Funeral for a Friend/Love Lies Bleeding
Elton John Lyrics


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The roses in the window box
Have tilted to one side
Everything about this house
Was born to grow and die

Oh it doesn't seem a year ago
To this very day
You said I'm sorry honey
If I don't change the pace
I can't face another day

And love lies bleeding in my hand
Oh it kills me to think of you with another man
I was playing rock and roll and you were just a fan
But my guitar couldn't hold you
So I split the band
Love lies bleeding in my hands

I wonder if those changes
Have left a scar on you
Like all the burning hoops of fire
That you and I passed through

You're a bluebird on a telegraph line
I hope you're happy now
Well if the wind of change comes down your way girl
You'll make it back somehow

And love lies bleeding in my hand
Oh it kills me to think of you with another man
I was playing rock and roll and you were just a fan
But my guitar couldn't hold you
So I split the band
Love lies bleeding in my hands

And love lies bleeding in my hand
Oh it kills me to think of you with another man
I was playing rock and roll and you were just a fan
But my guitar couldn't hold you
So I split the band
Love lies bleeding in my hands





Love lies bleeding in my hand

Overall Meaning

The lyrics to Elton John's song "Funeral For A Friend / Love Lies Bleeding" explores the pain of lost love and the consequences of sacrificing one's passion for someone else. The first verse describes the fragility of life, as represented by the tilted roses in the window box, and how everything around us is destined to grow and die. The second verse talks about a significant moment that happened a year ago, where the singer's partner begged for space and couldn't continue with the pace of their relationship. The chorus further highlights the heartbreak, with the singer holding "love" as it bleeds in their hands, referring to the metaphorical loss of their partner.


The third verse addresses the potential scars that both individuals carry after going through difficult times in their relationship. The singer acknowledges that they may have left a mark on their partner, just like the burning hoops of fire that they passed through together. The fourth and final verse is directed towards the former partner, with the singer urging them to find happiness and assuring them that if the "wind of change" comes their way, they can survive it. The chorus is repeated twice more, emphasizing the pain of the singer as they hold onto their "bleeding" love in their hands.


Overall, the lyrics convey a sense of loss, grief, and regret when it comes to relationships. The idea of sacrificing one's passion for love, having a significant other who outgrows the relationship, and the pain that comes with the end of something meaningful is explored here. It's a powerful song that showcases Elton John's songwriting and piano skills, and it remains a classic in his discography.


Line by Line Meaning

The roses in the window box
The flowers in the window box started leaning on one side


Have tilted to one side
The flowers leaned to one side because of their weight


Everything about this house
This house is built to experience cycles from growth to death


Was born to grow and die
Everything in this house experiences a period of growth and decay


Oh it doesn't seem a year ago
A year seems to have just gone by


To this very day
Till this very day


You said I'm sorry honey
You apologized and called me honey


If I don't change the pace
If I don't vary my speed or efforts


I can't face another day
I cannot confront another day


And love lies bleeding in my hand
I am heartbroken and devastated


Oh it kills me to think of you with another man
It hurts me to imagine you with another man


I was playing rock and roll and you were just a fan
I was performing rock music and you were just a listener


But my guitar couldn't hold you
My music couldn't keep you with me


So I split the band
Thus, I broke up the band


Love lies bleeding in my hands
My love for you is shattered and destroyed


I wonder if those changes
I ponder if those changes affected you


Have left a scar on you
If those changes have hurt you deeply


Like all the burning hoops of fire
Like all the difficulties and hardships we went through together


That you and I passed through
That we both faced together


You're a bluebird on a telegraph line
You are like a bird perched on a wire


I hope you're happy now
I desire that you are happy now


Well if the wind of change comes down your way girl
If your life has new changes coming your way, girl


You'll make it back somehow
You will overcome it all and make it back stronger


And love lies bleeding in my hand
My love for you is like an open wound


Oh it kills me to think of you with another man
It hurts me to imagine you with another man


I was playing rock and roll and you were just a fan
I was playing music, but our relationship meant different things to us


But my guitar couldn't hold you
My music couldn't keep you with me


So I split the band
I broke up the band because of us


Love lies bleeding in my hands
My love for you is broken and empty




Lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group
Written by: BERNIE TAUPIN, ELTON JOHN

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@charlesdeason1646

Me and my best friend since second grade both loved Elton...we always promised each other that one would play this for the other at their funeral...well, time goes by...and you don't keep in touch with those from your past...I found out Bryan had died while I was working on the road...of course, I missed his funeral...so this is for Bryan Keith Higgs... friend forever, and gone too soon at 49... I love you, man

@drainpig894

That's a fitting tribute, think your mate would be really happy with that.

@daltonriley6370

I just lost one of my friends too

@siliconesal

Charles Deason how very sweet and touching xxx

@GhilleSasanach

You did your best to follow through on a promise...sorry for your loss! This also happens to be the song I asked my son to play at my wake!

@Mindy0328

Charlie Deason, beautiful words for your friend and awesome tribute.

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@Elidoransgar

Elton from 1969-1979 is one of the greatest decades for any artist. He and Bernie were on fire. Stupefying output.

@joeblog2672

Right in the middle ('75) EJ puts out his Captain Fantastic and the Brown Dirt Cowboy masterpiece. Best rock music album ever? Has to be at least up for consideration!

@shirleymattingly5137

What he said... My kids were taught to grind their teeth on this album

@shirleymattingly5137

I am a bitch and the bitch is back 😂

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