Alexander Kotz, known professionally as Elderbrook, is a English musician, … Read Full Bio ↴Alexander Kotz, known professionally as Elderbrook, is a English musician, songwriter and producer. His career as a musician began in 2015, when he released his first EP, which contained the song, "How Many Times" which went on to be remixed by German duo Andhim, becoming one of Mixmag's best songs of 2015.

Something About You
Elderbrook Lyrics

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I miss the touch of morning sun
Making silhouettes of us
Way back when we had our paradise
We're staying up all through the night
Smoking, drinking, getting high
I was wrong and I apologize

Where did you go? What can I do?

I'm working on my problems
But I need you here to solve them
Where did you go? What should I say?
I hope that I can make a change 'cause

There's something 'bout you
Keeping me sober
I was drowning in the moment
And now I'm holding onto you
There's something 'bout you
Keeping me sober
I was drowning in the moment
And now I'm holding onto you

There's something 'bout you
That keeps picking me up when I'm low
There's something 'bout you
That keeps picking me up when I'm low

I miss the company we had
Back when I was still on track
Now I'm making my own paradise
But now the drink is tasting strange
And the high isn't the same
I'm still wrong and I apologize

Where did you go? What can I do?
I'm working on my problems
But I need you here to solve them
Where did you go? What should I say?
I hope that I can make a change 'cause

There's something 'bout you
Keeping me sober
I was drowning in the moment
And now I'm holding onto you
There's something 'bout you
Keeping me sober
I was drowning in the moment
And now I'm holding onto you

There's something 'bout you
That keeps picking me up when I'm low
There's something 'bout you
That keeps picking me up when I'm low

There's something 'bout you
Keeping me sober
I was drowning in the moment
And now I'm holding onto you
Ooh, oh, holding onto you
Oh, holding onto you
Oh, holding onto you

There's something 'bout you
That keeps picking me up when I'm low
(And I've been falling)
There's something 'bout you
That keeps picking me up when I'm low

(And I've been falling)
There's something 'bout you

Overall Meaning

Elderbrook's "Something About You" is a reflective piece about a relationship that has ended, and the singer's struggle to move on. He misses the times they had together, the touch of the morning sun on their skin, and the picture they made back then. But now, the singer is consuming alcohol and drugs to get through the night, to forget the pain or the memory of the loss of that relationship. However, it seems that the singer is no longer happy with this lifestyle, and craves a return to the relationship, looking for that something or someone to keep him sober.

The chorus repeats the phrase "there's something 'bout you" several times, emphasizing the singer's need for the other person. He recognizes that this person has a positive impact on him and can lift him when he is down. He apologizes for his past wrongdoings, acknowledging that he has made mistakes in the relationship. He is aware that he needs the other person to help him work through his issues and face the challenges that life throws at him.

The song has a somber tone, and the use of repetition in the chorus reinforces the singer's desperation for the other person to return. These lyrics reflect universal emotions of longing and regret, as well as the struggle to find a sense of stability and happiness after losing a loved one.

Line by Line Meaning

I miss the touch of morning sun
I miss the happy times we had together

Making silhouettes of us
When the morning sun created shadows of our bodies

Way back when we had our paradise
When we were both happy together

We're staying up all through the night
We used to spend time talking to each other during late nights

Smoking, drinking, getting high
We used to indulge in vices together

I was wrong and I apologize
I have made a mistake and I am sorry

Where did you go? What can I do?
I am lost without you, and I don't know how to fix it

I'm working on my problems
I am trying to become a better person

But I need you here to solve them
I need your support to overcome my issues

What should I say?
I don't know what to do or say to make it right

I hope that I can make a change 'cause
I want to change for the better

There's something 'bout you
There is something special about you

Keeping me sober
You keep me grounded and level-headed

I was drowning in the moment
I was caught up in the moment, of living recklessly

And now I'm holding onto you
And now I'm trying to hold onto you and stay grounded

That keeps picking me up when I'm low
You help me when I'm feeling down

I miss the company we had
I miss having you around, being my companion

Back when I was still on track
When I was doing well, had my life together

Now I'm making my own paradise
Now I'm trying to find my own happiness

But now the drink is tasting strange
The alcohol doesn't bring me the same joy anymore

And the high isn't the same
The drugs don't give me the same feeling as before

Ooh, oh, holding onto you
I'm desperately trying to hold onto you for support

And I've been falling
I have been struggling on my own

Lyrics © BMG Rights Management, Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC, Reservoir Media Management, Inc., Kobalt Music Publishing Ltd.
Written by: Alexander Kotz, Andrew Sheldrake, Carla Marie Williams, Joel Pott, Keir MacCulloch, Kyle Mackenzie, Luke Fitton, Amir Izadkhah, Kesi Dryden, Leon Rolle, Piers Aggett

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Most interesting comments from YouTube:

@ryanmerino2354

1y↑4

I first heard Elderbrook - Woman then found this track…

I’m 33, been on and off drugs and alcohol since age 17… started my journey of sobriety November 6, 2022….dancing and exercise help so much. Also knowing that you aren’t alone, that’s a huge help.

I’m in my apartment drinking coffee this morning after a sleepless night of insomnia… This song came on and i started dancing and started crying so hard. I think that’s a big emotional release of past trauma.

Whoever you are, whatever you are going through, never be afraid to show your release your emotion and to let things flow.

You aren’t alone. I got you. We got you.

@DeesSeth7

51w↑3

My favorite part is the flex that they (we) all do first, and what it could mean.

Do we have to display strength before we can expose vulnerability?

Is it saying I have the strength to display vulnerability?

Is it commentary that even in our vulnerability we're expected to display strength.

And then when looking at how each person displays it to another or to the crowd it could have an entirely different meaning.

Is it letting go of that display if strength?

Maybe it's saying I'm here to join you so you don't have to hold it yourself.

Or maybe it's saying 'you've been strong long enough. I've got it now.'

So much. It could say so much. It it could mean so little. But no matter what; it's beautiful. This whole video is beautiful.

All comments from YouTube:

@kieranhicks2772

5y↑9.2K

The Men's suicide prevention hotline and programs needs to use/show this song and video in their campaigns. As a struggling man with depression and anxiety, this spoke to me on another level. Hands down one of the most incredible music videos I've ever seen.

@brishtiteveja

5y↑57

Feel ya mate.

@purple_wolfie_

5y↑24

💝💌💝💌💝💌💝

@partypiano0729

5y↑34

Lifeline Australia 13 11 14

@275satori275

5y↑15

Too right.

@devALLjapan

5y↑47

I’m so glad that this spoke to you. I tried to show it to a mate with depression and he was completely bamboozled by it and didn’t understand the symbology and meaning at all.

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@royboxing5421

38w↑363

They all know the dance because they all know the sadness and pain. They don't need to practice the dance because they already know it instinctively. It's a really powerful music video

@CardiffFc87

29w↑3

100% ❤

@MichaelMetzler-wp3vk

29w↑3

Sounds right to me

@MichaelMetzler-wp3vk

29w↑4

"Same old walk and dance."

@hottboie203

28w↑7

My interpretation is very similar, it's a men's support group men aren't known to be open and willing to talk emotions, micheal with his brow knit with anxiety n pain awkwardly stands up to share but his share isn't verbal it's his dance n he starts very hesitantly n scared it won't be understood, his face changes when Mr blue jeans stands and by performing the dance with Michael shows he understood and can relate, then as the rest stand up as they build up their confidence n know that they feel the same but aren't as afraid anymore to share all join in, then when they stop and pair up to me it shows that as different n opposite each pair seems to be (age appearances background culture color etc) that we can all find common ground and understanding in each other if we just try n be open with each other, then they finish strong and the group ends but Michael u see is left feeling a bit more hopeful and validated

@jessicareed5144

24w↑4

I listen to this before therapy and do the dance to help give me courage to tell her my story

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@daddiofadio

22w↑26

My first YouTube comment ever. And I'm a 43-year-old man who has had a Youtube account for years and watched probably thousands of videos. This video is perfect in every way. Simple. Subtle. Powerful. From the first seconds of the first viewing, it has continued to move me like no other video. Thank you for this.

@craigj1782

2y↑617

The dance is simply a metaphor for everyone letting their emotions out after bottling them up for so long, and it's amazing, very touching

@marieecott7124

1y↑8

🙏❤️ so true .

@rickarmbruster8788

1y↑7

for me its another metaphor, its like being ashamed, not enough before getting together and letting it all out starting to get comfortable and enjoyng the ride, a very Beatyful and expressive coeography

@awesomesauce3110

1y↑3

What?! No! No way?! For real? Wow!!

@dimplegaming33

1y↑3

@@awesomesauce3110 Might be obvious to some, might take a decade for others to finally face their problems head on.

@steventonkinson

i see it as. not everybody knows the steps<to take> at first but as the song goes on everybody in their own time learn what steps need to be taken

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@lucygiles3337

45w↑49

That moment at 2.05 when he realises more of them have joined him dancing and he smiles slightly? That hits deep, such an amazingly beautiful video. So expressive 🩵

@IneishaIgnites

22w

Noticed that part today ❤

@random_yagge2514

1y↑290

I love the casting of the video. They chose people of all ages, races and physical condition. How each one of them joins the dance it is a great metaphor as to how looking for help is ok, no matter who you are. What an excellent video

@mikiomahoney1

19w↑1

Love your view, totally agree, having lost some male friends, males friends family members etc, it's such a wonderful video,...it is indeed an excellent video...let's face it, music and dance is so freeing, let alone a way of communicating. 💙

@user-np2hc8ic3r

14w

Я женщина,и я "без вредных привычек"😂как у нас в России это называется,но всегда сочувствую людям страдающим от своих демонов...и так зашёл этот клип...круто❤❤❤❤❤

@jacobjones1896

5y↑2.6K

This is, without a doubt, the most powerful music video advocating mental health in men I have ever watched.

@gavva2010

5y↑29

Yep, I'd agree with that 100%. This music video really strikes a key. Nicely done

@fxandmeow

4y↑5

TRUE

@marcellopalazzo638

4y↑3

Agreed

@krimenation1901

4y↑17

Rudimental have been working in the last years with real life situations with such a powerful lovely attention! i love their music but even more their interest in communicate something strong and try to wake people's mind up. That's simply amazing and show that they do care about the rest of the world.
Impressive and intense. Loved to see Elderbrook working with them on something like this!!

@bretkindell6887

4y↑3

@@krimenation1901 cool info krime nation. There work is tremendous.

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@user-zc6qt6co6c

15w↑31

My brother passed away 3-weeks ago, caused by his addiction to alcohol. I had introduced him to Elderbrook and Rudimental as a way to remain positive and to never give up. John was 55-years old and had everything to live for. I will miss him forever.

@robertoacevedo3805

15w

Condolences.

@robertoacevedo3805

15w

Condolences.

@robertoacevedo3805

15w

Condolences.

@leesfishroom5985

14w

Hi will live on with you bro. He is with you he probably loved this tune you showed him. Hang in there mate and im sorry for your brother

@codelbluntz6044

1y↑466

3 years later and this music video still makes me cry everytime

@dream-lp6vk

1y↑7

true, nowadays 90% of videos are about tits, girls, etc but this is such a beautiful video
that has a lot to share

@TheRavenfish9

1y↑6

Same here. Every single time.

@juliawheeler8428

1y↑4

Me too.

@tillykathy

1y↑1

Likewise, there is no other choice. See it, feel it <3

@Xillasun

1y↑1

Same. Even if I watch it again and again.

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@Bill.R.124

1y↑251

I'm sober 2 years this month. This works on so many levels. The simple set, catchy music, angst in the first guy's eyes (especially), then the reluctant "tough" image they are all exhibiting slowly accepting the "reality" (in this case doing the dance). It goes to a whole new powerful level when these straight guys break out into couples, just craving for the comfort of the other drunk/addict's support and love. So powerful.

@angelanelson2275

1y↑2

So so powerful ❤️😍
Congratulations on Your Sobriety....
I know it's not easy!!
God Bless You Always!!
Thank you for sharing

@jameseastwood4984

1y↑2

Well done Bill. Yes isn't it an incredible film, I think you've summed it up well.

@lokiehunter

1y↑4

You are awesome thank you for sharing

@Novalionessful

awesome explanation

@traviscooper2205

1y↑2

Exactly what I was getting be at in my post. Way better worded. Congratulations.

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@MrTimmyvee

1y↑208

This is, without question, the MOST beautiful music video that has ever been made. When I first saw it during lockdown, I blubbed, a lot. Now I can watch it and just smile. Thank you Elderbrook, Rudimental, the producers of the vid, and the actors. Just superb.

@Matisse_Famke

42w↑6

You made me cry, it's a beautiful, emotional video. I come back to this video and watch it, I now weep with sheer love but it's striking for so many to hear to watch. I send it to people at times, but unfortunately they don't seem to grasp it's resonance and vitality

@joshuafuller8121

48w↑32

I love this video. One man in a group of men finds the courage to show his vulnerability. The rest eventually find their courage and do the same. It makes me emotional. Every. Single. Time.

@thejuice2744

5y↑4.6K

This song may have just saved my life, I'm a 39 year old strong builder currently in a dark place thinking some bad things, I have nowhere or nobody to turn to really, watching this is giving me strength. Thank you

@philmekviboon6932

5y↑108

Good! I wish you the best. Life is a gift.

@purpleishfluid

5y↑106

You've got this, buddy! Keep believing in yourself

@fujoera

5y↑60

You got this mate! ♥️

@nutterlybutterly

5y↑38

Sending massive hugs to you Brendon. x

@peterreed5866

5y↑47

I'm a builder too ,, its good when its good mate and bad when its bad ,but hang in there in a nice way you will turn a corner, as long as you keep getting up in the morning and think there's £200 pound out there I'm going to get it , come on chin up troop on xx

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@fraiserbarns

2y↑69

Sober 6 months. The messages this video and song gives is amazing
Edit: 8 months now still going strong
Edit: oh shit 1 year and 4 months

@matthiasfranz1143

2y↑2

Keep it up bro! You are heading towards the right direction! :)

@coltonkrunkton5660

proud of you bro

@jacobcouchene4619

2y↑1

Keep strong

@jameseastwood4984

Top G

@chrismeyou

Smashing it Brother!!! You got this

@mistieparker935

50w↑26

Struggling with my sobriety right. Listening to this song over and over again is helping me take it minute by minute.

@hollycooper8536

47w↑3

You can do this xx

@davendaniels4203

47w↑4

You’ve got this and you’re not ever alone.

@lblincoe2094

2y↑38

What I love most about this video is that these men seemingly have nothing in common. There are young men, old men, athletic men, tall men, "dorky" men, all colors, all sizes, basically a group that you wouldn't expect to see together. You don't expect them to have any similarities with one another, just by looking at them.

Yet, they all know the dance. They have something in common that we can't see, something much more unifying than the superficial characteristics that are visible to us. It makes you realize that we're all much more interconnected than we appear, we're all going through the same things, even when it doesn't seem like it. The entire concept is so simple, yet so smart. Beautifully done!

@TheDandelionMind

40w↑15

Probably one of the most emotional music videos I've ever seen.

The way he starts dancing, unsure and not in full swing. When he stops he's worried if he should've done it (open up) and how others would react.
There's a reassurance when the second guy joins.
At 1:50 another guy sees them and brings the courage to do the same, another sees him and do the same, and their movements getting more expressive and sharper.

The amount of detail I keep finding each time I rewatch is amazing.

@vivkelly1367

43w↑10

I'm a psychologist and I run therapy groups and I also have been in them as a client, this video makes me cry - it's a lovely song but it's elevated to something so meaningful by the physical performances here.

@paladin4poets851

5y↑4.7K

I adore this ... - it just feels like they are speaking to men being allowed to be both strong and vulnerable!!!

@yanabn

5y↑31

Paladin 4 Poets 🥰 yes they can be both

@notnow2364

5y↑6

😀😇💕💕💕

@mickmalins8697

5y↑21

Nailed it.

@WilmMyburgh

5y↑19

Well said!

@enigmatheinfj5346

5y↑44

Vulnerable is a strong trait.

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@misstraveler3862

1y↑54

This song came out 3 years ago. Exactly when I discovered Elderbrook. I instantly fell in love with your music. Each of my favorite song perfectly describes how I feel. The lyrics of this song in particular is so powerful to me.... I lost my job overseas because of the pandemic and fell into substance abuse. I blew through my savings and lost so much of weight. I didn’t notice how depressed I was. I recently got back to listening to your music and I’m clean and healthy again ❤ Thank You for your amazing music!

@mainsink6385

2y↑8

Love it! Men supporting each other with dance, I wish this how we all settled our differences.

@RagingRaven88

2y↑32

I love how the dancing progresses from stiff, hesitant, and going through the motion to just pure enthusiasm. Reflects the message of the video perfectly.

@mariavez7026

https://youtu.be/xuyHCdL-9Hw🎧

@vexinglex4996

32w↑6

Too often we tell men to grieve alone. We're done with that. Shared grief is often better than dying in misery. What a beautiful song and video. Thank you.

@YrOnimuS

1y↑30

The song is awesome!

But I also want to highlight how brilliant the acting, camera/editing and directing is. A masterstroke on all levels!
A great example of when capable, empathetic people work together.

@barneymccomas

4y↑2.1K

Who's the freaking genius who thought this up, and the amazing choreographer who brought it to life?!

@Edualdo_here

4y↑40

Choreographer: Jacob Holme

@oshgraham16

4y↑10

The replacement: with Keanu Reeves

@ysal6570

4y↑19

@@Edualdo_here Jacob Holme might really know a thing or two about depression

@faithvang4786

4y↑7

I'm sorry but why is this genius? I feel like I am missing something, I genuinely want to know.

@markaki7337

Me😎

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@untillthat

34w↑17

It’s something incredible and powerful when a song can uplift you no matter how you’re feeling.

@PavitMaharaj

18w↑5

This Video is Absolutely Beautiful...
As brothers, we need to get used to the idea that we have brothers out there that need our help... even though we cannot help ourselves because healing another heals Ourselves.

@Youthemoneyguy

2y↑79

I just went to a week-long bachelor party for a friend of mine where instead of getting drunk and doing bottle services (which are the ones I have been to before), a bunch of men sat around and talked about their emotions, beliefs, view on life, aging, and toxic male masculinity (toxic male masculinity discussion was lead by one of the guys who is a Ph.D. at Stanford studying psychology). We were all vulnerable, yet it felt amazing, and I loved the experience. This song and the guys in the MV reminded me of the group. It was def a bit daunting initially, but being vulnerable can be beautiful and bring people close to one another.

@kasinski123

2y↑1

You did this for a week???

@moarroz

2y↑4

That's pretty awesome...Men I'd like to be around having conversations with.

@dahhhkness9706

2y↑3

I need more mates like yours haha!

@RosieWilliamOlivia

2y↑3

Men guard their emotions the way women (used to) guard who they share their sexuality with.

It's something to be earned and respected on either side.

Either add toxic femininity to your vocabulary or remove toxic masculinity. Neither are helpful but at least be equal in your distaste.

@mariavez7026

https://youtu.be/xuyHCdL-9Hw🎧

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@danielleblanc8302

49w↑6

Grown ass man in full tears here! This video is as good as going to a meeting. 💪🕺

@ComoChegamosAqui

2y↑12

It felt so deep and emotional. kudos to the scriptwriter, director, actors and cinematographer!

@euan6495

4y↑1.9K

Keep fighting boys. You’re not weak for feeling depressed or even suicidal. You’re recognising you want more from life and you’re capable of it. Let’s get it

@kaspermichel2589

4y↑17

Euan let’s get it!! Let’s live b4 we die!!

@Toms89_ST

4y↑19

Hit home this song massively especially the year I'm having and reading all these comments, and yours Euan has hit me like a brick

Gonna keep fighting and blessed to know I'm not the only bloke feeling like this and the encouragement yous are all given 💙 #itsoknottobeok

@euan6495

4y↑20

That’s it. For me the last ten years have been brutal. Seems like every time it can’t get any worse, it does. Topping myself really would be an easy way out at the moment But as Chris Martin says, if you never try you’ll never know. Take care mate

@ometliebo9265

4y↑2

awesome 🙏🏾😝

@kaspermichel2589

4y↑2

Sam Toms with more bricks we can build a solid wall...

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@reaper78541

10w

Saw this video at the behest of my best friend, a brother. He struggles a lot with his mental health, and his daily life brings struggles he keeps bottled up. I speak with him from time to time and allow him his space to let it out. He recommended this song and more specifically the video. I just watched it for the first time and i completely understood him in how he feels, and i immediately cried. Im hoping i know that my friend is understood and validated in feeling how he does, and that i will forever be the support he needs whenever he needs it. Even if its just to vent and to understand his feelings. Thank you for that.

@tspot816

2y↑28

1:13 gets me every time. Want to know what it is like to be a man? That. Right there. That is exactly it. Nobody wants to know, they don't want to see it, they don't want to hear it, and you find yourself with your neck stuck way out and alone. Every single day.

@mariavez7026

https://youtu.be/xuyHCdL-9Hw🎧

@chuckdanoris538

17w↑2

To anyone out there thinking that they're alone. You aren't, just know that there are so many people who would do what they could to help. You are not alone.

@1tgarrett

11w↑2

I just by chanced found this video- I have watched it 5 times and cry every single time. I deal with depression and have lost friends to addiction- this video speaks to me on so many levels- I can't thank you enough for this.

@raechelannehughes3276

11w

Sending you the biggest tightest hugs ❤️

@jakevoremanek9374

2y↑8

I love every being that reads this🙏🏻🙏🏻 the words mean nothing, touch hearing seeing feeling,, all words are merely signposts, but it's the best we've got at communication,, every being seems to understand love or the feeling of it, and that's what I feel now! even though I am in the worst place I have been a long time emotionally,,, this song really did make me feel me! Thank you 💚

@mariavez7026

https://youtu.be/xuyHCdL-9Hw🎧

@torijwilcox

5y↑2.1K

This video is the kind of video that deserves awards.

@alessandradagos2853

5y↑11

Absolutely

@gedmoore1671

5y↑7

Love it!

@edisonnieto5563

5y↑3

Wow

@benjaminstokes3936

5y↑8

Yep, it's beautiful.

@kieranhicks2772

5y↑2

💯 👌

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@Loki2612

2y↑8

“Crying doesn't mean you are weak. It just means you have been strong for too long”. And we are stronger together

@wintermute6761

11w

I think I needed to read this comment today.

@JRockG123

17w↑6

I'm 50 and I refuse to do all the bad things I did all my life into the new year of 2024. Life for me has been hell and I just recently quit doing drugs I started working out, listening to stoicism, and heck I ran into this song and well it made me change the way I feel and think about life for the better, I can't leave out Dua Lipa though for some reason that woman and her music changed my life as well. I'm grateful and happy that I have a scence of direction. Thank you Elderbrook, thank you Dua Lipa! Something about you keeping me sober!

@tylereash

16w↑1

JRockG123, I’ve got your back. It’s been 10 days since you wrote this. I’m praying you are still feeling this way. You can do it. I’ve fought depression all my life. It’s amazing the impact a song can have! Keep moving forward! 👍

@JRockG123

16w

@@tylereash yeah I'm still at it I'm a work in progress I feel a whole lot better. My body is taking a beating cuz it doesn't know what to do, it's a feeling I haven't felt in a long time I can't remember the last time I was actually sober where I didn't have the urge to get high.
Such a really big impact and life-changing I see everything clearly and different I'm not in a bad mood all the time like I was all these years. Thank you for the inspiration have a blessed day my friend.

@Bluesmoke718

13w↑1

YOU GOT THIS BROSKI! I hope you're filled with happiness <3

@jonlavelle3521

2y↑5

WOW! I am currently one third of the way through a 91 Day alcohol detox and rehabilitation residential. I have been looking for a 'leaving video' for 5 weeks now (it's a tradition on discharge that we play a music video that captures how we feel now as we enter the real world of sobriety, rather than the protected one of the centre). THIS IS GOING TO BE THE ONE!!!! I will learn the moves over the coming weeks and start the moves on my own, encouraging others to join me as and when, or if they feel motivated to do so. There will be no 'wrong moves' as far as I am concerned, just like in the disease of alcohol, you have to try multiple ways of slaying the 'DEVIL' that will always lurk inside us. We have that in common at least. The real test comes when we step out through the door on our discharge to the big bad world, full of triggers and temptations. On the journey home I will be playing this on auto-repeat! :-) Please help this video to go viral - the message needs to get out to all who are suffering, no matter what their addiction or other stresses and struggles in life... Jon

@Funnyguyroberts

24w↑5

The message, emotion, and sentiment captured by this is spot on. This should be shown to all those in need. The beauty of a strong man being vulnerable and supportive of other men is the real heartfelt message I find so uplifting. The main character almost gave up. Good thing he didn’t because he had no idea how many he would inspire. Never forget.. you can be someone’s reason not to give up!

@twolip7540

30w↑8

This song is everything. I hope those that are listening get everything they need and for those on the fence, get help. It's worth it.

@CardiffFc87

29w

❤

@505DGuy

5y↑738

There's that tiny smile at 2:05 is like he realises he's not alone

@Strongasmeat

5y↑16

I've seen the smile, but as I read your comment that exact moment was on the screen.

@channic1603

5y↑4

😍 bless him x

@1hayes1

4y↑1

I agree. Special moment and some damn fine acting.

@HolyHolyHoly777

21w↑2

This is so brotherly...we are needing this today!

@denizemiller7005

46w↑17

Still gets me in the feels, such a powerful message .. when you dance alone you feel isolated, trapped in your thoughts. Dance is a sequence of steps, so making that first step may be the hardest step before you take it. But after will be full of new possibilities

@antonellapellegrini1315

18w↑3

My brother in law loved this song and this video. A year ago he had an awful car crash and he survived by miracle. However, he is now permanently disable and blind. Every time I listen to this song and watch this video it reminds me of him in his glorious days and gives me shivers and tears. I would pay gold to have him watch this video again and do the dance with me.

@vladimirchorchordin5615

20w↑3

Brilliant, just brilliant.

@85ddrummer

28w↑9

I absolutely love this video. And always come back to it. Such an amazing metaphor for men’s mental health expressed in such a relatable way. For many men talking about their mental health is as daunting as dancing to a room full of people. And usually it only takes one! Beautiful

@davidclark2702

5y↑802

Why did this bring me to tears? The love? The intimacy? The brotherhood? What a great representation of what men can be and do for each other. I'm so glad my friend sent me a link to this video. BRAVO!

@davidclark2702

5y↑13

@@elderbrook-music Agreed. I speak often to groups about love and what it can do. I plan to show this to people as an example. I really appreciate your message!

@zimzimzalabim

It's a fun video and the song is catchy.

@SGWV

zimzimzalabim totally agree

@GiorniVenibato

It’s a homosexual anonymous group

@user-db7om5wu5j

5y↑24

@@GiorniVenibato don't do this, don't shit on the effort made here to enable men (straight or otherwise) to *actually acknowledge, experience and celebrate HUMAN emotions*. Watch the video again. Force yourself to see the beauty of empowering your fellow human beings.

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@crangismcbasketball6062

21w↑2

I'm not exaggerating when I say that this is possibly the greatest music videos of all time

@victorrivas2350

10w↑1

Seeing this video so late after its release. I'm a father to two beautiful young kiddos. I'm a teacher, a man, a father, a veteran, a child who grew up in a family where males weren't the best role model for me, all the while the women in the family kept the family going and surviving. It's hard knowing what is masculine and the tipping point for toxicity when there's so much mixed information from men and women alike.. I personally struggle with this coupled with ADHD and depression. This video really gave me another perspective. Beautiful video.

@rachelthorpe9435

2y↑17

listened to this for so long should be on everyone's play list....you smash it Michael just like everything else you do.your acting and you can dance...your amazing...

@mariavez7026

https://youtu.be/xuyHCdL-9Hw🎧

@Pelt_Hunter

2y↑18

I'm 6 months sober and just heard this the other day but this song is every bit as powerful, compelling and touching now as it would've been then. This truly explores the intricacies of men having mental health problems. The anxiety that comes from trying to be vulnerable. This is an amazing piece of work. You've got a lifelong fan in me.

@FlowerCoop

congratulations on all your soul searching

@georgiabrister3903

1y↑4

You saved my life! ❤️

@emilywebb4970

5y↑3.7K

My partner was incredibly lucky to be part of this video and I'm so proud of him every time I watch it....❤

@yenco9649

5y↑57

Emily Webb which one is your partner? I’m curious

@martinspencer4477

5y↑29

you should be very proud....which one is he?

@emilywebb4970

5y↑331

@@martinspencer4477 The guy who is the last to get up to dance ❤ x

@emilywebb4970

5y↑198

@@yenco9649 The counsellor speaks to him at the beginning of the video and asks him if he wants to start today's session.....and he's the last guy to get up and dance.

@martinspencer4477

5y↑42

Emily Webb...respect...Looked like great fun

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@mikesager4629

10w

As a father of boys - I revisit this video from time to time to remember the importance of men's mental health. Great work Elderbrook - I think you have helped a lot of people here.

@BengtBagels

48w↑5

I am not sure if its the song that gets me, so much as the acting combined with the song. It's more than just a bunch of dudes that are at some sort of support group session... ( yea it's prolly an AA meeting or something similar ) but what gets me... is it's a bunch of humans... who have been through some very tough times ( one way or another ) that are trying to grow and heal... it's their courage to get up and share their story... it's the acknowledgement that they recognize their own story in the one expressing themselves... it's hard its awkward at first... but as they all open up and get real with each other... they actually begin to enjoy just knowing others get it.. get how hard it can be.. someone who understands the pitfalls and the struggles to pull themselves back together again... then, the moments of trusting someone else... leaning on each other for that support ... then when the session is over... and they feel more confident and hopeful they quickly get out of there and close back up a little as they go back to their own lives... because healing takes time, growth takes time... the acting and musical beats hitting just at the right time... even the awkward clothing choices and dances and then by the end of it they all look so good together, because they are stronger together. it's just such a special music video to me... that's why it hits so different

@thomasmeyer7793

49w↑9

Been struggling with substance use and bipolar mania. This song really hits. Gets really tough to deal with some of these issues especially if people haven't been exposed them. I've been doing my best but still struggle. Thank you for the song

@delfaye_makeup

1y↑9

This signifies such a strong union to me. Whenever we are going through stuff we think we're alone but we're not. This song is helping me right now. Man or woman we all need to stand together. Men get cast out for expressing themselves still and it upsets me. I am always telling my man to be a human and speak up!! Thank you for your great work Elderbrook amazing song ❤️

@OtownCutie

1y↑10

This song saved my life in the darkest times. It gave me so much hope and allowed me to feel what I was feeling. Thank you for this song. You'll never know how much it means to me and my family 💝

@Mr_Reb3llion

5y↑3.2K

I love the message of this video. Society burdens men with a false expectation of masculinity. Let the burdens slip from our shoulders, be yourself and lets dance in our masculinity. Strong and vulnerable!

@lordbarron3352

5y↑30

English teachers be like

@ceejless4589

5y↑39

Ok pal. Let's see how far acting vulnerable gets you in this life. Forget all the nice comments on this video from teen girls and young women saying they love a man who can express themselves. I'll give it 10 years before they need a real man and scoff at the idea of a emotional man. Lol

@omitakura

5y↑88

CEEJLESS You seem narrow minded.

@BennettParsons1

5y↑26

CEEJLESS you’re right. Being too “vulnerable”, mainly with women will do nothing but slap you in the friend zone.

@moonbeeps

5y↑54

@@BennettParsons1 aawh you must be atleast 12 years old, how cute.

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@ryanmerino2354

1y↑4

@dR3n5ky

34w↑3

best group therapy ever!!

@graceandmarvellouswonders6249

1y↑4

I’m going to learn this dance , and forever be inspired and show empathy to myself and this whole wide beautiful world!!!

@Blonar257

2y↑13

i´ve been watching it so many times... and every single time this hits me. What a wonderful masterpiece

@liamjacobramirez6533

16w↑17

2024 anyone??

@pawebozek8606

3y↑910

“Crying doesn't mean you are weak. It just means you have been strong for too long” - I love this quote

@cheyennechristinelivinglife

3y↑1

I LOVE that!!!!

@jdottdeestv8149

3y↑1

Itatchi Uchiha be like tho

@deniscarrara5257

3y↑9

I don't like the association "not crying=being strong" as it is the societal/cultural construct that pushes people to bottle up emotions. Strength is also the ability of tapping into that emotions before they build up to a breaking point.
Empower yourself by embracing the human complex, our flaws and vulnerabilities. <3

@Meinkevlar

3y↑1

So true.

@jasonrushton5991

So true M8, from the late 70s, till finding true love in 03 to this day.

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@YepOkay

14w↑2

I can't get over how great all these people are at acting without a word spoken

@gregfitzgerald6436

16w↑5

I think for me this is one of the most powerful and emotional videos I've seen! Simple and yet so perfect in conveying emotion! The casting is genius, the editing is perfect, the Directing is clearly from someone who 'Gets It'. What more can I say!!

@DeesSeth7

51w↑3

@DrSmurf073

1y↑3

I love the idea of this video, big blokes dancing or expressing, this video is more impactful than speaking itself for this video. Really great tune, amazing video, stay strong gents

@kuapouchy

2y↑13

This is one of not so many things I would like to unsee, to discover them again. The music, the choreography. It's grand in so many ways. 🖤

@girlvibes3561

5y↑363

We all need a support system. Be there for someone who needs a reminder of who they are so we can ALL shine

@djthedawn3

Girl Vibes 🙏

@notnow2364

😊😇💕💕💕

@jajean2705

oh love it.. ill share this on my facebook account.. 😊😊

@juliad9947

I love people who bring out the best in others and help them SHINE. Best wishes to all!

@MrInferno255

50w↑2

Noone can pass through the gateless gate.
So be Noone. 🙏😇💓

@HerbieDisturbie

11w↑1

Such a wonderful video. Whenever I'm feeling alone, in a dark place, listening to / watching this helps me. So much.

@the_joy_n_sorrow

14w↑2

I either cry, tear up or get chills all over every time I come back to watch this video. Sometimes it’s all I need to remind me I’m not alone.

@beatrizcardoso4106

51w↑3

what hit me was, when he had the courage to "speak up", he made this facial expression and swallowed... that was beautiful! it reminded me of a quote that I read "The fact that we can instantly recognize a song we haven’t heard in years, but struggle to remember what we had for lunch yesterday, shows how deeply music is ingrained in our minds and emotions"

@harveygreenough9551

2y↑1

It just shows that you are not alone and people are there to help your mental health . YOU ARE NEVER ALONE .

@X360HotSwap

4y↑1.7K

never in my life have i ever wanted to learn a dance routine until now

@birde7421

4y↑9

X360HotSwap go for it!! ❤️

@toriladybird511

4y↑9

It was AWESOME I agree I want to learn it too when my shoulder heals!

@SuperFilip333

4y↑7

SAMEEEE I LOVE IT

@untacarter4577

4y↑1

Righy ?!

@MissPooslie

4y↑6

RIGHT?! plus it doesn't look that hard!

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@udihuri

21w↑2

I've watched this clip so many times and listened to the music twice as many, I always, ALWAYS, tear up.

@theresabrockhaus1585

1y↑6

This is one of my favourite videos of all time. I listen to the song almost regularly, but I circle back to the video at least every few months, sometimes longer, sometimes shorter than that. But I always come back. I will always come back for this video

@matthewhardcastle9595

same here even I play itseveral times in one go!

@PimpDaddy__

1y↑18

What a meaningful song. Chills just all over my body. Sometimes I dwell on death and can’t believe one day we won’t be able to hear music ever again and it breaks my heart even more

@beeb88

45w

sergio you can always come back if you want. quit making yourself suffer enjoy

@XxLew

2y↑12

I sometimes struggle a lot with depression, I'll have my good and bad days like anybody else, but my girlfriend showed me this song and I couldn't love her more for this. I really feel like she understands and I'm so happy to have met her, and have her help me through it. I hope everybody in this comment section is okay ❤️

@matthiasfranz1143

2y↑1

She sounds great, I wish you two all the best for your future! :)

@XxLew

@@matthiasfranz1143 thank you I'm working on it and she's very supportive

@pelosarch

2y↑5

Thanks to this video, i can keep on fighting for MY mental and physical health. Whenever i feel down, i always try to dance this song. It helps.

@pelosarch

2y↑2

Fuck the lyrics, the images are more powerful, this helped me. And i love trying to dance this every single time.

@pelosarch

2y↑1

1:15 that's rock bottom

@Aliwilde1973

5y↑401

Bloody love this video. Moved emotionally and physically. Wish the world had a bit more of Elderbrook & Rudimental love in it...

@notnow2364

5y↑2

😀😇💕💕💕

@rodstewartstewart5910

51w

Strange you say that. Every time I watch this, I end up crying. Something special about this one.

@th.g.1595

1y↑2

One of my favourite videos ever! Men also got feelings and emotions!And the music from Elderbrook and Rudimental...a PERFECT COMBO!!!! Michael Socha is such an underestimated actor!!!

@KT-yn7kz

1y↑1

I love the unity. The infuence. The pain. The memories. How much you actually need your other half and certain people in your life.

@sfnfilms7264

1y↑4

Such a great video. probably one of the most meaningful and in-depth videos ever made for a song, even if the premise is fairly simple. Every time I watch this video, it reminds me of the quote from Coach Carter.
"Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. Its our light, not our darkness, that most frightens us. You're playing small does not serve the world. There is nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people won't feel insecure around you. we are all meant to shine as children do. Its not just in some of us, it is in everyone, and as we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same. As we are liberated from our own fear, our presence automatically liberates others."

@tylerbriggs1928

2y↑3

Being comfortable in your own masculinity to express yourself and your feelings...this video clip is so good!

@craigbuckland6584

2y↑4

I've watched it when I was down, it made me cry.
I've watched it when I'm up, it made me cry.

@paulamery507

3y↑843

Michael Socha. Probably one of the most underrated actors of his generation.

@cclcgirl

3y↑15

Agreed

@XavierGaminguk

3y↑14

You say that like he’s in a lot of stuff

@lulac1991

3y↑17

I was like omg! Michael Socha from Being Human!!! ❤️❤️

@boncreations8032

3y↑28

But this is Jake Gyllenhaal??

@mysticapril5618

3y↑3

@@boncreations8032 similar. Hence my Donnie darko comment 🙂

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@williamforrester6704

30w↑1

The way Michael opens up, which is clearly a struggle for him, being a strong character, with the pressures of being strong constantly and finally able to let open his true, honest feelings even though nobody else wants to step forward. And feeling so alone, and foolish for about 3 seconds after him opening up until somebody else steps up and joins him to say "you know what, you're not alone, i feel the same way".
That right there chokes me up.
I'm not suffering from mental health, but i do suffer from "man syndrome". Whenever i see another man cry, ask for help, look like they need guidance etc. It literally makes me swell up and get a lump in my throat.

I hope to god i never need this sort of therapy, or go down a path that leads me to feeling so alone, so cornered, so alone. But if i do, i know it'll be easier this day more than ever before, because us men NEED to support each other. Its OKAY to be in a state of mind thats NOT OKAY. we can get our help, we can support one another, we can say "im not okay". It does not make you weak. It makes you STRONG.

If anybody needs a friend, a outlet, or straight up someone who just needs to be written to about anything. Im here for you my brothers. Now and always

@andrewzercher1233

12w↑1

I see the video as a metaphor for communication in a group setting, you begin by yourself, timid, scared of how everyone will react, then, slowly everyone begins to interact, and even join in. Everyone knows the steps, a shared feeling, an experience, pain, hurt, etc, we have all experienced this, and when we step out, we join in a healing dance, for not only ourselves, but for those that are around us.

@wintermute6761

11w

200% agree , had the exact same thoughts almost verbatim

@carlbraaf70

2y↑8

Hi I'm not Carl the user of this account, I'm brother as I don't have a cellphone of myself, i listened to the radio two nights ago came across your song, Old friend and I love now going through your video, i just want to say thank you with tears in my as I've been struggling with mental issues for some time now, this song the video means so so so so so much thank you thanks you, for all the men young or old we will get through tough times, believe and keep faith, much love from SOUTH AFRICA 🇿🇦 too all across the world 💪🤝

@matthiasfranz1143

Thanks bro! Also a lot of strength to you, keep it up! Good times are ahead for everyone :)

@elttilkire

2y↑3

There's something about that silent, wordless understanding that makes me tear up every time.

@annabethchase2569

5y↑649

What I love most about this video is their facial expressions. The subtle changes in their demeanor as they start to realize that they're not the only ones that feel that way, that they're not alone in their suffering; and the level of confidence that reassurance builds is perfectly conveyed through that. And believe it or not, just watching that actually cleared the stress that I'm currently facing. Bravo to the director, the actors, the artists, and anyone else involved in the project - for putting in the time and effort into making a video that can transcend its message beyond our computer/phone screen.

@legionwalker6157

5y↑3

anotger amen for you to word that so perfectly

@mariavez7026

https://youtu.be/xuyHCdL-9Hw🎧

@4Solon

2y↑1

@@josephsavage1540 Feed your head is a great video. But it's definitely got a different message. Feed your head is a fantasy where he imagines all the people who have hurt him have come together, and understand his music. They are very similar stylistically though.

@inhanh5019

1y↑1

👌👌👌 Pure video, No Ads #PureTuber

@cosasdemivida2765

2y↑4

I was strugglin with addiction, I remember listening to this song and hoping for a change, a better life. I used to cry thinking about how imposible it seemed for me. Now I'm about to achieve my first year of sobriety and looking forward to an entire life free from adiction. ONE DAY AT A TIME! IT'S POSSIBLE!
Let me send a big hug to anyone suffering like this, and a hi-five to those getting over any disease. <3