I Must Have That Man
Duke Ellington Lyrics


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Don't want my mammy
I don't need a friend
My heart is broken, it won't ever mend
I ain't much carin'
Just where I will end
I must have that man

I'm like an oven
That's cryin' for heat
He treats me awful
Each time we meet
It's just unlawful
How that boy can cheat
But I must have that man

He's hot as Hades
A lady's not safe in his arms when she's kissed
But I'm afraid that when he's cooled off
And maybe I'm ruled off his list
I'll never be missed
I need that person much worse 'n just bad
I'm half alive 'n he's drivin' me mad
He's only human if he's to be had
I must have that man





I must have that man

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of Duke Ellington’s song “I Must Have That Man” captures the desperation and longing of a woman who is deeply in love with a man who treats her badly. In the opening lines of the song, the woman expresses her desire to no longer rely on her mother or friends for emotional support because her heart is broken and unable to mend itself. She is consumed with thoughts of this man who has a hold on her heart and she can think of nothing else but him. She is ready to go to any lengths to be with him.


The woman describes her feelings towards the man with vivid metaphors, comparing herself to an oven that is crying out for heat. Though she realizes that this man treats her terribly and cheats on her, she cannot bring herself to let go of him. The woman acknowledges that he is hot as hades, dangerous and untrustworthy, yet she feels addicted to his embrace. She is afraid that if he cools off towards her, she will be forgotten and never missed.


The last stanza of the song reveals the depth of the woman’s obsession with the man. She states that she needs him much worse than just badly and that he is driving her insane. She explains that he is just a human being, and therefore susceptible to being had, implying that she is willing to exploit him in whatever way she can to be with him. In summary, the lyrics to Duke Ellington’s “I Must Have That Man” reveal the complicated and often irrational emotions that overtake us when we are in love.


Line by Line Meaning

Don't want my mammy
I don't need anyone to take care of me.


I don't need a friend
I don't need someone to be my friend right now.


My heart is broken, it won't ever mend
My heart is broken, and no one can fix it.


I ain't much carin'
I don't really care right now.


Just where I will end
I don't care where I end up.


I must have that man
I need that man in my life.


I'm like an oven
I am burning up from the inside, craving his heat.


That's cryin' for heat
I am desperately in need of his warmth.


He treats me awful
He treats me badly every time we meet.


Each time we meet
Whenever we see each other.


It's just unlawful
His behavior is unacceptable and goes against the law.


How that boy can cheat
He cheats on me and it is unbelievable.


He's hot as Hades
He is incredibly attractive and irresistible.


A lady's not safe in his arms when she's kissed
He is so seductive that even a woman who is kissed by him is not safe from his charm.


But I'm afraid that when he's cooled off
I am scared that when he loses interest in me.


And maybe I'm ruled off his list
And maybe he decides to cut me off his life.


I'll never be missed
He will not miss me when I am gone.


I need that person much worse 'n just bad
I need him in my life, more than anyone can imagine.


I'm half alive 'n he's drivin' me mad
I am barely surviving, and thinking about him is making me crazy.


He's only human if he's to be had
He is a human, and he can be caught by me or anyone else.


I must have that man
I need that man in my life, more than anything else in the world.




Lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC, RESERVOIR MEDIA MANAGEMENT INC, Warner Chappell Music, Inc.
Written by: DOROTHY FIELDS, JIMMY MC HUGH

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Comments from YouTube:

Harry Minot

One of those amazing Duke masterpieces!

Thomas .Hennessey

Very interesting instrumental version. Both Adelaide Hall with the pit band from Blackbirds and Billie Holiday a decade plus later have interesting vocal versions, so do Ella Fitzgerald and other recordings after 1950.

Janette Walker

Fine recording - thank you, tremendous.

Christopher Fattibene

This music is awesome!

Main Account

Super excellent with very good interesting photos

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Tartaruss

They don't make music like they used to

Luiz Rosário

Hello how are you? I'm from Brazil !! Do you know where I can get the score of this music ?

bsgs98

***** There is an original copy of the 1928 score for sale on Ebay for $9.99..
http://www.ebay.com/itm/McHugh-Blackbirds-of-1928-I-Must-Have-That-Man-spine-split-/371265870332?pt=LH_DefaultDomain_0&hash=item56712b99fc

You can also purchase a digital copy that you can download to your computer and print. It is sold by several companies. Use this search term in Google: "I must have That Man" sheet music.

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