You Can Have Him
Ella Fitzgerald Lyrics


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You can have him
I don't want him
He's not worth fighting for
Besides there's plenty more where he came from
I don't want him
You can have him
I'm giving him the sack
And he can go right back where he came from
I could never make him happy
He'd be better off with you
I'm afraid I never loved him
All I ever wanted to do was

Run my fingers through his curly locks
Mend his underwear and darn his socks
Fetch his slippers and remove his shoes
Wipe his glasses when he read the news
Rub his forehead with a gentle touch
Mornings after when he's had too much
Kiss him gently when he cuddled near
Give him babies one for ev'ry year, so you see
I don't want him, you can have him
You can have him, I don't want him
For he's not the man for me

You can have him
I don't want him
He's not worth fighting for
Besides there's plenty more where he came from
I don't want him
You can have him
He isn't my concern
And he can just return where he came from
I would look a trifle silly




Taking him away from you
That was never my intention
All I ever wanted to do was

Close the window while he soundly slept
Raid the icebox where the food is kept
Cook a breakfast that would please him most
Eggs and coffee and some buttered toast
Wake him gently with a breakfast tray
After breakfast clear the things away
Bring the papers and when they've been read
Spend the balance of the day in bed, so you see
I don't want him, you can have him
You can have him, I don't want him
For he's not the man for me

Overall Meaning

The song You Can Have Him by Ella Fitzgerald is a classic tune about a woman who has decided to end things with her lover, stating that he simply isn't worth fighting for. She encourages another woman to take him, as there are plenty of men out there who are worth the effort. The song paints a very practical view of relationships, focused on the day-to-day tasks that go into caring for someone, rather than the grand romantic gestures that we so often associate with love.


The woman in the song takes care of her lover in mundane ways, from mending his underwear to wiping his glasses. She describes her lover as having curly hair, needing gentle touches on his forehead, and cuddling near her. However, these actions don't stem from any deep affection for him - she admits that she was never in love with him in the first place. She simply did these things because they needed to be done and because it pleased him, not because she truly cared about him.


In the end, the woman gives her lover back to another woman who can appreciate him more. The song suggests that sometimes relationships are based on practicality and convenience rather than true love. The woman in the song is relieved to be rid of him, offering a refreshing perspective on the end of a relationship.


Line by Line Meaning

You can have him
I am done with him and you can take him.


I don't want him
I have no desire to be with him anymore.


He's not worth fighting for
He's not worth the trouble of trying to keep him.


Besides there's plenty more where he came from
He is replaceable and I don't need him.


I'm giving him the sack
I am firing him from my life.


And he can go right back where he came from
He can return to where he was before he came into my life.


I could never make him happy
I am not able to make him content.


He'd be better off with you
You would be a better fit for him than I am.


I'm afraid I never loved him
I never had feelings of love towards him.


All I ever wanted to do was
My sole intention was to


Run my fingers through his curly locks
Playing with his hair was enjoyable.


Mend his underwear and darn his socks
I wanted to take care of his clothes.


Fetch his slippers and remove his shoes
I wanted to ensure his comfort.


Wipe his glasses when he read the news
Help him take care of his personal needs.


Rub his forehead with a gentle touch
Comfort him when he isn't feeling well.


Mornings after when he's had too much
Comfort him when he has a hangover.


Kiss him gently when he cuddled near
Express intimacy with him when we are close.


Give him babies one for ev'ry year, so you see
Have many children with him.


He isn't my concern
He is not my responsibility anymore.


And he can just return where he came from
He can go back to where he was before he met me.


I would look a trifle silly
It would be embarrassing for me


Taking him away from you
To take him away from you and then let him go.


That was never my intention
That was not my plan.


Close the window while he soundly slept
Take care of his sleeping environment.


Raid the icebox where the food is kept
Make sure he had food.


Cook a breakfast that would please him most
Provide him with a meal that he would enjoy.


Eggs and coffee and some buttered toast
Typical breakfast items.


Wake him gently with a breakfast tray
Wake him up and serve him breakfast.


After breakfast clear the things away
Clean up the dishes and the breakfast mess.


Bring the papers and when they've been read
Bring the newspapers for him to read.


Spend the balance of the day in bed, so you see
Spending the day in bed together.


For he's not the man for me
He is not the man I want to be with.




Lyrics © IMAGEM U.S. LLC , Universal Music Publishing Group
Written by: IRVING BERLIN

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Comments from YouTube:

M. Scott

What a difference from the Nina Simone version. Like two entirely different songs.

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