Changes
Elaine Lyrics


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I cannot change you
You cannot change me
I may try for a few days but after a while I go back to my old ways
But baby give me time
I'm learning to be more patient
I'm learning to trust you more

So I'm gonna change for you
I'll do better for you
I know I said this before
Know we been here before
But I mean it
Oh, I mean it

So I'm gonna change for you
I'll do better for you
I know I said this before
Know we been here before
But I mean it
Oh I mean it

'Cause I
I owe you so much more than my pain
I owe you so much more than my past
You deserve it all
You deserve it all
You deserve it all
I owe you so much more than my pain
I owe you so much more than my past
You deserve it all
You deserve it all
You deserve it all (all)

Fresh out the shower
I just slipped on that dress you said you really
Like last time was a mess even though you
Let me down I still think you're the best
And I'm on my way to you
Told my Uber to make it quick 'cause we
Got a lotta shit that we should handle
And don't forget to light the candles

So I'm gonna change for you
I'll do better for you
I know I said this before
Know we been here before
But I mean it
Oh I mean it

So I'm gonna change for you
I'll do better for you
I know I said this before
Know we been here before
But I mean it
Oh I mean it

'Cause I
I owe you so much more than my pain
I owe you so much more than my past
You deserve it all
You deserve it all
You deserve it all

I owe you so much more than my pain
I owe you so much more than my past
You deserve it all
You deserve it all
You deserve it all

I don't know if this is right, but it, feels right
I don't know if this is right, but it, feels right
Tell me we're alright (I mean it)
This is right

I owe you so much more than my pain
You deserve it all, you deserve it all, you deserve it all
I owe you so much more than my pain




I owe you so much more than my past
You deserve it all, you deserve it all, you deserve it all

Overall Meaning

The song "Changes" by Elaine is about the struggle to change oneself for the better of a relationship. It shows the relationship in a positive light and hints at wanting to move forward and leave behind any previous mistakes. The lyrics suggest that both parties have faults but are willing to work together to make it work.


The opening lines "I cannot change you, you cannot change me" shows that the relationship is at a point where both parties realize that they cannot change one another. However, the song goes on to show that they are willing to change their ways for the betterment of their relationship. The lines "I'm learning to be more patient, I'm learning to trust you more" indicate a willingness to work on oneself to make the relationship work.


The chorus of the song is a repetition of the words "So I'm gonna change for you, I'll do better for you" which reinforces the idea of the willingness to make changes for the sake of the relationship. The line "I owe you so much more than my pain, I owe you so much more than my past, you deserve it all" shows that the singer wants to move away from past mistakes and give the relationship their all.


In conclusion, "Changes" by Elaine is a song about wanting to make things work in a relationship by being willing to make changes for the betterment of the relationship.


Line by Line Meaning

I cannot change you
I am aware that I cannot change who you are as a person.


You cannot change me
I am aware that you cannot change who I am as a person.


I may try for a few days but after a while I go back to my old ways
Although I may attempt to change myself for a short period of time, I always fall back into my old habits and patterns.


But baby give me time
I am asking for your patience as I work to improve myself.


I'm learning to be more patient
I am actively working on improving my patience.


I'm learning to trust you more
I am actively working on building more trust in our relationship.


So I'm gonna change for you
I am determined to make changes to myself for the betterment of our relationship.


I'll do better for you
I am going to try harder to be a better partner to you.


I know I said this before
I am aware that I have made promises like this in the past and have not followed through.


Know we been here before
We have been in this situation before where I promised to change and did not follow through.


But I mean it
I truly mean what I am saying and am committed to making real changes for you.


Oh, I mean it
I am emphasizing the sincerity of my statement.


I owe you so much more than my pain
I understand that I have caused you pain in the past and I want to make it up to you.


I owe you so much more than my past
I am committed to leaving my past mistakes behind and being a better partner to you moving forward.


You deserve it all
You deserve everything good in our relationship.


Fresh out the shower
I am letting you know that I am on my way to see you and have just showered.


I just slipped on that dress you said you really like
I am dressing in a way that I know you find attractive, in an effort to please you.


Last time was a mess, even though you let me down
Our last encounter was difficult, even though you may have disappointed me in some way.


I still think you're the best
Despite any past disappointments, I still love and appreciate you as my partner.


And I'm on my way to you
I am actively making an effort to be with you and work on our relationship.


Told my Uber to make it quick 'cause we got a lotta shit that we should handle
I am eager to get to you quickly because I know that we have a lot to work on in our relationship.


And don't forget to light the candles
I am preparing for a romantic evening with you, to try and strengthen our bond.


I don't know if this is right, but it feels right
I am unsure if what we are doing is the right thing, but it feels like it is.


Tell me we're alright (I mean it)
I am asking for reassurance that our relationship is okay and that we are on the right track.


This is right
Despite any doubts, I believe that we are doing the right thing in trying to make our relationship work.


You deserve it all
You deserve everything good in our relationship.




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Written by: Elaine Mukheli, Elyzee Ilunga Mubikay

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@sineguguntshakala4157

Just remembered the chorus to this song it still slaps twice as hard๐Ÿ‘Œ๐ŸŽถ

@vuyojanuary230

Been hearing about Elaine but took me a while to actually listen to her mind. Wow!! My mind is blown, truly....what a talent...deserves and has earned everything good thatโ€™s happening to her right now.

@pheegovender1147

My favourite song on the EP I could listen to this all day ๐Ÿ’•

@tajayhutchinson9035

Can't believe I just find this artist....I love her โค๏ธ

@likwasithole9664

l want elaine to know that lm the first one to comment on this........number one fan....

@neoentletshetlanyane6819

Listening to this while,Driving through the high way at night

@fortunepatricia8014

I love u. U are so good

@dom6599

So underrated

@likwasithole9664

l hear a bit of jheine aiko

@emmanuel5876

I love it

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