You Don't Own Me
Dusty Springfield Lyrics
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I'm not just one of your many toys
You don't own me
Don't say I can't go with other boys
And don't tell me what to do
And don't tell me what to say
And, please, when I go out with you
'Cause, you don't own me
Don't try to change me in any way
You don't own me
Don't tie me down
'Cause I'll never stay
I don't tell you what to say
I don't tell you what to do
So, just let me be myself
That's all I ask of you
I'm young and I love to be young
I'm free and I love to be free
To live my life the way that I want
To say and do whatever I please
And, don't tell me what to do, yeah
Don't, don't you tell me what to say
And, please, when I go out with you
Don't put me on display
I don't tell you what to say
I don't tell you what to do
So, just let me be myself
That's all I ask of you
I'm young and I love to be young
I'm free and I love to be free
To live my life the way that I want
The song You Don't Own Me by Dusty Springfield is an anthem of independence and strength, particularly for women. The lyrics convey a message that the singer is not just a possession or toy of someone else, and she demands to be treated as an independent individual. There is a sense of frustration behind the message that the singer is trying to convey, where she wants to be allowed to be herself without any limitations imposed by another person.
The repetition of the phrase "You don't own me" emphasizes the singer's point that she cannot be controlled or treated as an object of someone else's possession. She insists on being able to go out with other boys, and not having to be put on display as someone's trophy. The line "Don't try to change me in any way" resonates strongly with the idea that women were often expected to conform to certain societal expectations, and the singer is rejecting that notion.
The song’s message of feminism and empowerment resonated with many female listeners, and became an instant classic. It has been covered and sampled by various artists, and is often referenced as a symbol of female empowerment. The lyrics also serve as a reminder of the important strides that women have made in gaining equal rights and autonomy.
Line by Line Meaning
You don't own me
I am not an object or possession that you have control over
I'm not just one of your many toys
I am not someone you can play with or manipulate
Don't say I can't go with other boys
I have the freedom to choose who I spend time with
And don't tell me what to do
I am capable of making my own decisions
And don't tell me what to say
I have my own voice and opinion
And, please, when I go out with you
Don't put me on display
I am not an accessory for you to show off
'Cause, you don't own me
I am an independent individual and cannot be owned
Don't try to change me in any way
I am content with who I am and don't need to be molded by someone else
Don't tie me down
'Cause I'll never stay
I need my freedom and cannot be confined to someone's expectations
I don't tell you what to say
I don't tell you what to do
I respect your individuality and expect the same in return
So, just let me be myself
That's all I ask of you
I ask for the space to be who I am without restriction or pressure
I'm young and I love to be young
I'm free and I love to be free
I cherish my youth and freedom and want to enjoy them to the fullest
To live my life the way that I want
To say and do whatever I please
I am the author of my life and want to live it on my own terms
Lyrics © BMG Rights Management, Universal Music Publishing Group, Royalty Network, Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC, Warner Chappell Music, Inc.
Written by: David White, John Madara
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John 3:16
KJV
16 For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life
Romans 10:9
King James Version
9 That if thou shalt confess with thy mouth the Lord Jesus, and shalt believe in thine heart that God hath raised him from the dead, thou shalt be saved
@moluv7115
It's 2022, holds up beautifully. Almost 60 years later, the message of independence still rings true.
@Johnmiller-rg3yo
The rhythm of the 60’s...the crystal clear, magical voice of Dusty..,I was just a child...music and singing of this quality has gone forever..,,sad!❤️🌹🇮🇹🇬🇧🇺🇸
@allytidwell7974
Absolutely agree! I am 35 but I love the classic songs of the 60’s. Music of this quality has long gone…but I am raising my daughter with these songs … proper songs in my opinion!
@Johnmiller-rg3yo
@Ally Tidwell Not doubts she will be a lovely woman…
Our childhood shapes our adult life.🌹
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@allytidwell7974
@John miller it sure does! My parents raised me on 50’s / 60’s music with the old school parenting of having respect for elders and others etc…I turned out alright and doing the same for my little one!
@Johnmiller-rg3yo
@Ally Tidwell 🌹❤️
@romeovillanueva2542
@Ally Tidwell . I'm,,, lol
@whitemanosports503
Dusty one of the best singers of all time. Passion, voice, heart,tears. Time machine back to the days that music made me feel GREAT
@andrer.scipio5352
She was certainly one of the most popular British singers of the 1960s and was nicknamed The Queen of White Soul. Her real name, incidentally, was Mary O'Brien.
@karistone1297
My favourite version of this song! I adore Dusty!!!!