But Not For Me
Elvis Costello Lyrics


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Old man sunshine listen you
Never tell me dreams come true
Just try it and I'll start a riot
Beatrice Fairfax don't you dare
Ever tell me he will care
I'm certain it's the final curtain
I never want to hear from any cheerful Pollyannas
Who tell you fate supplies a mate
It's all bananas

They're writing songs of love but not for me
A lucky star's above but not for me
With love to lead the way I've found more clouds of gray
Than any Russian play could guarantee

I was a fool to fall and get that way
Hi-ho, alas, and also lack-a-day
Although I can't dismiss the memory of his kiss
I guess he's not for me

I was a fool to fall and get that way




Hi-ho, alas, and also lack-a-day
Although I can't dismiss the memory of his kiss

Overall Meaning

The lyrics to Elvis Costello's "But Not For Me" are a reflection on the theme of unrequited love. The song is addressed to two characters - Old Man Sunshine and Beatrice Fairfax - who are seen as symbols of false optimism and hope, respectively. The singer, who is experiencing a failed romance, resents any attempts to console him with unrealistic platitudes. He sees the world in cynical and bleak terms, convinced that love and happiness are elusive ideals that are out of reach for him. He rejects the notion that fate, luck, or divine intervention can bring him together with his beloved, dismissing such ideas as ridiculous and irrational.


Costello's lyrics convey a sense of irony and humor, as well as a deep sense of melancholy. The contrast between the upbeat melody and the melancholic lyrics underlines the singer's sense of disillusionment and disappointment. The song's final lines are particularly poignant, as the singer admits that he was a fool to fall in love, but also acknowledges the power of the memory of his lover's kiss. The song can be seen as a critique of the romantic ideals that dominate popular culture, and as a reflection on the theme of unfulfilled longing.


Line by Line Meaning

Old man sunshine listen you
I am addressing Old Man Sunshine and telling him to listen up


Never tell me dreams come true
I don't believe in the idea that dreams always come true


Just try it and I'll start a riot
If anyone tries to convince me that dreams come true, I will get very angry


Beatrice Fairfax don't you dare
I am warning Beatrice Fairfax not to do something


Ever tell me he will care
I don't want to hear from Beatrice Fairfax that he will care about me


I'm certain it's the final curtain
I believe that it's over between us and there's no hope for reconciliation


I never want to hear from any cheerful Pollyannas
I don't like hearing from overly optimistic people who always see the good in everything


Who tell you fate supplies a mate
These people believe that destiny will bring you the perfect partner


It's all bananas
I think it's all nonsense


They're writing songs of love but not for me
People are writing songs about love, but they don't apply to me


A lucky star's above but not for me
Others may be lucky in love, but I am not


With love to lead the way I've found more clouds of gray
Despite my efforts to find love, I've only encountered disappointment


Than any Russian play could guarantee
I've had more bad luck in love than any tragic Russian play could predict


I was a fool to fall and get that way
I acknowledge that I was foolish to fall in love despite knowing the risks


Hi-ho, alas, and also lack-a-day
I'm expressing my sadness and regret


Although I can't dismiss the memory of his kiss
I can't forget the feeling of his kiss, even though we can't be together


I guess he's not for me
I accept that he's not the person I'm meant to be with




Lyrics © Warner/Chappell Music, Inc.
Written by: George Gershwin, Ira Gershwin

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Comments from YouTube:

jennylustforlife1

Love it, one of my favourite versions of this song.  Love Gershwin.

Michael Pope

EC seems more genuine at this age, singing standards than he ever did as a younger man singing all that other stuff. quite charming now.

Ethan Hill

COLTRANE*s instrumental version introduced me to the song; indeed, the version concludes his album My Favorite Things and puncuates the this is Coltrane for anyone and everyone aura of the four song set. COSTELLO's version does well as an introduction to the several vocal incantations of this classic. I championed the singer's best selling songs decades ago. I love what he does here. The orchestration and arrangement work well rather than overwhelm, unlike every so called great song by Sinatra.

Vee Cee

Mr. M. Just listened again, sigh, so sweet.

Mr. M.

Dreamy indeed.

Vee Cee

Mr. M. As morals go, yours is one to practice. I too was surprised at how lovely this version is. Really rather dreamy.

Mr. M.

I allowed my friends opinions to jaundice my view of his talent and had never listened to him until I purchased The Glory Of Gershwin CD. I'd heard it sung by Ella Fitzgerald, Nat Cole, Frank Sinatra, Elton John among others, but Elvis Costello, as touches this song, blows the others away. His interpretation has the perfect tempo, most are too fast, and his phrasing surpasses even the late, great, Chairman of the Board himself, an opinion, until I heard this, I never thought to hold, much less, express. The moral, in as much as my rumination has one, is it pays to break away from the pack and the group-think mentality, for you might discover treasure off the beaten path.

Gregory Fraizer

This is the best version of this song I have ever heard!  A long time ago I looked up the lyrics and this is the only version that includes the first part.

Lewis Sanders

I did it BETTER. Never got that many Views , THE TASTELESS PUBLIC.

Vee Cee

Gregory Fraizer Also Linda Ronstadt.

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