drive-By Truckers tell a story of a woman caught in the turmoil of a failing relationship. The song starts with a scene where the singer sees the woman in the hallway holding a plastic cup and a cigarette. She asks him to play Dylan, but when he doesn't know which Dylan, she tells him off. The conversation that follows reveals that the woman is going through a difficult time, and she confesses that it's not him but her who is to blame for the situation.


Later in the song, the scene switches to a fight between the woman and her partner. The man comes home and finds her with stockings in hand and panties in her purse, suggesting that she was cheating. The man calls her names, and the neighbors hear the fight. The woman just stands there, sinking her heels into the ground as her partner gets more and more enraged.


The story continues with details about how the couple eventually separates, with the man getting the children and the woman moving in with her mother. She drinks, her mother nags her, and yet somehow, the woman blames herself for everything that has happened to her.


Overall, "Panties In Your Purse" is a powerful song that tells a dramatic story of a woman's struggle to overcome a difficult relationship. It captures the complexities of human relationships and explores themes of betrayal, guilt, and the difficulties of moving on.


Line by Line Meaning

Saw you standing in the hallway, red plastic Cup, and one of those big long Cigarettes
The singer first sets the scene, describing how they saw the subject standing in the hallway with a red plastic cup and a long cigarette.


You asked me if I could play you some Dylan
The subject asked the singer to play some music by Bob Dylan.


I said "Dylan who?" you told me to kiss your ass
The singer pretended not to know who Bob Dylan was, causing the subject to insult them.


I apologized, but you could tell I didn't Mean it by the way I rolled my eyes
The artist apologized, but the subject could tell they were insincere based on their sarcastic tone.


And when you said it wasn't me it was you Somehow I knew you were gonna tell me why
The subject took the opportunity to explain why the artist’s behavior was frustrating them, and the artist expected this.


Stuff was flying out of the window Falling and breaking on the pavement underneath He's screaming at you, red faced and fuming
There was a violent altercation, with objects being thrown out of a window and breaking on the ground. The subject’s partner was screaming and angry.


He'd come home early, parked his car way up the street You had your stockings in your hand, panties in your purse
The subject’s partner unexpectedly came home early, and they were caught having an affair. They had taken off their stockings and put their panties in a purse.


It was ten a.m. and all the neighbors heard Him calling you a whore and a tramp
Despite the early time of day, the altercation was loud enough for neighbors to hear. The partner was calling the subject derogatory names.


You just stood there while your heels sank into the warm wet ground
The subject didn’t react to the partner’s insults, even as they were standing on damp ground in high heels.


He got a lawyer, you got a bottle He got the children and you moved in with your mama
After the altercation, the partner got a lawyer and custody of the children. The subject turned to drinking and moved back in with their mother.


She fixes breakfast and lets you use her car She don't care how late you call to tell her where you are
The subject’s mother is helpful and allows them to use her car. She is also lenient about curfews and doesn’t mind if the subject calls her late at night.


Ya'll still fight and she still nags you some But somehow it's different now than when you were young
Even though the subject and their mother still argue, it’s not the same dynamic they had when the subject was younger.


It's your own damn fault you been threw hell For one reason or another, somehow she kinda blames herself
The subject’s mother thinks that the reason the subject has gone through so much hardship is their own fault, but she still feels partly responsible nonetheless.




Lyrics © THE BICYCLE MUSIC COMPANY
Written by: JOHN COOLEY

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