It Had to Be You
Elvis Costello Lyrics


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Why do I do just as you say?
Why must I just give you your way?
Why do I sigh?
Why don't I try to forget

It must have been that something lovers call fate
Kept me saying I had to wait
I saw them all
Just couldn't fall till we met

It had to be you, it had to be you
I've wandered around, finally found somebody who
Could make me be true
Could make me be blue
And, even be glad just to be sad thinkin' of you

Some others I've seen
Might never be mean
Might never be cross
Or, try to be boss
But, they wouldn't do

For nobody else gave me a thrill
With all your faults, I love you still
It had to be you, wonderful you
It had to be you

Seems like, dreams like I've always had
Could be, should be makin' me glad
Why am I blue?
It's up to you to explain

I'm thinkin' maybe, baby, I'll go away
Someday, somewhere you'll come and say
"It's you I need"
But you'll be breathing in vain

It had to be you, it had to be you
I've wandered around, finally found somebody who
Could make me be true
Could make me be blue
Or even be glad just to be sad thinkin' of you

Some others I've seen
Might never be mean
Might never be cross
Or, try to be boss
But, they wouldn't do

'Cause nobody else gave me a thrill
With all your faults, I love you still
It had to be you, wonderful you
It had to be you

Some others I've seen
Might never be mean
Might never be cross
Or, try to be boss
But, they wouldn't do

For nobody else gave me a thrill
With all your faults, I love you still




It had to be you, wonderful you
It had to be you

Overall Meaning

The lyrics to Elvis Costello's "It Had To Be You" present a portrait of a man who is head-over-heels in love, yet frustrated by the fact that he has little control over the situation. He begins the song by questioning his subservience to his partner, asking, "Why do I do just as you say? Why must I just give you your way?" He then turns his attention to the question of why he feels so strongly about this person, even though she clearly has faults. He concludes that it must be a kind of romantic destiny that brought them together: "It must have been that something lovers call fate/Kept me saying I had to wait/I saw them all/Just couldn't fall till we met."


The song is essentially a love letter to the singer's partner, an ode to the unique qualities that set her apart from anyone else he has ever known. He praises her faults and quirks, acknowledging that while she may not be perfect, she is perfect for him. He is enamored by her ability to make him "be true" and to "be blue," and even to feel glad in his sadness as long as he is thinking of her. He concludes that "nobody else gave me a thrill/With all your faults, I love you still/It had to be you, wonderful you/It had to be you."


While it's unclear exactly who Costello may have been singing about in this song, it's clear that he was drawing on his own experiences of love and romance. The song has been covered by many artists over the years, including Frank Sinatra, Harry Connick Jr., and Rod Stewart. Its simple yet heartfelt lyrics have resonated with listeners for decades, and it remains a favorite for anyone who has been struck by the power of love.


Line by Line Meaning

Why do I do just as you say?
I am questioning why I always follow your directives.


Why must I just give you your way?
I am questioning why I acquiesce to your demands.


Why do I sigh?
I don't understand why I resign myself to a sorrowful mood.


Why don't I try to forget?
I question why I can't seem to let go of my attachment to you.


It must have been that something lovers call fate
I attribute our meeting to a romantic notion of destiny.


Kept me saying I had to wait
I believed that I had to keep waiting until the right person came along.


I saw them all
I met many people before meeting you.


Just couldn't fall till we met
I couldn't feel a romantic connection with anyone until I met you.


It had to be you, it had to be you
I am convinced that you were the only one for me.


I've wandered around, finally found somebody who
I have searched for someone who could make me feel what you make me feel.


Could make me be true
You bring out the best version of myself when I'm around you.


Could make me be blue
Even when feeling sad, thinking of you makes me happy.


And, even be glad just to be sad thinking of you
Thoughts of you can make me feel bittersweet, but I am still happy to have you in my life.


Some others I've seen
I have met other potential partners before.


Might never be mean
These other people were not bad, but they were not you.


Might never be cross
They didn't have the same impact on me as you do.


Or, try to be boss
These other people didn't try to control me in the same way that you do.


But, they wouldn't do
None of these other people could compare to you.


For nobody else gave me a thrill
No one else made me feel the same excitement that you do.


With all your faults, I love you still
Despite your flaws, I still love you.


Seems like, dreams like I've always had
It feels like you are the realization of the dreams I've always had for a partner.


Could be, should be making me glad
Having you in my life should make me happy, but sometimes it doesn't.


Why am I blue?
I wonder why I feel sad despite having you in my life.


It's up to you to explain
I think you hold the answer to why I feel this way and I need you to explain it to me.


I'm thinking maybe, baby, I'll go away
I am considering leaving you, even though it would be difficult.


Someday, somewhere you'll come and say
I hope that one day you'll realize how much you need me.


"It's you I need"
I hope you'll express that you realize that you need me in your life.


But you'll be breathing in vain
Your realization would be too late, as I will have already moved on without you.


It had to be you, it had to be you
I am certain that you were meant to be the one for me.


No other person could compare to you
I am convinced that no other person could make me feel the way you do.


Nobody else gave me a thrill
You are the only person who can make me feel truly excited and fulfilled in a romantic relationship.


With all your faults, I love you still
Despite your imperfections, I still love you unconditionally.


It had to be you, wonderful you
I believe that you are wonderful and that we were meant to be together.




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