Blame The Vain
Dwight Yoakam Lyrics


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I blame the vain for what we wear
And I blame the blind when we can't see
I blame it all on somebody else
'Til there's nobody left, then I just blame me

I blame her mind for the thoughts we share
Whoa, and I blame her heart for the time we cared
I blame it all on how we used to be
'Til she's finally gone, then I'll just blame me

So go ahead and blame anything that you want
'Cause it all end up the same
When everything that you've been claiming is wrong

Oh and don't you know that blame
Is always never enough
It just keeps you in the game
'Til you've only got yourself left to bluff

I blame the vain for what we wear
And I blame the blind when we can't see
I blame it all on somebody else
'Til there's nobody left, then I just blame me





'Til she's finally gone, then I'll just blame me

Overall Meaning

In Dwight Yoakam's song Blame The Vain, the singer reflects on the tendency people have to blame others for their problems instead of taking responsibility for their own actions. He blames the vain for what people wear and the blind for their inability to see, then admits to blaming others until there is no one left to blame but himself. However, in the end, he still pushes responsibility away by blaming his former lover's mind and heart for their shared thoughts and feelings until she leaves, at which point he will have no one else to blame but himself.


The lyrics of this song are insightful in their commentary on human nature and the tendency to avoid taking responsibility for our shortcomings. Yoakam's repetition of blaming others before finally admitting to blaming himself is relatable to many listeners who have struggled with owning up to their mistakes. The use of the words "vain" and "blind" also adds depth to the song by highlighting the external factors that we often blame for our problems, like societal norms or physical limitations, rather than looking inward and evaluating our own actions.


Overall, Blame The Vain is a powerful reminder that taking responsibility for our actions is an essential part of personal growth and accountability.


Line by Line Meaning

I blame the vain for what we wear
I hold the vain responsible for dictating what we wear and how we present ourselves.


And I blame the blind when we can't see
When we can't see what's going on, I attribute it to the blindness of those involved.


I blame it all on somebody else
I shift the blame to others instead of taking responsibility myself.


'Til there's nobody left, then I just blame me
When everyone else is gone, I finally take accountability for my actions.


I blame her mind for the thoughts we share
I hold her responsible for the thoughts we share, as they originate from her mind.


Whoa, and I blame her heart for the time we cared
The caring we had came from her heart, so I attribute it to her.


I blame it all on how we used to be
I attribute our current situation to how we used to be in the past.


'Til she's finally gone, then I'll just blame me
When she's no longer around, I'll take responsibility for everything that went wrong.


So go ahead and blame anything that you want
Others are free to blame whatever they want without consequence.


'Cause it all end up the same
Regardless of who or what is being blamed, the outcome will always be the same.


When everything that you've been claiming is wrong
If everything you've been blaming is wrong, it's pointless to continue blaming.


Oh and don't you know that blame
Blaming others can have negative consequences.


Is always never enough
Blaming others is never sufficient to address a situation.


It just keeps you in the game
Continuing to blame others allows you to avoid taking necessary action or addressing the situation.


'Til you've only got yourself left to bluff
Eventually, you will be left with no one else to blame and will have to take responsibility for your actions.


I blame the vain for what we wear
I hold the vain responsible for dictating what we wear and how we present ourselves.


And I blame the blind when we can't see
When we can't see what's going on, I attribute it to the blindness of those involved.


I blame it all on somebody else
I shift the blame to others instead of taking responsibility myself.


'Til there's nobody left, then I just blame me
When everyone else is gone, I finally take accountability for my actions.




Lyrics © BMG Rights Management, Warner Chappell Music, Inc.
Written by: DWIGHT DAVID YOAKAM

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