All Grown Up
Elvis Costello Lyrics


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"I`m trouble" she said
Spread out on the floor of her father`s house
Her promise was almost undone
Under her tongue, dissolving her responsibilities
To finally deny everyone with unflattering comparison

[Chorus:]
All grown up
And you don`t care anymore
And you hate all the people that you used to adore
And you despise all the rumors and lies of the life you led before

Did I hear you right?
You`re feeling hounded and pushed around
You want to just lay down and die
If all of this life has been such a big disappointment to you
Why don`t you stop blaming some guy
And go give the next one a try

[Chorus:]

But look at yourself
You`ll see you`re still so young
You haven`t earned the weariness
That sounds so jaded on your tongue

"I`m weak" she says
And blesses herself and gets into bed
Clutching the covers to her throat
"So punish me now and let me go back to the sham of my life"
"This night is the perfect antidote for all of the poison that
You wrote"





[Chorus:]

Overall Meaning

The opening lines of Elvis Costello's iconic song, "All Grown Up," present a young woman who is distressed and aware of her own deficiencies. She declares that she is "trouble" and is lying on the floor of her father's house, disillusioned and overwhelmed, and discarding her responsibilities. She is almost succumbing to all the negativity and pessimism surrounding her, which is culminating from her uncomplimentary perspective of the world. The chorus of the song elucidates how she has grown up and become indifferent, apathetic to everything that once mattered to her. She is now loathing the people she formerly liked, and the rumors and lies have taken their toll on her, distorting her perception.


The lyrics continue to explore the woman's despondent frame of mind, where she feels like she has been pushed around, hounded and wants to give up on everything. The lyricist suggests that the woman should move on from her negative notions and mentality and give someone else a chance as she is still young and full of potential. The song's outro shows the woman confessing her thoughts about herself, saying she is weak and curses herself before getting into bed, grasping the covers to her throat as if trying to shield herself from the on-going cynicism. The song aims to motivate people to confront their internal conflicts and negativity head-on and transform themselves.


Line by Line Meaning

I'm trouble she said
She admits that she is a problem


Spread out on the floor of her father's house
She is lying on the floor of her father’s house


Her promise was almost undone
She nearly broke her commitment


Under her tongue, dissolving her responsibilities
She is neglecting her obligations


To finally deny everyone with unflattering comparison
She resents everyone and compares them unfavorably to others


All grown up
She has matured


And you don't care anymore
She has lost interest in things she used to care about


And you hate all the people that you used to adore
She has grown to despise people she once loved


And you despise all the rumors and lies of the life you led before
She hates the gossip and falsehoods surrounding her past


Did I hear you right?
He wants to confirm what she said


You're feeling hounded and pushed around
She feels harassed and bullied


You want to just lay down and die
She feels defeated and hopeless


If all of this life has been such a big disappointment to you
He acknowledges her disappointments in life


Why don't you stop blaming some guy
He suggests that she stop holding someone else responsible for her problems


And go give the next one a try
He advises her to move on and try again


But look at yourself
He urges her to self-reflect


You'll see you're still so young
She is still young


You haven't earned the weariness
She hasn't experienced enough yet


That sounds so jaded on your tongue
She sounds cynical and disillusioned


I'm weak she says
She admits to being weak


And blesses herself and gets into bed
She makes the sign of the cross and goes to bed


Clutching the covers to her throat
She holds the covers tightly around her neck


So punish me now and let me go back to the sham of my life
She wants to be punished and return to her fake life


This night is the perfect antidote for all of the poison that you wrote
She sees this moment as a cure for everything negative in her life


All grown up
She has matured


And you don't care anymore
She has lost interest in things she used to care about


And you hate all the people that you used to adore
She has grown to despise people she once loved


And you despise all the rumors and lies of the life you led before
She hates the gossip and falsehoods surrounding her past




Lyrics © BMG Rights Management, Universal Music Publishing Group
Written by: ELVIS COSTELLO

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Most interesting comments from YouTube:

David Udaya

"I`m trouble" she said
Spread out on the floor of her father`s house
Her promise was almost undone
Under her tongue, dissolving her responsibilities
To finally deny everyone with unflattering comparison

All grown up
And you don`t care anymore
And you hate all the people that you used to adore
And you despise all the rumors and lies of the life you led before

Did I hear you right?
You`re feeling hounded and pushed around
You want to just lay down and die
If all of this life has been such a big disappointment to you
Why don`t you stop blaming some guy
And go give the next one a try

All grown up
And you don`t care anymore
And you hate all the people that you used to adore
And you despise all the rumors and lies of the life you led before

But look at yourself
You`ll see you`re still so young
You haven`t earned the weariness
That sounds so jaded on your tongue

"I`m weak" she says
And blesses herself and gets into bed
Clutching the covers to her throat
"So punish me now and let me go back to the sham of my life"
"This night is the perfect antidote for all of the poison that
You wrote"

All grown up
And you don`t care anymore
And you hate all the people that you used to adore
And you despise all the rumors and lies of the life you led before



Aini Nurhasanah

"I`m trouble" she said
Spread out on the floor of her father`s house
Her promise was almost undone
Under her tongue, dissolving her responsibilities
To finally deny everyone with unflattering comparison

All grown up
And you don`t care anymore
And you hate all the people that you used to adore
And you despise all the rumors and lies of the life you led before

Did I hear you right?
You`re feeling hounded and pushed around
You want to just lay down and die
If all of this life has been such a big disappointment to you
Why don`t you stop blaming some guy
And go give the next one a try

All grown up
And you don`t care anymore
And you hate all the people that you used to adore
And you despise all the rumors and lies of the life you led before

But look at yourself
You`ll see you`re still so young
You haven`t earned the weariness
That sounds so jaded on your tongue

"I`m weak" she says
And blesses herself and gets into bed
Clutching the covers to her throat
"So punish me now and let me go back to the sham of my life"
"This night is the perfect antidote for all of the poison that
You wrote"

All grown up
And you don`t care anymore
And you hate all the people that you used to adore
And you despise all the rumors and lies of the life you led before



Jon

I'm trouble", she said
Spread out on the floor of her father's house
Her promise was almost undone
Under her tongue, dissolving her responsibilities
To finally deny everyone with every unflattering comparison
All grown up
And you don't care anymore
And you hate all the people that you used to adore
And you despise all the rumors and lies of the life you led before
Did I hear you right? You're feeling hounded and pushed around
You want to just lay down and die
If all of this life has been such a big disappointment to you
Why don't you stop blaming some guy
And go give the next one a try
All grown up
And you don't care anymore
And you hate all the people that you used to adore
And you despise all the rumors and lies of the life you led before
But look at yourself
You'll see you're still so young
You haven't earned the weariness
That sounds so jaded on your tongue
"I'm weak", she says
And blesses herself and gets into bed
Clutching the covers to her throat
So punish me now and let me go back to the sham of my life
This night is the perfect antidote for all of the poison that you wrote
All grown up
And you don't care anymore
And you hate all the people that you used to adore
And you despise all the rumors and lies of the life you led before
But look at yourself
You'll see you're still so young
You haven't earned the weariness
That sounds so jaded on your tongue



All comments from YouTube:

PJ Koene

Elvis Costello can make fine music and beautiful texts and this is one of his pearls. I love it still.

Roger Howard

I think this song is just naturally one of the most beautiful tracks that Elvis Costello has EVER recorded in his solo career.
I Absolutely love this song's pure English/British , romantic sensibilities.
I also think the album where the song comes from: Mighty Like a Rose, is just one of the most BRILLIANT albums that Elvis Costello has EVER recorded in his solo recording career.

lochlee

Another powerful composition from the king of lyricy

David Udaya

"I`m trouble" she said
Spread out on the floor of her father`s house
Her promise was almost undone
Under her tongue, dissolving her responsibilities
To finally deny everyone with unflattering comparison

All grown up
And you don`t care anymore
And you hate all the people that you used to adore
And you despise all the rumors and lies of the life you led before

Did I hear you right?
You`re feeling hounded and pushed around
You want to just lay down and die
If all of this life has been such a big disappointment to you
Why don`t you stop blaming some guy
And go give the next one a try

All grown up
And you don`t care anymore
And you hate all the people that you used to adore
And you despise all the rumors and lies of the life you led before

But look at yourself
You`ll see you`re still so young
You haven`t earned the weariness
That sounds so jaded on your tongue

"I`m weak" she says
And blesses herself and gets into bed
Clutching the covers to her throat
"So punish me now and let me go back to the sham of my life"
"This night is the perfect antidote for all of the poison that
You wrote"

All grown up
And you don`t care anymore
And you hate all the people that you used to adore
And you despise all the rumors and lies of the life you led before

Roger Howard

Like Kate Bush's Wuthering Heights song: what Mr. Elvis Costello has done here lyrically with this track is delve deep into the world of classic novel literature.
This is why today this track is still very moving to listen to, because rarely in modern songs lyrics do you hear and see this classic lyrical writing, especially as Costello is doing here with deep English classic prose.
This is where song writing become a real art form and it should be respected with the deepest accolade it deserves to be respected with.

Katie Barry

Just beautiful.

Aini Nurhasanah

"I`m trouble" she said
Spread out on the floor of her father`s house
Her promise was almost undone
Under her tongue, dissolving her responsibilities
To finally deny everyone with unflattering comparison

All grown up
And you don`t care anymore
And you hate all the people that you used to adore
And you despise all the rumors and lies of the life you led before

Did I hear you right?
You`re feeling hounded and pushed around
You want to just lay down and die
If all of this life has been such a big disappointment to you
Why don`t you stop blaming some guy
And go give the next one a try

All grown up
And you don`t care anymore
And you hate all the people that you used to adore
And you despise all the rumors and lies of the life you led before

But look at yourself
You`ll see you`re still so young
You haven`t earned the weariness
That sounds so jaded on your tongue

"I`m weak" she says
And blesses herself and gets into bed
Clutching the covers to her throat
"So punish me now and let me go back to the sham of my life"
"This night is the perfect antidote for all of the poison that
You wrote"

All grown up
And you don`t care anymore
And you hate all the people that you used to adore
And you despise all the rumors and lies of the life you led before

Jesús Yuste de Santos

Marvellouse, the song is ecxcelent!

sudhra

Is this slowed down somewhat? It sounds rather different to the album version I own. I do love this song. Must grab me some of those NHS glasses.

Libor Kozak

so beautiful

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