But Not For Me
Elton John Lyrics


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They're writing songs of love, but not for me
A lucky star's above, but not for me
With love to lead the way, I've found more clouds are gray
Than any Russian play could guarantee

I was a fool to fall and get that way
High ho, alas, and also lack-a-day
Although I can't dismiss the memory of her kiss
I guess she's not for me

It all began so well, but what an end
This is the time a feller needs a friend




When every happy plot ends with a marriage knot
And there's no knot for me

Overall Meaning

Elton John’s song “But Not For Me” is a poignant reflection on the feeling of being left out and overlooked in the search for love. The opening lyrics, “They're writing songs of love, but not for me. A lucky star's above, but not for me,” indicate that despite the abundance of love and romantic stories in the world, the singer is still searching for their own partner.


As the song progresses, the singer reflects on their own failed attempts at love, saying “With love to lead the way, I've found more clouds are gray. Than any Russian play could guarantee.” The comparison to a Russian play suggests that the singer feels as if their search for love has become a performance or production, rather than a genuine experience.


The lyrics also suggest that while the singer has experienced love in the past, it has not ended well. They say “Although I can't dismiss the memory of her kiss, I guess she's not for me” indicating that despite their connection with a previous partner, it was not meant to be.


The final verse expresses a sense of loneliness and despair, as the singer observes the happy endings of other people’s love stories while feeling left out. “When every happy plot ends with a marriage knot, and there's no knot for me” suggests that the singer feels as if they are constantly witnessing others finding love and commitment, yet they have yet to find it for themselves.


Overall, Elton John’s “But Not For Me” is a song that speaks to the universal experience of feeling left out and alone in the search for love.


Line by Line Meaning

They're writing songs of love, but not for me
Love songs are being written but none are meant for me.


A lucky star's above, but not for me
Fortune smiles on others but never on me.


With love to lead the way, I've found more clouds are gray Than any Russian play could guarantee
Despite all my attempts at finding love, my life still remains gloomy than even the most pessimistic of fictional works.


I was a fool to fall and get that way High ho, alas, and also lack-a-day
To have fallen in love with her was sheer folly and now all I can do is lament about it.


Although I can't dismiss the memory of her kiss I guess she's not for me
While I can't forget the pleasant memory of her kiss, it's clear that she doesn't belong to me.


It all began so well, but what an end This is the time a feller needs a friend
My relationship had a promising start but eventually failed, and now I need someone to lean on.


When every happy plot ends with a marriage knot And there's no knot for me
All stories with happy endings conclude with a wedding, but sadly, there's no wedding for me.




Lyrics © Wixen Music Publishing, Universal Music Publishing Group, Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC, Downtown Music Publishing, Songtrust Ave, Warner Chappell Music, Inc.
Written by: George Gershwin, Ira Gershwin

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@manguera9

"they are writing song of love ,but not for me" one of the most beautiful lyrics of the time and the melody.

@PepperWilliamsMusicBlend

Never thought that Elton could pull off a song like this. It was excellent!!! And the arrangement was TOP KNOTCH!!!

@patriciathomas1252

I love this song. So beautiful. Elton did it justice!

@peppermarki

amen to that i love it

@SEPTEMBERANCH

My favorite version! From the movie , "Four Weddings and a Funeral"

@xstefania6180

Mine too

@gmar7836

Same

@zimmiewilliams4911

Yup.

@patriciaurrutia7914

Judy Garland en los 40...la recomiendo!!!

@YTfancol

Same here :-)

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