African Lullaby
Eartha Kitt Lyrics


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Barbra Streisand
Streisand Superman
Lullaby For Myself
Self-contained and self-content
No promises to keep
I've got things so together
That i just can't fall asleep
Walked the night and drank the moon
Got home at half-past four,
And i knew that no-one marked my time
As i unlocked my door.
It's really lovely to discover
That you like to be alone
Not to owe your man an answer
When he gets you on the phone
Not to share a pair of porkchops
When you crave champagne and cheese
And your aim becomes to please yourself
And not to aim to please
Oh they sold me when they told me
Two can live as cheap as one
But i'm learning twice you're earning
Doesn't mean it's twice the fun
If you spend your each dime and all your time
On someone else's schemes
I'm not needy but i'm greedy
And i live my deepest dreams
Take an hour in the shower
Use the water while it's hot
In the tub a hand to scrub my back
Is all i haven't got.

Self-aware with self-esteem
Is selfishness a crime?
I take the day for quite a ride
And i take my own sweet time
Time to spare and time to share
And grateful i would be




If just one damn man would share the need
To be alone with me.

Overall Meaning

Eartha Kitt's song "African Lullaby" talks about self-sufficiency and being content with oneself. In the opening lines, the singer talks about being self-contained and not having any promises to keep. She has everything in her life so well arranged that she can't fall asleep easily. The singer talks about indulging in some lone time, wandering around in the night, drinking the moon, and returning home quietly. She is pleased that she doesn't owe her man any explanation or answer when he tries to contact her. She doesn't have to compromise and share her favorite things with anyone. She can please herself, and her only aim is to fulfill her deepest desires. In the end, the singer desires someone who shares her need to be alone.


The song conveys a message to listeners about the importance of self-love and self-care. Being self-contained, being happy with oneself, and spending quality time alone can provide mental and emotional rejuvenation. It also speaks about the double standards of society where women are expected to be sacrificial and selfless towards their partners and families.


Line by Line Meaning

Barbra Streisand
Mentioning a famous actress/singer known for her independence and self-confidence.


Streisand Superman
Referencing the idea of Superman, who is also known for being self-sufficient and able to handle things on his own.


Lullaby For Myself
Describing the song as a soothing melody for the singer alone.


Self-contained and self-content
Expressing contentment and self-sufficiency, not needing anyone else to feel fulfilled.


No promises to keep
Not being beholden to anyone else's expectations or demands.


I've got things so together, that i just can't fall asleep
Feeling accomplished and organized, even to the point of having trouble relaxing and sleeping.


Walked the night and drank the moon
Enjoying the simple beauty of nighttime and being outside at night.


Got home at half-past four, and i knew that no-one marked my time, as i unlocked my door.
Being free to come and go as she pleases, without having to answer to anyone else or explain her whereabouts.


It's really lovely to discover that you like to be alone
Finding joy and comfort in being independent and not needing company all the time.


Not to owe your man an answer, when he gets you on the phone
Being free to choose when and if to communicate with a romantic partner or anyone else.


Not to share a pair of porkchops, when you crave champagne and cheese
Being able to indulge her own tastes and preferences, without having to compromise or adjust for someone else.


And your aim becomes to please yourself, and not to aim to please
Prioritizing her own happiness and satisfaction, rather than worrying about pleasing others.


Oh they sold me when they told me, two can live as cheap as one
Being skeptical of the idea that being with someone is always financially advantageous or necessary.


But i'm learning twice you're earning, doesn't mean it's twice the fun
Realizing that having another person around may not necessarily make life more enjoyable or fulfilling.


If you spend your each dime and all your time, on someone else's schemes
Warning against devoting all of one's resources and energy to someone else's goals and plans, at the expense of their own.


I'm not needy but i'm greedy, and i live my deepest dreams
Acknowledging that she is not dependent on anyone else, but is always striving for her own fulfillment and desires.


Take an hour in the shower, use the water while it's hot
Savoring little moments of luxury and indulgence, when she has the opportunity to enjoy them.


In the tub a hand to scrub my back, is all i haven't got
Not feeling like she needs anyone else for physical comfort or care, but acknowledging that it might be nice to have someone to scrub her back.


Self-aware with self-esteem, is selfishness a crime?
Questioning whether it's truly wrong to be self-aware and have healthy self-esteem.


I take the day for quite a ride, and i take my own sweet time
Choosing to live life on her own terms, at her own pace, without rushing or feeling pressured by others.


Time to spare and time to share, and grateful i would be
Valuing her own free time and opportunities to enjoy life, but open to sharing them with someone who appreciates them.


If just one damn man would share the need, to be alone with me
Expressing a desire for companionship and intimacy, but only if someone can understand and appreciate her need for independence and solitude.




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