I'm Afraid
Duke Ellington Lyrics


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I′m affraid of wanting you too much
So affraid of trembling at your touch
This is no time to start flashing your eyes at me
I have to watch my heart
It bruises so easily

Don't insist
There′s much, too much concerned
If we kiss my memory might get burned
And if I fell in love
I might get hurt, who knows?
I'm affraid but anyway he goes





He goes

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of Duke Ellington's classic jazz song "I'm Afraid" convey the singer's inner turmoil regarding the possibility of falling in love. The singer admits to being afraid of wanting the other person too much, as this could lead to vulnerability and potential hurt. They are apprehensive about the effect that physical contact could have on their emotions and are wary of the other person's advances.


The singer acknowledges that they must be cautious with their heart, as it is easily bruised. The fear of being hurt is a central theme throughout the song, and the singer is hesitant to take any chances that could lead to heartache. They implore the other person not to insist on anything, as there is too much at stake, and the possibility of kissing or falling in love might be too overwhelming.


Despite their reservations, the singer admits that they are still drawn to the other person and is left to contemplate what might happen if they were to fall in love. Their final admission that "he goes" suggests that they are resigned to the idea that whatever happens between them is ultimately out of their control.


Line by Line Meaning

I'm afraid of wanting you too much
I am fearful of desiring you intensely.


So afraid of trembling at your touch
I am terrified of showing physical and emotional vulnerability when you touch me.


This is no time to start flashing your eyes at me
I cannot handle your seductive gaze right now; it only adds to my anxiety.


I have to watch my heart
I need to be cautious and protect my heart from potential harm.


It bruises so easily
My heart is fragile and easily hurt by romantic disappointments.


Don't insist
Please don't pressure me into anything.


There's much, too much concerned
There are too many worries and risks that come with pursuing a romantic relationship.


If we kiss my memory might get burned
If we engage in physical intimacy, it may create lasting memories that I may not be able to handle.


And if I fell in love I might get hurt, who knows?
If I develop romantic feelings for you, it could result in emotional pain and uncertainty.


I'm afraid but anyway he goes
Regardless of my fears and doubts, I am ultimately at your mercy.


He goes
The conclusion of the song emphasizes that despite my apprehensions, the object of my desire is ultimately in control of the direction of our relationship.




Writer(s): Don George, Edward Kennedy Ellington

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