Trying
Ella Mai Lyrics


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Had a lot of space, nothin' in the way
I was movin' 'round like everywhere
Had a couple flings, didn't mean a thing
'Cause I'm not the type to really care
'Til you came up 'round my heart
Say you been workin' hard for my attention, for a minute
I never felt so soft, you throw my decisions off
Yeah, I see you tryin' real hard and that's good enough
Spend a little more time, so that's good enough
Now you all on my mind, and that's good enough
For me, for me
Not an easy read, I'm sure
I'm not the typical girl
And I know I make it hard, but I see you tryin'
When I look into your eyes, I just can't deny it

You got the topic, I always wanted
Usually not my type, but, I still want it
Boy, you got good somethin'
Wake me up in the mornin', love is on my appetite
No, you don't wanna waste my time
I see you tryin', I see you tryin'

I see you tryin', they always say to, "Wait for the perfect timin'"
I tried to cut you off, but you wasn't buyin'
You messin' up my plans, I was tryna fight it, oh yeah
I made you wait (wait), you never had a girl put you in your place
Pain ain't on my heart, I just wanna say (say), you cut the chase
I can't escape ('scape, 'scape, 'scape)

Yeah, I see you tryin' real hard and it's good enough
Spend a little more time, so that's good enough
Now you all on my mind, and that's good enough
For me, for me
Not an easy read, I'm sure
I'm not the typical girl
And I know I make it hard, but I see you tryin'
When I look into your eyes, I just can't deny it

You got the topic, I always wanted
Usually not my type, but, I still want it
Boy, you got good somethin'
Wake me up in the mornin', love is on my appetite
No, you don't wanna waste my time
I see you tryin', I see you tryin'

Truth is, I'm down
You ain't been in love
But, you learnin' how I need you now
Kind of feel weird 'cause
You're not so comfortable sharin' your feelings
Ooh, I commend you
You're really winnin'
You got my attention, no competition (yeah, yeah)

You got the topic, I always wanted (I want it)
Usually not my type, but, I still want it (I want it)
Boy, you got good somethin'
Wake me up in the mornin' (wake me up, wake me up, yeah yeah)
Love is on my appetite (yeah, appetite)
No, you don't wanna waste my time (no, you don't)
I see you tryin', I see you tryin'





I see you tryin', I see you tryin'
I see you tryin'

Overall Meaning

In "Trying," Ella Mai sings about a man who is trying to win her heart. The opening verse suggests that Ella Mai has been single for a while, and has had a few "flings" that haven't meant much to her. However, when this new man entered her life, she began to soften and question her decisions. The chorus is directed at the man, acknowledging that she sees him trying and it is "good enough" for her. She expresses her appreciation for his efforts, telling him to spend more time with her because he is on her mind. Ella Mai emphasizes the fact that she is not an easy read, and that she needs a man who is willing to work for her. She concludes by saying that, although she is not the typical girl, she sees him trying, and she can't deny that she likes it.


The second verse has Ella Mai admitting that she sees potential in the man, and that he has qualities that she has always wanted, even though he is typically not her type. She expresses that her love is on her "appetite," and that she does not want to waste her time. Ella Mai tells the man that she sees him trying to win her over, and she acknowledges that it is not always easy to share one's feelings, but the fact that he is trying is commendable. She concludes the song by affirming that she sees him trying, and it makes her want him all the more.


Line by Line Meaning

Had a lot of space, nothin' in the way
I had a lot of free time and no serious commitments.


I was movin' 'round like everywhere
I was enjoying my freedom and going wherever I wanted.


Had a couple flings, didn't mean a thing
I had a few casual relationships that were not significant to me.


'Cause I'm not the type to really care
I am usually not emotionally invested in my flings.


'Til you came up 'round my heart
Until you entered into my life and started affecting my emotions.


Say you been workin' hard for my attention, for a minute
You have been trying hard to get my attention for some time now.


I never felt so soft, you throw my decisions off
I have never been this emotionally vulnerable before, and you are disrupting my usual pattern of behavior.


Yeah, I see you tryin' real hard and that's good enough
I acknowledge your efforts to win me over and it is sufficient for now.


Spend a little more time, so that's good enough
If you spend more time with me, it will strengthen our connection.


Now you all on my mind, and that's good enough
I am starting to think about you constantly, and that is a good sign.


Not an easy read, I'm sure
I am not an easy person to understand or connect with.


I'm not the typical girl
I do not fit into the stereotype of what a typical girl wants or needs.


And I know I make it hard, but I see you tryin'
I am aware that I am not making things easy for you, but I appreciate your efforts.


When I look into your eyes, I just can't deny it
When I see the sincerity in your eyes, I can't help but feel drawn to you.


You got the topic, I always wanted
You have qualities and interests that I've always been attracted to.


Usually not my type, but, I still want it
Normally, I would not be interested in someone like you, but something about you still draws me in.


Boy, you got good somethin'
There is something special and unique about you that captivates me.


Wake me up in the mornin', love is on my appetite
I want you to wake me up in the morning with your love and affection.


No, you don't wanna waste my time
I do not want to waste time with someone who is not serious or committed.


Truth is, I'm down
The truth is, I am ready and willing to commit to you.


You ain't been in love
You have not experienced true love before.


But, you learnin' how I need you now
You are starting to understand what I need and how to provide it.


Kind of feel weird 'cause
I feel a little strange and uneasy because of my growing feelings for you.


You're not so comfortable sharin' your feelings
You are not used to expressing your emotions openly and honestly.


Ooh, I commend you
I admire and respect your efforts to be more vulnerable with me.


You're really winnin'
You are making significant progress in winning my heart and affection.


You got my attention, no competition (yeah, yeah)
You have my full attention and there is no one else competing for it.


I see you tryin', I see you tryin'
I recognize and appreciate your persistent efforts to win my heart.




Lyrics Β© Universal Music Publishing Group, Kobalt Music Publishing Ltd.
Written by: Ella Mai Howell, Charles A. Hinshaw, Dijon McFarlane, Nicholas Matthew Balding, Peter Johnson, Shah Rukh Zaman Khan

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