Letter Home
Elvis Costello Lyrics


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New South Wales
This fifth day of July, in the year of Our Lord nineteen
Hundred and thirty five

Why must I apologize every time that I sit down to write
Through my own fault I may find
You`re no longer living at this address
Please excuse the lack of news
The feeling of strange privilege
For the hour of trial, in these times of distress
Mean more than years imprisoned by etiquette.

I can remember when we were children
Though I could never imagine this day
Your brother told me we`d live forever
"I`ll go one better," I heard myself say
And it seems so strange, now that he`s gone to recall all these
Games
While the years have divided us
Friendships have strained and broken

Oh, by the way, how`s that girl that you wed
I hated you then, but I`m over the worst of it




I can`t come home, I might as well say, life is short
I shall not write again

Overall Meaning

The song "Letter Home" by Elvis Costello is essentially a letter from a man who is sending a letter to a friend who has moved away and is no longer living at the address where he used to. He feels like he must apologize for not writing more often and for losing touch with his friend over the years. He acknowledges the feelings of strange privilege that come with being able to reconnect with a friend during times of distress and trial, comparing it to being freed from years of etiquette-imposed silence. The man reflects on childhood memories and how things have changed since then. He mentions how his friend's brother once told him they would live forever, to which he replied that they would go one better. The realization of how much time has passed and how much has been lost hits him hard. He asks after his friend's wife, whom he once hated but now feels indifferent towards. Finally, the man reveals that he cannot go home and that he will not be writing again, indicating that their friendship is over.


The song's emotion-laden lyrics are relatable to anyone who has lost touch with a childhood friend over the years or has gone through trials and tribulations that have made a reconnection with a friend all the more poignant. The emphasis on the fleeting nature of life and how little time we have to rekindle relationships is a sobering reminder that we should cherish our friends and loved ones while we still have them in our lives.


Line by Line Meaning

New South Wales
The letter is addressed from New South Wales.


This fifth day of July, in the year of Our Lord nineteen Hundred and thirty five
The letter was written and dated on July 5th, 1935.


Why must I apologize every time that I sit down to write Through my own fault I may find You`re no longer living at this address
The writer apologizes for not writing sooner and worries that the recipient may no longer live at the addressed location due to the writer's negligence.


Please excuse the lack of news The feeling of strange privilege For the hour of trial, in these times of distress Mean more than years imprisoned by etiquette.
The writer apologizes for the lack of updates but expresses how important it is to communicate during difficult times, even if it breaks societal norms.


I can remember when we were children Though I could never imagine this day Your brother told me we`d live forever "I`ll go one better," I heard myself say And it seems so strange, now that he`s gone to recall all these Games While the years have divided us Friendships have strained and broken
The writer fondly remembers the past when they were all young and naive, dreaming of immortality. It is bittersweet to recall these times now that so much has changed and relationships have been strained or broken by the passage of time.


Oh, by the way, how`s that girl that you wed I hated you then, but I`m over the worst of it I can`t come home, I might as well say, life is short I shall not write again
The writer inquires about the recipient's spouse and confesses to once harboring negative feelings towards the recipient, but now they have moved on. The writer unfortunately cannot visit and implies this may be the last letter exchanged.




Lyrics © BMG Rights Management, Universal Music Publishing Group
Written by: ELVIS COSTELLO, IAN DEREK BELTON, PAUL MARTIN CASSIDY, JACQUELINE LUCY KATHERINE THOMAS, MICHAEL HENRY THOMAS

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