Sorry Seems to Be the Hardest Word
Elton John Lyrics


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What do I gotta do to make you love me?
What do I gotta do to make you care?
What do I do when lightning strikes me?
And awake to find that you're not there?

What do I do to make you want me?
What have I gotta do to be heard?
What do I say when it's all over?
And sorry seems to be the hardest word

It's sad (so sad), so sad
It's a sad, sad situation
And it's getting more and more absurd
It's sad (so sad), so sad
Why can't we talk it over?
Oh, it seems to me
That sorry seems to be the hardest word

It's sad (so sad), so sad
It's a sad, sad situation
And it's getting more and more absurd
It's sad (so sad), so sad
Why can't we talk it over?
Oh, it seems to me
That sorry seems to be the hardest word

What do I do to make you love me? Oh
What have I gotta do to be heard?
What do I do when lightning strikes me?
What've I gotta do?




What've I gotta do?
Ooh, when sorry seems to be the hardest word

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of Elton John's "Sorry Seems to be the Hardest Word" explore the difficulty of apologizing in a troubled relationship. The singer desperately wants to know what he must do to make his partner love him and care for him. He then contemplates the aftermath of a fight, where he is left alone, questioning how to make his partner want him and be heard. The chorus iterates that this situation is a sad one, and it seems to be getting more complicated as time passes without a resolution. The singer acknowledges the importance of apologizing, but it still seems to be the hardest word to say.


The song's lyrics are a reminder that no matter how hard a relationship is, saying sorry can be the first step to healing. The lyrics express the frustration that the singer feels and how speaking about their problems is vital, even when it is hard to do. Especially in romantic relationships, apologizing when you're wrong can oftentimes feel humiliating, which is why it's crucial to acknowledge your mistakes and learn to say sorry. The word sorry is powerful in its ability to renew trust and repair any wreckage in a relationship.


Line by Line Meaning

What do I gotta do to make you love me?
What actions must I take to gain your love and affection?


What do I gotta do to make you care?
What must I do to make you care about my feelings and emotions?


What do I do when lightning strikes me?
What actions should I take when I face unexpected and difficult situations in life?


And awake to find that you're not there?
How do I deal with the pain and loneliness of waking up to find that you're not with me?


What do I do to make you want me?
What actions should I take to ignite your desire and attraction towards me?


What have I gotta do to be heard?
What must I do to ensure that my voice and opinions are heard and considered?


What do I say when it's all over?
What words should I use to convey my feelings and emotions when a relationship or situation has ended?


And sorry seems to be the hardest word
Apologizing and admitting fault are difficult and painful, but it is necessary for repairing relationships and moving forward.


It's sad (so sad), so sad
The situation is unfortunate and depressing.


It's a sad, sad situation
The situation is depressing and difficult.


And it's getting more and more absurd
As time passes, the situation becomes increasingly ridiculous and senseless.


Why can't we talk it over?
Why can't we communicate and discuss our problems to find a solution?


Oh, it seems to me
In my opinion or observation, it appears to be the case.


That sorry seems to be the hardest word
Apologizing and admitting fault is difficult and painful, but it is necessary for repairing relationships and moving forward.


What've I gotta do?
What actions must I take to make things better?


Ooh, when sorry seems to be the hardest word
Apologizing and admitting fault is difficult and painful, but it is necessary for repairing relationships and moving forward.




Lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group, Tratore
Written by: Elton John, Bernard J.P. Taupin

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"Sorry Seems To Be The Hardest Word"

What have I got to do to make you love me
What have I got to do to make you care
What do I do when lightning strikes me
And I wake to find that you're not there

What do I do to make you want me
What have I got to do to be heard
What do I say when it's all over
And sorry seems to be the hardest word

It's sad, so sad
It's a sad, sad situation
And it's getting more and more absurd
It's sad, so sad
Why can't we talk it over
Oh it seems to me
That sorry seems to be the hardest word

What do I do to make you love me
What have I got to do to be heard
What do I do when lightning strikes me
What have I got to do
What have I got to do
When sorry seems to be the hardest word



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No, I'm here because I am in a very sad situation and this popped into my head.

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@SoftRockMusic88

I believe that somewhere in the world, there are people who feel the same emotions that I feel when I listen to masterpieces like this song.

@GODDESS1966

It's 6:56 p.m. Friday 12/22/2023. I'm listening to this song from NJ USA. Holidays are fast approaching and the love of my life of 10 years just died on 10/1/23 of pancreatic cancer. I'm feeling sorry for myself and a bit lonely so I'm doing the rounds of sad classic songs. So at the moment of my typing this, there may in fact be someone grieving the loss of a loved one like me while listening to this song. Merry Christmas and Happy New Year SoftRockMusic88.

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I have goosebumps in every part of my body!

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