I Really Don't Want To Know
Eddy Arnold Lyrics


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How many arms have held you and hated to let you go
How many, how many I wonder, but I really don't want to know
How many lips have kissed you and set your soul aglow
How many, how many I wonder, but I really don't want to know

So always make me wonder, always make me guess
And even if I ask you darling, don't confess
Just let it remain me your secret, but darling, I love you so
No wonder, no wonder, I wonder, no, I really don't want to know





Overall Meaning

The lyrics of Eddy Arnold's song "I Really Don't Want to Know" reflect the singer's fear of knowing the details of his lover's past romantic experiences. The singer is haunted by thoughts of how many other people have held and kissed his lover, but he ultimately decides that he does not want to know the answers to these questions. He prefers to live in the present moment of his relationship with his lover and maintain the illusion that he is the only one who has ever truly loved her. The phrase "always make me wonder, always make me guess" summarizes the singer's desire to remain blissfully ignorant of his lover's past and focus on their current bond.


The song's refrain, "I really don't want to know," underscores the tension between the singer's curiosity about his lover's past and his fear that the truth will undermine his feelings of love and security. The fact that he repeats this phrase four times in the song suggests that his anxieties are persistent and powerful. The final lyrics, "No wonder, no wonder, I wonder, no, I really don't want to know," add a note of ambiguity to the singer's thoughts. He acknowledges that he is still curious about his lover's past, but he is too afraid to pursue the answers. This creates a sense of unresolved tension in the song, as the singer's fears and desires remain unresolved.


Line by Line Meaning

How many arms have held you and hated to let you go
I'm curious to know how many people have loved you, but the thought of someone else holding you makes me feel jealous and uncomfortable, so I'd rather not know.


How many lips have kissed you and set your soul aglow
I wonder how many people have kissed you and made you feel amazing, but the thought of someone else giving you pleasure makes me feel possessive and uneasy, so I don't really want to find out.


So always make me wonder, always make me guess
I like the mystery of not fully knowing your past and your experiences, so please don't give me too much information and keep me guessing.


And even if I ask you darling, don't confess
Even if I ask you directly, please don't tell me the truth about your past lovers, because I might not be able to handle it emotionally.


Just let it remain me your secret, but darling, I love you so
I want your past to be a secret between us, but please know that I still love you deeply and completely, regardless of what happened before we met.


No wonder, no wonder, I wonder, no, I really don't want to know
My curiosity about your past makes me wonder, but I honestly don't want to know too many details, because it might upset me and damage our relationship.




Lyrics © BMG Rights Management, Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC, Warner Chappell Music, Inc.
Written by: Howard Barnes, Don Robertson

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Barry Fong

Eddy's soulful n sincere rendition of this tune really touches me deep inside the core of my very being.

Ed Sauer

there isn't a better singer than this great man!! the great Eddy Arnold!From the first time I heard him I was moved and fond of this great singer!!Love him greatly.

Philip Kaplan

oh my God I never knew these two did this together! This was beautiful and a true hidden gem

Leslie KH See

In fact Eddy Arnold and Skeeter Davis had never done them together but separately in 1954 & 1961 respectively.

Natasha

This was released in a album of Skeeter Davis called "Here's the answer" where many great country legends songs were taken and songs were written to them as if she is answering them in exactly the same tune but lyrics changed to answer to the original songs and I guess released in 1961....

Philip Kaplan

@Natasha very cool info, thank you! Now I just need to interject this random piece of knowledge into my next cocktail party that I am never invited to and I'll be set! :D

Philip Kaplan

@Leslie KH See that somehow makes this more hauntingly beautiful.

Carl5383

I've often wondered how to best describe this music because it's its own sound but is a cross between Frank Sinatra and Hank Williams. Some of these vocalists are extraordinary because the songs become messages to the world, and the singers tell a vital story. Love these songs!

Deanna Sisson

As I've heard before, genre is just a separator. It's how the song makes you feel that is all that really matters. God bless the music, and God bless you, sir.

Deanna Sisson

It seems that it all came about in the late 1940's to the early '50's, pre-Elvis and Pat Boone. Doris Day and Peggy Lee were letting the public know women could sing too and the men had to just scoot over and let them do it. We always called it '40's/50's (if we called it anything at all, because nobody really had a name for it). But genre doesn't matter. It's all how it makes you feel. Some Hank Sr. will make me want to go for a walk, so people don't laugh, when I try to yodel too. Big Bands were getting smaller and more gigs for that reason. Gene Krupa had his own, whether it was a quartet or a sextet. Some years he was able to keep them together on the road, other years he had to take a break from being the boss and fold back into a Big Band. Band singers were becoming movie stars in those days and Dick Haymes once more replaced Frank Sinatra. Ernie Tubb, who they called the Texas Troubadour, had a new girl singer named Loretta Lynn, around that time. Beautiful kid that made you think of the young one that was taking the Country sound by storm with her comedy and the second incarnation of the Carter Family, with her sisters, Anita and Helen. Miss June Carter. It was a fun time, it was a glorious time, but genre? What would you call the music. Like William Wallace said in 'Braveheart'. I'd call it 'Freedom'!

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