Pouring Water on a Drowning Man
Elvis Costello Lyrics


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You push me when I`m falling
And then you put me down
I guess I missed my calling
I should have been a clown

How much more
How much more can I stand
You`re pouring water
On a drowning man

You put me on the right track
And then you put me down
You stab me in the back
Every time I turn around

Criticize my lovin`
When I`m doing the very best I can
You`re pouring water
On a drowning man
You`re pouring water
On a drowning man
You treat me like
The fool that I am
You bet that I like everything you do
Put salt in my wounds
It`s sad but it`s true

You warm me with your kisses
Then you leave me in the cold
How can I know your wishes
When I`ve never been told
Won`t you please forgive me
Just try and understand
You`re pouring water
On a drowning man

You`re pouring water
On a drowning man
You treat me like
The fool that I am
You bet that I like everything you do
Put salt in my wounds
It`s sad but it`s true

You warm me with your kisses
Then you leave me in the cold
How can I know your wishes
When I've never been told
Won`t you please forgive me
Just try and understand
You`re pouring water
On a poor drowning man

I got tears in my eyes
Oh, I`m a drowning man
I got tears in my eyes
You`re pouring water
On a drowning man




You`re pouring water
On a poor drowning man

Overall Meaning

In Elvis Costello's song "Pouring Water on a Drowning Man," the lyrics speak to the frustration and confusion that comes with being in a toxic relationship. The song speaks to the rollercoaster of emotions in a relationship where one person is constantly pushing the other down, only to pull them back up and then stab them in the back. The imagery of pouring water on a drowning man highlights the desperation and hopelessness that comes with feeling like you are drowning in a relationship that is not healthy.


The lyrics also comment on the power dynamic in toxic relationships, where one person is constantly belittling and criticizing the other, leaving them feeling like a fool. The line "you bet that I like everything you do" speaks to the manipulation and gaslighting that can happen in these types of relationships, where one person tries to control the other's thoughts and feelings.


The song ultimately speaks to the need for forgiveness and understanding in these situations. The plea to "just try and understand" highlights the importance of empathy and communication in any relationship, even when it is difficult.


Line by Line Meaning

You push me when I`m falling
You aggravate and worsen my troubles when I'm already struggling


And then you put me down
You belittle me and make me feel worthless after aggravating my struggles


I guess I missed my calling
I think I should have followed a different path for my life


I should have been a clown
I would have been better off as a performer who can make people laugh


How much more
How much longer will this continue?


How much more can I stand
How much more of this can I endure?


You`re pouring water
You're making things worse


On a drowning man
On someone who is already struggling to stay afloat


You stab me in the back
You betray and hurt me when I least expect it


Every time I turn around
Every time I look to you for support and guidance


Criticize my lovin`
Disapprove of the way I love someone


When I`m doing the very best I can
When I'm putting my all into my actions and emotions


You treat me like
You behave towards me as if


The fool that I am
I am a gullible and easily deceived person


You bet that I like everything you do
You assume that I approve of and enjoy everything you do


Put salt in my wounds
Add further insult to my existing injuries


It's sad but it's true
It's unfortunate, but that's the reality of the situation


You warm me with your kisses
You show affection towards me with your intimate actions


Then you leave me in the cold
Then you abandon me or treat me harshly


How can I know your wishes
How can I understand or predict your desires and intentions?


When I've never been told
When you haven't communicated them to me clearly


Won`t you please forgive me
Will you please pardon my shortcomings or mistakes?


Just try and understand
Simply attempt to comprehend my perspectives and motives


On a poor drowning man
On someone who is in dire straits and struggling to keep themselves above water


I got tears in my eyes
I am feeling emotional and upset




Lyrics © Warner/Chappell Music, Inc.
Written by: DANNY HUGH MC CORMICK, DREW LANE BAKER

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