3rd Man In
Dropkick Murphys Lyrics


Jump to: Overall Meaning ↴  Line by Line Meaning ↴

My friends, my town, comraderie.
Weill never finish last
We stood as one where are they now
We grew up fast
To young to know or really give a shit the past has left us worse for ware.

Be strong and stand Stand up like a man
Your concept of Friendship isn't right
Third man in is how you show your care Nothing else matters but the fight!





Overall Meaning

The lyrics to Dropkick Murphys’s song 3rd Man In are an ode to the concept of brotherhood and loyalty, particularly within a community or group of friends. The mention of “my friends,” “my town,” and “comraderie” highlights the importance of these relationships in the singer’s life. Despite any hardships they have faced or mistakes that may have been made along the way, they will always stand as one and never finish last.


However, the line “To young to know or really give a shit the past has left us worse for ware” implies that these relationships were not always easy or uncomplicated. The singer acknowledges that they may have done things in the past that they regret, or that they have been hurt by others’ actions. But despite this, they have remained loyal and committed to each other.


The song’s title, 3rd Man In, refers to a hockey term where a player intervenes in a fight between two other players. The chorus encourages the listener to be strong and show their care for their friends by being the third man in, supporting them in any fight or conflict that may arise. The lyrics suggest that this is the true measure of friendship, and that nothing else matters as long as they are fighting together.


Overall, this song is about the bond and loyalty that can exist between friends, even in the face of adversity. The singer emphasizes the importance of standing up for each other and always having each other’s back, no matter what.


Line by Line Meaning

My friends, my town, comraderie.
The singer cherishes the bond between him and his friends and their shared sense of belonging to their town.


We will never finish last
The singer feels certain that they will always thrive and come out on top in their endeavors.


We stood as one where are they now
The singer wonders where their old comrades have gone and whether they still share the unity and solidarity they used to have.


We grew up fast
The singer and the friends he refers to had to mature and face challenges at a young age, which has affected them deeply.


Too young to know or really give a shit, the past has left us worse for wear.
While they were too immature to understand the consequences of their actions, the singer and his friends have been scarred by the difficult experiences they went through and the poor choices they made in the past.


Be strong and stand, Stand up like a man
The singer encourages his listeners to show courage and face their struggles head-on, while also stressing traditional notions of masculinity.


Your concept of Friendship isn't right
The singer believes that his idea of friendship involves providing physical protection and fighting alongside your friends, which conflicts with other people's ideas of what true friendship means.


Third man in is how you show your care. Nothing else matters but the fight!
The singer believes that physically intervening in conflicts on behalf of your friends is the ultimate way to show your loyalty and love for them, even if it means disregarding other moral or ethical concerns.




Lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group
Written by: KEN CASEY, MATTHEW EDWARD KELLY, RICK BARTON

Lyrics Licensed & Provided by LyricFind
To comment on or correct specific content, highlight it

Genre not found
Artist not found
Album not found
Song not found
Comments from YouTube:

Josh Seth

You never let your friends out manned or out gunned. Stand together!

Becky Lippa

Love this one. For me, it's also third man out, girl with the hug hold, not worth it boy, some fights aren't worth feeding. THX DKM ❤️ It takes courage to fight as well as to stand down.

Thomas Hartmann

Always fight!!!!!

Logan138

the best