My Boy
Duffy Lyrics


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I'm his lover not his mother
Why you starin' at each other?
What's your problem?

I'm not his keeper,
I'm his teacher
Ho, 'n it goes deeper
What's your problem?

I can't control, these feelings I have inside
I had to let go, let go of my pride
Age is a number
Don't steal my thunder
Can't love no other, other, other

You're my boy,
Keepin' you inside so they don't see that you're my boy
Keepin' you inside so they don't see that you're my boy
Keepin' you inside so they don't see that you're my boy
My boy, my boy!

Where's the blame, where's the shame?
We're just two hearts come together
What's your problem?

He's not a boy, not a toy
He's man enough to understand
What's your problem?

I can't control these feelings I have inside
I had to let go, let go of my prize
Age is a number
Don't steal my thunder
I can't love no other, other, other

You're my boy,
Keepin' you inside so they don't see that you're my boy
Keepin' you inside so they don't see that you're my boy
Keepin' you inside so they don't see that you're my boy
My boy, my boy!

Don't mind tellin' you baby, she says he's my boy
Don't mind tellin' you baby, she says he's my boy
Don't mind tellin' you baby, she says he's my boy
Don't mind tellin' you baby, she says he's my boy
My boy, my boy

Yes, you're my boy,
Keepin' you inside so they don't see that you're my boy
Keepin' you inside so they don't see that you're my boy




Keepin' you inside so they don't see that you're my boy
My boy, my boy!

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of Duffy's song My Boy speak of a relationship between an older woman and a younger man. The song is a defense of her relationship as she responds to people who are staring and judging her for being in a relationship with someone younger. The first verse, "I'm his lover, not his mother. Why you starin' at each other? What's your problem?" is a direct challenge to anyone who would harshly judge their love. The singer then goes on to explain that she is not responsible for him but is a teacher to him. She can't control the feelings she has for him and had to let go of her pride to be with him.


The chorus repeats "You're my boy, keeping you inside so they don't see that you're my boy" as a way of expressing her possessiveness and protectiveness of him. She does not want others to judge or interfere with their relationship. The second verse of the song continues the challenge to those who would judge their love, essentially saying that love knows no bounds and it is nobody's business but their own. The song ends with a repetition of the chorus, emphasizing how much the singer cares for and wants to protect her boy, her lover.


Overall, the lyrics of My Boy are a powerful defense of a love that is often controversial and misunderstood. The singer is challenging society's norms and conventions and standing up for her right to be with the person she loves. It speaks to the universal theme of love knows no bounds, and we should all be free to love and be loved, regardless of age, race, gender, or any other factors.


Line by Line Meaning

I'm his lover not his mother
I am in a romantic relationship with him, not a maternal one


Why you starin' at each other?
What is the reason behind your stare at us?


What's your problem?
Is there any issue with this relationship?


I'm not his keeper,
I am not his guardian or person responsible for his actions


I'm his teacher
I am guiding him through our relationship


Ho, 'n it goes deeper
There is more to this relationship than what meets the eye


What's your problem?
Is there any issue with this relationship?


I can't control, these feelings I have inside
I am unable to control my emotions


I had to let go, let go of my pride
I had to set aside my ego for this relationship


Age is a number
Age is not a significant factor in this relationship


Don't steal my thunder
Don't take away from the importance of our connection


Can't love no other, other, other
I cannot love anyone else in the same way


You're my boy,
You are my partner


Keepin' you inside so they don't see that you're my boy
Keeping our relationship a secret to avoid judgment from others


Where's the blame, where's the shame?
What is wrong with being in this relationship?


We're just two hearts come together
We are two people in love


He's not a boy, not a toy
He is a grown man, not someone to be used for pleasure


He's man enough to understand
He is mature enough to comprehend the complexities of our relationship


I had to let go, let go of my prize
I had to let go of my preconceived notions and stereotypes for this relationship


Don't mind tellin' you baby, she says he's my boy
I am not afraid to say out loud that he is mine


My boy, my boy!
He is my partner and I am proud of that fact




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Written by: ALBERT HAMMOND, AIMEE DUFFY

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