Growing up in Malibu, California, she began learning the violin at the age of four and left regular school five years later with the goal of becoming a world-class violinist; she practiced eight or nine hours a day and read a wide range of literature. Progressing to writing her own music, she studied under various teachers and went to Indiana University, which she left over issues regarding the relationship between classical music and the appearance of the performer. Through her own independent label Traitor Records, Autumn debuted with her classical album On a Day: Music for Violin & Continuo, followed by the release in 2003 of her album Enchant.
She appeared in singer Courtney Love's backing band on her 2004 America's Sweetheart tour and returned to Europe. She released the 2006 album Opheliac with the German label Trisol Music Group. In 2007, she released Laced/Unlaced; the re-release of On a Day... appeared as Laced with songs on the electric violin as Unlaced. She later left Trisol to join New York-based The End Records in 2009 and release Opheliac in the United States, where previously it had only been available as an import. Currently she is on tour to promote her newest album Fight Like A Girl. She played the role of Painted Doll in Darren Lynn Bousman's 2012 film The Devil's Carnival.
If You Could Only Know
Emilie Autumn Lyrics
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The hurt I feel
Each time I think of you
You might
Begin to understand
What makes a faerie cry
You couldn't quite believe
The reasons I would give
The nature of my tears
And so I told you why
If you could only know
How many times each day
I picture in my mind
The look
Upon your face
When you begin to laugh
Or how your eyes
Look sad
The softness of your hair
The beauty of your soul
And whatever I am
You are the other half
I cannot comprehend
How I could recognize
The one
I've waited for
The instant that we met
And have known since that day
While you are truly fond
And care I do believe
But would not take the chance
That alters suns and moons
And gave your heart away
If you could only know
How precious you’ve become
How all that I create
You still inspire so
You may begin to see
That I might be the one
For whom you were brought back
But if you never know
The chance will pass us by
And love will never be
The song "If You Could Only Know" by Emilie Autumn speaks about unrequited love and the pain that it brings to the person who loves. The song shows how the singer is deeply in love with someone who cannot return their feelings, and it's slowly killing them. The singer is pining for the affection of the person they love, so much so that they have memorized every little detail about them from the look on their face to the softness of their hair. The singer is making an appeal to this person, telling them that if only they knew how much they mattered, how much they inspired them, how much they loved them, then maybe they would consider a relationship. The song displays a sense of longing, sadness, and despair that comes with loving someone that cannot reciprocate feelings.
The song's emotive nature is a reflection of Emilie Autumn's personal experiences. Emilie was gravely ill and received treatment at an institution where she was sexually assaulted. She underwent psychiatric treatment to deal with the trauma, which is visible in her music. She often writes about mental health themes like suicidal thoughts, self-harm, and insanity. "If You Could Only Know" was written when she'd fallen in love with a man who was already in a committed relationship, and she had written him long letters pouring out her feelings for him. His rejection inspired her to write this song.
Line by Line Meaning
If you could only know
If you could only understand
The hurt I feel
The pain I feel inside
Each time I think of you
Whenever you come across my mind
You might
You could
Begin to understand
Start to grasp
What makes a faerie cry
The reason behind a faerie's tears
You couldn't quite believe
You couldn't fully accept
The reasons I would give
The explanations I would provide
If you asked to be told
If you requested to know
The nature of my tears
The cause of my weeping
And so I told you why
That's why I explained it to you
How many times each day
The frequency with which
I picture in my mind
I visualize
The look
The expression
Upon your face
On your countenance
When you begin to laugh
When you start to chuckle
Or how your eyes
Or how your gaze
Look sad
Appear somber
The softness of your hair
The silkiness of your locks
The beauty of your soul
The loveliness of your spirit
And whatever I am
And no matter what I am
You are the other half
You are my soulmate
I cannot comprehend
I cannot fully grasp
How I could recognize
How I was able to identify
The one
The perfect match
I've waited for
I longed for
The instant that we met
The very moment we first encountered each other
And have known since that day
And have realized since then
While you are truly fond
Although you genuinely care
And care I do believe
And I trust that you are concerned
But would not take the chance
But do not want to risk
That alters suns and moons
That can change everything
And gave your heart away
And surrendered your love
How precious you’ve become
How valuable you are to me now
How all that I create
Everything I make
You still inspire so
You still motivate me greatly
You may begin to see
You could start to understand
That I might be the one
That I could be the perfect match
For whom you were brought back
For whom you were meant to return to
But if you never know
But if you never realize
The chance will pass us by
The opportunity will be missed
And love will never be
And we will never experience love together
Contributed by Evelyn W. Suggest a correction in the comments below.