In 1982, DeBarge finally found success with their acclaimed second album, All This Love, which gave DeBarge major chart success with singles "Stop! Don't Tease Me," the perennial "I Like It," and the title track. In 1983, DeBarge's third album, In a Special Way garnered yet more success for the group. El and Bunny wrote most of the songs with El most often singing leads. The album produced the hit singles "Time Will Reveal" and "Love Me in a Special Way."
In 1985, the group released their fourth album, Rhythm of the Night which produced hits "The Heart Is Not So Smart," "Who's Holding Donna Now," "You Wear It Well", and the massively successful title track, which was their second single to top the R&B charts, reached #3 in the U.S., and #4 in the U.K. Its music video was featured in the 1985 martial arts film, The Last Dragon as well as in an episode of Miami Vice (Season 2) called "Bought and Paid" for in which "You Wear It Well" was also performed. That year, El appeared as himself in an episode of the television series The Facts of Life and sang "You Wear it Well."
Solo career
After the commercial pop success of "Rhythm of the Night," El left the group in 1986 to begin a solo career. The same year, El released his self-titled debut solo album. "Who's Johnny" was the first single released and was featured in the movie Short Circuit. The single was a major success, peaking at #3 in the U.S. The music video for the song reflected its use in the movie, depicting a mock trial for characters Stephanie Speck and Newton Crosby (Ally Sheedy and Steve Guttenberg, respectively) for the theft of the movie's main character, the robot Johnny 5, with scenes from the movie being shown as evidence.
Other singles from this album were "Someone" and the laid-back ballad "Love Always". A break in El's career, according to some, kept him from the spotlight until 1989 when he returned with a second solo album, Gemini. This marked El's final Motown release to date. "Real Love" was a single, as well as "Broken Dreams." El signed with Warner Brothers and released his third solo album, In The Storm. "You Know What I Like," which featured Chante Moore (Latimore) on co-lead vocals, "My Heart Belongs To You," and a cover of Marvin Gaye's "After The Dance" (recorded with Fourplay and featuring Patti LaBelle) were singles. Two years later, in 1994, El collaborated with hit producer Babyface and released his fourth and most recent to date solo album Heart, Mind and Soul. "Can't Get Enough", "Slide," and a duet with Babyface, "Where Is My Love," were singles.
El teamed up with Quincy Jones to create the successful collaboration, "The Secret Garden," a single from 1990 which also featured Barry White, Al B. Sure!, and James Ingram on vocals. In 1998, El worked with DJ Quik for the single "Hand In Hand."
In 2008, Eldra was featured on RZA's album Digi Snacks on the track "Up Again". "Rhythm of the Night" will be the theme song of Lowes Motor Speedway during the 2008 NASCAR season.
Personal life
According to his mother, Etterlene DeBarge, El is the father of 11 children, the eldest born when El was only fifteen. His children include Adris DeBarge, who is an executive assistant for producer Tracey Edmonds.[3] He is currently separated from Monique DeBarge, having been arrested in 2007 for a conflict stemming from an individual described as "girlfriend."
Legal troubles
El DeBarge was arrested in Los Angeles County, California on August 26, 2007 for possible vandalism, drug possession, and alleged domestic violence.[4] On October 27, 2008 he was sentenced for possession of a controlled substance. Eldra had been arrested earlier in the month after police discovered two warrants for his arrest. [5]. On October 28,2008 he was sentenced to two years in state prison for possession of crack cocaine. He was recently released from prison on October 26, 2009 nearly a year after his sentence.
How Can You Love Me
El DeBarge Lyrics
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You're such a perfect lover,
And baby you can do better with me,
But you stand by me like a soldier,
Sweet loving until,
That's right baby!
Set me up on a pedestal,
Still love me more,
I keep trying to figure it out!
[Chorus]
Tell me how can you love me so much, girl?
Put up with all of the crazy things that I do
How can you love me so much, baby?
I can always count on you.
I think you're trying to tame me,
Yes, you are!
But I don't think you gonna change me no,
The same,
I'm so unpredictable,
Your love is so unconditional for me.
I wanna know why!
Tell me how can you love me so much, girl?
Put up with all of the crazy things that I do
How can you love me so much, baby?
I can always count on you.
I recall so many days,
My selfish ways,
But you remained just as beautiful,
You never, ever change,
Your love is strong,
It goes on and on.
Girl, put your weights on my shoulders,
I'll carry, that's what good lovers do!
I'll have a, in pleasing for you,
Girl tonight, this is all about you.
[Chorus: x2]
In El DeBarge's song "How Can You Love Me", the singer is expressing his wonder at how his partner continues to put up with him despite all his flaws and shortcomings. The song features a mixture of gratitude and disbelief at the idea that he could be loved so much by someone who knows all of his imperfections. He acknowledges that he is not an easy person to be with and recognizes that his partner deserves better than him. However, he is still grateful that she stands by him like a soldier, giving him unconditional love and support.
In the chorus, the singer asks the titular question, "How can you love me so much, girl?" He is amazed that his partner can put up with both the good and the bad parts of him. Despite the singer's unpredictable behavior, his partner's love remains constant and enduring. He recognizes his own selfishness and acknowledges that his partner remained beautiful and true to him, even when he was not. Finally, he promises to uplift and support his partner in return, carrying her burdens and making her the center of attention that she deserves.
Line by Line Meaning
You know what?
I have something important to say.
You're such a perfect lover,
I think highly of your romantic skills.
And baby you can do better with me,
I believe I am a better match for you.
But you stand by me like a soldier,
You are loyal and committed to our relationship.
Sweet loving until,
Your affectionate behavior is always present.
That's right baby!
I am acknowledging and agreeing with something you said.
Set me up on a pedestal,
You hold me in high regard.
Still love me more,
Your love for me has not diminished.
It's a mystery why I'm so lucky,
I don't understand why I am fortunate to have you.
I keep trying to figure it out!
I am attempting to comprehend why you love me so much.
Tell me how can you love me so much, girl?
Expressing wonder and admiration at your devotion to me.
Put up with all of the crazy things that I do
Acknowledging my faults and how you still remain with me.
How can you love me so much, baby?
Amazed at the intensity of your love for me.
I can always count on you.
I trust you completely and know you won't let me down.
I think you're trying to tame me,
I feel you are attempting to change my behavior.
Yes, you are!
Agreeing with my previous conclusion about your intentions.
But I don't think you gonna change me no,
Expressing doubt about your ability to alter my ways.
The same,
I am not going to change my behavior.
I'm so unpredictable,
I am a complex and difficult person to understand.
Your love is so unconditional for me.
You love me regardless of my flaws and idiosyncrasies.
I wanna know why!
I am curious to understand the reasons behind your love.
I recall so many days,
Reflecting on the past and acknowledging my mistakes.
My selfish ways,
Admitting to being self-centered in the past.
But you remained just as beautiful,
Despite my flaws, you remained attractive to me.
You never, ever change,
You remain constant in your character and love for me.
Your love is strong,
Your affection is intense and unwavering.
It goes on and on.
Your love is long-lasting and unending.
Girl, put your weights on my shoulders,
I want to support and comfort you.
I'll carry, that's what good lovers do!
I am willing to carry your burdens and help you.
I'll have a, in pleasing for you,
I will make efforts to make you happy and satisfied.
Girl tonight, this is all about you.
This evening is dedicated to you and your desires.
[Chorus: x2]
Repeating the chorus expressing amazement and gratitude at your love for me.
Lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC, Universal Music Publishing Group
Written by: BOBBY AVILA, IZZY AVILA, ELDRA DEBARGE, JAMES HARRIS III, TERRY LEWIS
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You know what?
You're such a perfect lover,
And baby you can do better with me,
But you stand by me like a soldier,
Sweet loving until,
That's right baby!
Set me up on a pedestal,
Still love me more,
It's a mystery why I'm so lucky,
I keep trying to figure it out!
[Chorus:]
Tell me how can you love me so much, girl?
Put up with all of the crazy things that I do
How can you love me so much, baby?
I can always count on you.
I think you're trying to tame me,
Yes, you are!
But I don't think you gonna change me no,
The same...
I'm so unpredictable,
Your love is so unconditional for me.
I wanna know why!
[Chorus]
I recall so many days,
... my selfish ways,
But you remained just as beautiful,
You never, ever change,
Your love is strong,
It goes on and on.
Girl, put your weights on my shoulders,
I'll carry, that's what good lovers do!
I'll have a... in pleasing for you,
Girl tonight, this is all about you.
[Chorus x2]
¿Cómo puedes amarme?
¿Sabes qué?
Eres un amante perfecto
Y bebé puedes hacerlo mejor conmigo
Pero estás a mi lado como un soldado
Dulce amoroso hasta el
¡Eso es, nena!
Me tendiste una trampa en un pedestal
Todavía me amas más
Es un misterio por qué tengo tanta suerte
¡Sigo tratando de averiguarlo!
[Coro:]
Dime, ¿cómo puedes amarme tanto, chica?
Suponga todas las cosas locas que hago
¿Cómo puedes amarme tanto, nena?
Siempre puedo contar contigo
Creo que estás tratando de domarme
¡Sí, lo eres!
Pero no creo que me cambies no
Lo mismo
Soy tan impredecible
Tu amor es tan incondicional para mí
¡Quiero saber por qué!
[Coro]
Recuerdo tantos días
mis formas egoístas
Pero permaneciste igual de hermosa
Nunca, nunca cambias
Tu amor es fuerte
Sigue y sigue
Chica, pon tus pesas en mis hombros
¡Yo llevaré, eso es lo que hacen los buenos amantes!
Voy a tener un... en agradar por ti
Chica esta noche, todo esto se trata de ti
Brittney Ringgold
My goodness what a voice. Debarge has a style that's timeless 💞
Jazz Moods Radio
El takes it up several notches with this beautiful love song. Devout El fan no matter what.
DEE Brown
Saw him perform this live
Annette Jenkins
Still Beautiful in 2021! Still Love it! Miss Mature songs. Everything is Not about Nonsense and Twerking!
20 pearls
His sound is unmistakable. Such beautiful music ❤
Khaliah Clay
I LOVE THIS MAN AND ALL HIS MUSIC..#PERIOD
Emmanuel's Cottage
I love this song. Talk about appreciating your love.
NutritionalBlockbusters
El Debarge was, and still is a phenomenal singer we love this guy inside and out......He's so fine. 😍
Camille Duncan
I'lll NEVER STOP LOVING THIS MANNNNNNNN!!!!!🥰🥰🥰😘😘🤩🤩💃💃
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You know what?
You're such a perfect lover,
And baby you can do better with me,
But you stand by me like a soldier,
Sweet loving until,
That's right baby!
Set me up on a pedestal,
Still love me more,
It's a mystery why I'm so lucky,
I keep trying to figure it out!
[Chorus:]
Tell me how can you love me so much, girl?
Put up with all of the crazy things that I do
How can you love me so much, baby?
I can always count on you.
I think you're trying to tame me,
Yes, you are!
But I don't think you gonna change me no,
The same...
I'm so unpredictable,
Your love is so unconditional for me.
I wanna know why!
[Chorus]
I recall so many days,
... my selfish ways,
But you remained just as beautiful,
You never, ever change,
Your love is strong,
It goes on and on.
Girl, put your weights on my shoulders,
I'll carry, that's what good lovers do!
I'll have a... in pleasing for you,
Girl tonight, this is all about you.
[Chorus x2]
¿Cómo puedes amarme?
¿Sabes qué?
Eres un amante perfecto
Y bebé puedes hacerlo mejor conmigo
Pero estás a mi lado como un soldado
Dulce amoroso hasta el
¡Eso es, nena!
Me tendiste una trampa en un pedestal
Todavía me amas más
Es un misterio por qué tengo tanta suerte
¡Sigo tratando de averiguarlo!
[Coro:]
Dime, ¿cómo puedes amarme tanto, chica?
Suponga todas las cosas locas que hago
¿Cómo puedes amarme tanto, nena?
Siempre puedo contar contigo
Creo que estás tratando de domarme
¡Sí, lo eres!
Pero no creo que me cambies no
Lo mismo
Soy tan impredecible
Tu amor es tan incondicional para mí
¡Quiero saber por qué!
[Coro]
Recuerdo tantos días
mis formas egoístas
Pero permaneciste igual de hermosa
Nunca, nunca cambias
Tu amor es fuerte
Sigue y sigue
Chica, pon tus pesas en mis hombros
¡Yo llevaré, eso es lo que hacen los buenos amantes!
Voy a tener un... en agradar por ti
Chica esta noche, todo esto se trata de ti