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That's The Way It is
Ella Fitzgerald and Ink Spots Lyrics


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I tremble at your touch
I know I shouldn't
But that's the way it is

I want you oh-so much
I know I shouldn't
But that's the way it is

I can see so clearly
That we are worlds apart
But when you are near me
I can't see beyond my heart

I worship at your shrine
You said I shouldn't
But that's the way it is

I begged you to be mine
I said I wouldn't
But that's the way it is

I love you forever
Though it may never be
But that's the way it is
With a guy like me

I tremble at your touch
I know I shouldn't
But that's the way it is

I want you oh-so much
I know I shouldn't
But that's the way it is

I can see so clearly
That we are worlds apart
But, oh, when you are near me
I can't see beyond my heart

I worship at your shrine
You said I shouldn't
But that's the way it is

I begged you to be mine
I said I wouldn't
But that's the way it is

I'll love you forever
Though it may never be
But that's the way it is
With people like you and me

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of Ella Fitzgerald’s “That’s The Way It Is” explore the complex emotions of a person who is deeply in love with someone but realizes that they may never be able to have a future together. The first verse highlights the singer’s intense physical attraction towards the person they love, even though they know they shouldn’t feel that way. The second verse focuses on the emotional distance between the two of them, recognizing that they might be simply too different to ever make it work. Despite this, when the person is close, the singer is unable to control their feelings.


The chorus repeats the refrain “But that’s the way it is” as a mantra to accept the reality of the situation. The third verse once again emphasizes the singer’s devotion to the other person - they worship the ground they walk on, even though the person themselves has cautioned them against it. The final part of the song acknowledges that the love that the two share may never be realized, but that they will continue to cling to it despite the odds.


Overall, the song is a moving portrayal of a love that is both passionate and bittersweet. The lyrics capture the push and pull of emotions that arise when we fall in love, even when it may not be practical or wise to do so.


Line by Line Meaning

I tremble at your touch
I feel nervous and excited when you touch me


I know I shouldn't
I'm aware that my feelings and actions may not be appropriate or healthy


But that's the way it is
I can't help the way I feel, even if it goes against what I know is best


I want you oh-so much
I desire you deeply and strongly


I can see so clearly
I understand and recognize the differences and obstacles between us


That we are worlds apart
Our backgrounds, experiences, and personalities are vastly different


But when you are near me
Despite the obstacles, being close to you is still important to me


I can't see beyond my heart
My feelings for you overpower my reason and logic


I worship at your shrine
I deeply admire and respect you


You said I shouldn't
You cautioned me against putting you on a pedestal or becoming too obsessive


I begged you to be mine
I pleaded with you to be in a romantic relationship with me


I said I wouldn't
I promised myself that I wouldn't pursue you or act on my feelings


I'll love you forever
My love for you is strong and enduring


Though it may never be
It's possible that we may never be together


But that's the way it is
The future is uncertain, but I can't help the way I feel


With a guy like me
As a person with my own flaws and limitations


With people like you and me
As individuals with different backgrounds and challenges




Lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group
Written by: ALEX C. KRAMER, JOAN WHITNEY, MARY BOURKE

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Most interesting comment from YouTube:

@thanhnhanphanle137

I tremble at your touch
I know I shouldn't
But that's the way it is

I want you oh-so much
I know I shouldn't
But that's the way it is

I can see so clearly
That we are worlds apart
But when you are near me

I can't see beyond my heart

I worship at your shrine
You said I shouldn't

But that's the way it is


I begged you to be mine
I said I wouldn't

But that's the way it is


I love you forever
Though it may never be

But that's the way it is

With a guy like me



All comments from YouTube:

@2eleven48

A revelation. My deep thanks. Robert, UK.

@jayhimmelsbach7176

This tune was written by the same husband & wife team of singer Joan Whitney (aka: Zoe Parenteau) and Alex Kramer who wrote "Far Away Places (With The Strange Sounding Names)" for Bing Crosby ... and eventually evey recorded by Willie Nelson. (They also wrote "There Ain't Nobody Here But Us Chickens").
What a sweet version of "That's The Way It Is" by Ella and The Ink Spots! Two more distinguished vocal stylings and sounds would still be difficult to find all these years later.

@penpal4560

I'm surprised I found a comment from this old video just two days ago! glad to see there are still people who're into this

@shelbyh6372

I could keep this on repeat for a whole 24 hours

@franciscogutierrezsanin9010

same for me

@Arbiters-Records

Love it when Ella and Bill get together and sing.

@virvisquevir3320

I really love this song, I know I shouldn't, but that's the way it is...

@petertaylor3600

Shouldn't….wouldn't....or couldn't. Of course you do and so do I.

@vkburke3402

I was messing w/stuff about a month ago, while listening to music, & for some reason, I hit the right click button,  & lo & behold,  stuff came up, 1 of them saying "loop"  Wondering... I clicked on it AND didn't it "Loop",  meaning replaying the song...I am one to want to listen to REAL favs over 'n over...so this is WONDEROUS for me. If you're like me, & didn't know,  try it.   Sorry this is sooo long, was trying to think how to phrase it...still missed, but I'm almost 78 yrs old...give me a little break,  & forgive...Thanks to anyone looking at this, & forgiving. Or even seeing it.

@tiaarcher292

Bill and Ella...l'm in heaven x

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