Life Shrinks
Elvis Costello Lyrics


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Shall I wear a buttonhole to jog your memory?
So you'll recall the promise
That I swore you made to me when we were younger
You look sorry for yourself but what about?
I'm some idea you're not without a doubt
So you can put away that tongue
I don't know who I'm trying to kid
I'll find another name for you
I'll try to put the blame on you
For everything we did
Life shrinks and before you know it
You have forgotten all the cuts and bruises
Just be thankful we were only fighting for buttons
And you know by now who loses

You're only half awake because you never go to bed
And when he hears about it
You know then the both of you's is dead and that's a promise
You'll be sorry because I won't tell you again
You'll stick like that one day
And if you don't believe me go and ask St. Thomas
I don't know where it's going to stop
Spend your whole time trying to stay




From breaking down or running away
Or trying to keep up

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of Elvis Costello's song "Life Shrinks" address the theme of a deteriorating relationship. The first verse begins with a rhetorical question, with the singer asking whether they should wear a buttonhole to jog their partner's memory about a promise that was made when they were younger. The next line indicates that the partner looks sorry for themselves, and the singer suggests that they have some idea that they're not without a doubt. The singer asks the partner to put away their tongue, and then berates them for not trying harder to make things work.


The second verse continues the theme of the relationship breaking down, with the singer pointing out that the partner is only half awake because they never go to bed. The singer warns the partner that they will be sorry because they won't tell them again. The verse ends with a reference to Saint Thomas, who doubtingly put his finger in the wounds of Jesus. The singer suggests that the wounds left behind by the failing relationship will not heal, and that the partner will be left with the scars.


The chorus of the song takes a more philosophical turn, with the singer reflecting on the fleeting nature of life. The lyrics suggest that life shrinks before you know it, and that the cuts and bruises of life are soon forgotten. The singer seems to be suggesting that the fights that they've had were over something as trivial as buttons, and that in the grand scheme of things, they don't matter. The final line of the chorus is a bit ambiguous, but it could be interpreted to mean that the partner is the one who ultimately loses in the relationship.


Line by Line Meaning

Shall I wear a buttonhole to jog your memory?
Do I need to do something special to make you remember the promise you made to me when we were younger?


So you'll recall the promise
So that you'll remember the promise you made to me


That I swore you made to me when we were younger
The promise I remember you making to me when we were younger


You look sorry for yourself but what about?
You seem to be feeling sorry for yourself, but what about me?


I'm some idea you're not without a doubt
I know you better than you think I do


So you can put away that tongue
You can stop speaking sarcastically now


I don't know who I'm trying to kid
I'm not sure who I'm trying to fool


I'll find another name for you
I will come up with a new name for you


I'll try to put the blame on you
I will attempt to make you take the blame


For everything we did
For all the things that happened between us


Life shrinks and before you know it
Life becomes smaller and more constricted before we even realize it


You have forgotten all the cuts and bruises
You have forgotten all the difficult and painful moments in life


Just be thankful we were only fighting for buttons
We should be glad that our disagreements were minor


And you know by now who loses
You should know by now who always ends up losing in our fights


You're only half awake because you never go to bed
You're not fully awake because you don't sleep enough


And when he hears about it
When he finds out


You know then the both of you's is dead and that's a promise
You both are in trouble and there will be consequences


You'll be sorry because I won't tell you again
You will regret not listening to me when I warned you


You'll stick like that one day
You'll get stuck in this unhealthy rut eventually


And if you don't believe me go and ask St. Thomas
If you don't believe me, go ask someone else - like St. Thomas


I don't know where it's going to stop
I do not know where this madness will end


Spend your whole time trying to stay
We spend all our time trying not to fall apart


From breaking down or running away
From collapsing under the weight of everything or attempting to escape it all


Or trying to keep up
Or struggling to keep pace with it all




Lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group
Written by: ELVIS COSTELLO

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