Never Here
Elastica Lyrics


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It's a sign of devotion
You made everybody else seem insane
You filled my head with your notions
You made everybody else seem so tame
In your bed I lay reeling
You made everybody else seem a shame
I knew from the way I was feeling
Nothing could ever be quite the same

I moved straight into your shoes
I took up your cause and answered your phone
I couldn't really imagine
What life was like when I was alone
Then I started to worry (then I started to worry)
I thought of our lives left on the shelf
Too much TV and curry
Too much time spent on ourselves.

We were sitting in waiting
And I told you my plan
You were far too busy writing
Words that didn't scan
And you lent me your records
And I leant you an ear
Funny how it seems to me now
That you were never here
Never really here.

In our bed I lay reeling
You made everybody else seem insane
I knew from the way I was feeling
Nothing could ever be quite the same
It's a sign of devotion
You made everybody else seem so tame
Then it felt like going through the motions
First impressions never remain

We were sitting in waiting
And you told me your plan
I was far too busy writing
Rhymes that'll never scan
Now I've sold all your records
'Cause they give me the fear
Funny how it seems to me now
That you were never here




Never really here
Never really here

Overall Meaning

The song "Never Here" by Elastica is about being in a relationship where one person becomes completely absorbed by the other, losing their sense of self in the process. The singer describes the intense devotion she feels toward her partner, who has made everyone else seem unimportant and "insane." She has taken on her partner's beliefs and causes, and even their persona, feeling as though she has moved "straight into [their] shoes." The relationship has become her entire world, and she has lost touch with her own desires and sense of individuality.


As the song progresses, the singer realizes that the relationship is not as perfect as it seemed. She starts to worry about their future together, sensing that they are wasting their lives on "too much TV and curry, too much time spent on ourselves." The partner becomes preoccupied with other things, such as writing, and the singer begins to feel neglected and unimportant. She loans her partner her ear, but in return she feels as though her partner was never truly there for her.


Overall, "Never Here" speaks to a feeling of being lost in a relationship and losing one's sense of self. It is both a tribute to the intensity of love and a warning about how it can lead to self-neglect and disappointment.


Line by Line Meaning

It's a sign of devotion
Acknowledging that the level of commitment to this person was intense and complete


You made everybody else seem insane
The object of devotion (possibly a love interest) was so important that everyone else appeared as irrational in comparison


You filled my head with your notions
This person had a way of influencing the singer's thoughts and beliefs


You made everybody else seem so tame
In comparison to this person, everyone else seemed insignificant and uninteresting


In your bed I lay reeling
The emotional impact of being with this person was overwhelming and powerful


You made everybody else seem a shame
Compared to this person, others were shameful or unworthy of the singer's attention


I knew from the way I was feeling
The singer was aware of the intensity of their emotions at the time


Nothing could ever be quite the same
After experiencing this level of emotion, life would never be ordinary or mundane again


I moved straight into your shoes
The artist fully identified with this person and their lifestyle or beliefs


I took up your cause and answered your phone
The artist was fully committed to supporting this person and was always available for them


I couldn't really imagine
The singer had trouble picturing what their life was like before meeting this person


What life was like when I was alone
The artist felt that they were incomplete or unable to function without this person


Then I started to worry (then I started to worry)
The singer began to feel uneasy and uncertain about the relationship


I thought of our lives left on the shelf
The singer realized that their life was at a standstill and not progressing forward


Too much TV and curry
The singer and this person were stuck in a routine or mundane existence


Too much time spent on ourselves.
The artist realized that they were too self-centered and not focused on anything outside of their own world


We were sitting in waiting
The artist and this person were waiting for something to happen or change


And I told you my plan
The singer shared their ideas or aspirations with this person


You were far too busy writing
This person was not fully engaged or present in the conversation


Words that didn't scan
The words or actions of this person didn't make sense to the artist


And you lent me your records
This person shared something of value with the artist


And I leant you an ear
The artist was attentive and available to listen to this person's thoughts or concerns


Funny how it seems to me now
In retrospect, the singer finds irony or humor in the situation


That you were never here
The person who the artist was so devoted to was not fully present or engaged in the relationship


Never really here.
Continuing the idea that this person was absent or not fully invested in the relationship


Now I've sold all your records
The singer has let go of something that was important to this person


'Cause they give me the fear
The records were no longer enjoyable or comforting to the singer




Lyrics © Downtown Music Publishing, Warner Chappell Music, Inc.
Written by: JUSTINE ELINOR FRISCHMANN

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Most interesting comment from YouTube:

theradracer

It's a sign of devotion
You made everybody else seem insane
You filled my head with your notions
You made everybody else seem so tame
In your bed I lay reeling
You made everybody else seem a shame
I knew from the way I was feeling
Nothing could ever be quite the same
I moved straight into your shoes
I took up your cause and answered your phone
I couldn't really imagine
What life was like when I was alone
Then I started to worry (then I started to worry)
I thought of our lives left on the shelf
Too much TV and curry
Too much time spent on ourselves
We were sitting in, waiting
And I told you my plan
You were far too busy writing
Rhymes that didn't scan
And you leant me your records
And I leant you an ear
Funny how it seems to me now
That you were never here
Never really here
In our bed I lay reeling
You made everybody else seem a shame
I knew from the way I was feeling
Nothing could ever be quite the same
It's a sign of devotion
You made everybody else seem so plain
Then it felt like going through the motions
First impressions never remain
We were sitting in, waiting
And you told me your plan
I was far too busy writing
Rhymes that'll never scan
Now I've sold all your records
Cause they give me the fear
Funny how it seems to me now
That you were never here
Never really here
Never really here



All comments from YouTube:

Ernesto Ribeiro

Annie Holland is a Master bassist. I always listened to this masterpiece bass-line repeating her part 10 times before leave playing. Justine Frischmann & Donna Mattews made the most brilliant pair of guitar players of 1990's as well Donita Sparks & Suzi Gardner.

Freddy VL

Nina Gordon and Louise Post are an awesome duo as well! :)

Stephan Venner

Their Debut Album is a classic. It's sad that they split so early.

Phil H

A very special band ( i dont think they knew how good they were)! I was about 23, at the time, I'm 47 now! I was so excited about this band, I bought the album on the day of release! I've never done that to any other band before or since. Saw them in bham institute in 95; so good me and mates went to 3 other gigs around the country. Now I'm middle aged grey and little weighty but your still loved here!!!

David Hicks

Damn I'm yer age and I always loved this - although I've always been hardcore playing in bands.
I've mellowed out a bit - playing surf music now but I'm with you on elastica!!!

MikeH46

Easily their best song. Never got the recognition it deserved.

Andy Hall

Best song on the album by a mile. I always wondered if Damon had a role in this one...

John Morgan

like most elastic songs, the bassline is amazing. Annie knew how to play.

renee torgerson

Oh my God I remember when I bought this in 95 I love the whole CD but this is my favorite song! They went out too quickly such a great band!

Mia Monan

Love this track. One of the best glimpses back in time at a brilliant and unique band.

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