You're Laughing At Me
Ella Fitzgerald Lyrics


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I love you which is easy to see
But I have to keep guessing how you feel about me
You listen to the words that I speak
But I feel that you listen with your tongue in your cheek

You're laughing at me
I can't get sentimental
For you're laughing at me I know

I want to be romantic
But I haven't a chance
You've got a sense of humor
And humor is death to romance

You're laughing at me
Why do you think it's funny
When I say that I love you so?

You've got me worried and I'm all at sea
For while I'm crying for you
You're laughing at me

You've got me worried and I'm all at sea
For while I'm crying for you
You're laughing at me





Laughing at me
Laughing at me

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of Ella Fitzgerald's You're Laughing At Me express the vulnerability and frustration of a person who is in love with someone who doesn't seem to take their feelings seriously. The singer admits to loving the other person, but is unsure of their feelings in return and is forced to guess at them. The recipient of the singer's affections appears to have a sense of humor that undermines any attempt at romantic gestures, as the singer notes that "humor is death to romance."


The chorus of the song, "You're laughing at me," repeats the title phrase to emphasize the hurtful nature of the laughter. The singer seems confused as to why their love is being laughed at, questioning, "Why do you think it's funny when I say that I love you so?" The laughter, in turn, makes the singer feel worried and lost, as they cry for the object of their affection while that person laughs.


The lyrics of You're Laughing At Me are an embodiment of the pain of unrequited love and the difficulty of reading others' emotions. The song is a poignant portrayal of the frustration and confusion that can come with loving someone who doesn't reciprocate those feelings.


Line by Line Meaning

I love you which is easy to see
I openly express my affection towards you without any hesitation or ambiguity.


But I have to keep guessing how you feel about me
I am uncertain about your feelings towards me and can only assume what they may be.


You listen to the words that I speak
You pay attention to what I say.


But I feel that you listen with your tongue in your cheek
I perceive that you are not taking my words seriously and are being sarcastic or ironic.


You're laughing at me
You are mocking or ridiculing me.


I can't get sentimental
I am unable to express deep emotions or be overly affectionate.


For you're laughing at me I know
I am aware that you are finding my attempts at romance humorous or ridiculous.


I want to be romantic
I desire to be affectionate and express loving emotions.


But I haven't a chance
I believe that my attempts at romance will fail or be unsuccessful due to your sense of humor.


You've got a sense of humor
You possess the ability to find humor in situations and make jokes.


And humor is death to romance
Humor can ruin or destroy romantic feelings or experiences.


Why do you think it's funny
I am questioning your amusement at my display of affection.


When I say that I love you so?
When I express my deep feelings towards you.


You've got me worried and I'm all at sea
You are causing me to feel anxious and confused about our relationship.


For while I'm crying for you
When I am expressing my emotions and feelings towards you through tears.


You're laughing at me
You are still finding my attempts at romance humorous or ridiculous.


Laughing at me
You are continuing to mock or ridicule me.


Laughing at me
You are continuing to mock or ridicule me.




Lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group
Written by: Irving Berlin

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