Can't Get Over Getting Over Losing You
Elton John Lyrics


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At last I'm over losing you
I've cried so many tears it just ain't true
My eyes are red, my heart is blue
I can't get over getting over losing you

I can't turn back the hands of time
I've come so far, I have to see it through
The trouble is that I still find
I can't get over getting over losing you

I hardly ever think of you
Except in the morning and then in the evening, again in the afternoon
I guess it's true, I'm over the worst
But living's the one thing that ain't rehearsed

But I know that's all behind me now
I'm learning how to live my life anew
And as soon as I discover how
Then I'll get over getting over losing you

I hardly ever think of you, I roll with the punches
I'm taking it easy, I don't play hunches like I used to do
I'm over you now
Still tying to forget you but I don't know how

But at least I'm over losing you
There's only one thing left for me to do
Oh my eyes are red, my heart is blue
I draw the lone on you and me, forget how fine it used to be




And I'll get over getting over losing you
And I'll get over getting over losing you

Overall Meaning

In Elton John's "Can't Get Over Getting Over Losing You," the singer reflects on the difficulty of moving on from a past love. The beginning of the song suggests that he has finally reached a point where he has shed enough tears to feel like he has moved on. However, he still acknowledges that his heart is still aching from the loss. Despite expressing a desire to forget about the relationship altogether, he struggles to do so, still thinking of the person in the morning, afternoon, and evening.


The song is a reflection on the process of healing after a breakup, and the long, non-linear path towards getting over someone. The lyrics suggest that, while the singer has come a long way, he still has moments of recollection and sadness. The final verses suggest a newfound sense of peace and a willingness to move forward, with the singer stating that he is "learning how to live [his] life anew."


Line by Line Meaning

At last I'm over losing you
Finally, I have moved on from the pain of losing you


I've cried so many tears it just ain't true
I have shed countless tears over our breakup


My eyes are red, my heart is blue
My eyes are sore from all the crying, and my heart remains broken


I can't get over getting over losing you
Although I have moved on, I cannot erase the memory of how hard it was to come to terms with our separation


I can't turn back the hands of time
I cannot change the past and undo our breakup


I've come so far, I have to see it through
I have made progress in healing, and I need to continue moving forward


The trouble is that I still find
However, I still struggle with


I can't get over getting over losing you
I still have difficulty accepting how hard it was to get over the end of our relationship


I hardly ever think of you
Most of the time, I do not dwell on thoughts of you


Except in the morning and then in the evening, again in the afternoon
Except for specific times of day when thoughts of you inevitably come back to me


I guess it's true, I'm over the worst
I suppose it is accurate to say that I have moved past the most difficult part of the breakup


But living's the one thing that ain't rehearsed
However, life is unpredictable and does not come with a script to follow


But I know that's all behind me now
I acknowledge that our relationship is now in the past


I'm learning how to live my life anew
I am figuring out how to build a new life for myself without you


And as soon as I discover how
Once I find my way forward


Then I'll get over getting over losing you
I will truly be able to move on from the difficulty of our breakup


I hardly ever think of you, I roll with the punches
Most of the time, I can take life's challenges in stride without dwelling on thoughts of you


I'm taking it easy, I don't play hunches like I used to do
I am more relaxed and less impulsive than I was when we were together


Still trying to forget you but I don't know how
Although I am moving on, I cannot fully erase thoughts of you from my mind


But at least I'm over losing you
However, I have come to terms with the fact that our relationship is over


There's only one thing left for me to do
All that remains is for me to move on completely


Oh my eyes are red, my heart is blue
Despite my progress, I still deal with the aftermath of heartbreak


I draw the line on you and me, forget how fine it used to be
I am setting boundaries between us and trying to forget how good things were in the past


And I'll get over getting over losing you
Eventually, I will fully move on and leave the pain of the breakup behind


And I'll get over getting over losing you
The process of moving on will continue until I have fully healed and left my heartbreak behind




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Peter Harthen


on Sacrifice

not like todays crap

Peter Harthen


on Sacrifice

Even at 56 years old, this music still sounds so good to me, how music should sound.....

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