How Insensitive
Ella Fitzgerald Lyrics


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How insensitive
I must have seemed
When she told me that he loved me
How unmoved and cold
I must have seemed
When she told me so sincerely
Why she must have asked
Did I just turn and stare in icy silence?
What was I to say?
What can you say when a love affair is over?

Now she's gone away
And I'm alone with the memory of her last look
Vague and drawn and sad
I see it still
All her heartbreak in that last look
Why she must have asked
Did I just stare in icy silence?

What was I to do?
What can one do when a love affair is over?

Overall Meaning

The song How Insensitive by Ella Fitzgerald is all about the pain of unrequited love. The singer begins by reflecting on a situation in which a woman who loved her told her that she was in love with someone else. The singer realizes how unfeeling she must have seemed at the time, coming across as unmoved and cold when in reality she was deeply hurt by the revelation. She is haunted by the knowledge that when the woman asked why she had not responded, she was unable to articulate her feelings. The pain of the situation lingers on long after the woman has gone, and the singer is left alone with the memories of her final, sad expressions.


The song is a powerful reflection on the complexities and frustrations of love. The singer is clearly deeply moved by the situation, and the pain of her unfulfilled love is palpable throughout the song. The lyrics are beautifully written, poetically capturing the complex emotions of desire, rejection, and loss. Despite being a song about heartbreak, it is also a tribute to the power of love and the hold it has on us all, even long after a relationship has ended.


Line by Line Meaning

How insensitive
I acted with no sympathy


I must have seemed
It appeared to the singer as if they had no feelings


When she told me that he loved me
The singer appeared unsympathetic when told that they were loved by someone else


How unmoved and cold
The artist was perceived as emotionless and unfeeling


I must have seemed
The initial perception of the artist's actions appeared to be lacking in emotion


When she told me so sincerely
The singer was perceived as indifferent or uninvolved when someone told them something heartfelt


Why she must have asked
The person being told the news of the love affair may have wondered why they appeared so unfeeling


Did I just turn and stare in icy silence?
The artist may have appeared harsh or unapproachable when the news was given to them


What was I to say?
The artist may not have known how to respond appropriately to the announcement of the love affair


What can you say when a love affair is over?
The artist muses on the difficulty of finding the right words when a love affair ends


Now she's gone away
The person who was part of the love affair is now gone


And I'm alone with the memory of her last look
The artist is now by themselves, left only with the memory of the other person's last expression


Vague and drawn and sad
The memory of the last look was unclear, but conveyed sadness


I see it still
The singer is still haunted by the memory of the last look


All her heartbreak in that last look
The singer believes the last look conveyed the other person's heartbreak over the end of the love affair


Why she must have asked
The artist wonders why the other person may have asked about their initial unfeeling reaction to the announcement of the love affair


Did I just stare in icy silence?
The artist remembers the unapproachable demeanor they had when first hearing of the love affair


What was I to do?
The singer still does not know how they should have acted when hearing about the love affair


What can one do when a love affair is over?
The singer reflects on the difficulty of knowing what to do or say when a love affair has ended




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Written by: Antonio Carlos Jobim, Norman Gimbel, Vinicius De Moraes

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