Out of This Car
Emily Weisband Lyrics


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This is why I didn't want to meet your sister
This is why I didn't want to post a picture
This is why, this is why, this is why
This is why, this is why, this is why

Four months to the day and all the sweet is bitter
This what I get for being brave, it figures
This is why, this is why, this is why
This is why, this is why, this is why

If you got something left to say, you better say it
If you're gonna break my heart, you better break it right
Boy, it's your mistake to make
And I'm officially the girl who got away

When I get out of this car
We're dead to me, that's it, don't care, no changes of heart
Don't call, don't write, we're done when I get out of this car
Believe me, babe, I'll walk away, forget your name
I'll swear to God, I don't know who you are
When I get out of this car

This is where you drive away and don't come back
Wake up in the morning like, "damn, I did that"
This is why, this is why, this is why
This is why, this is why, this is why

If you got something left to say, you better say it (say it)
If you're gonna break my heart, you better break it right (break it right)
Boy, it's your mistake to make
And I'm officially the girl who got away

When I get out of this car
We're dead to me, that's it, don't care, no changes of heart
Don't call, don't write, we're done when I get out of this car
Believe me, babe, I'll walk away, forget your name
I'll swear to God, I don't know who you are
When I get out of this car

Don't think I won't do it
Don't think I won't prove it
Just because I imagined us getting married, having babies
Doesn't mean that I won't let you go
Ah, no, it doesn't mean that I won't let you go

When I get out of this car
We're dead to me, that's it, don't care, no changes of heart
Don't call, don't write, we're done when I get out of this car
Believe me, babe, I'll walk away, forget your name




I'll swear to God, I don't know who you are
When I get out of this car

Overall Meaning

Emily Weisbandโ€™s song โ€œOut of This Carโ€ expresses the emotions of a person who realizes they made a mistake in a romantic relationship. The lyrics explore the aftermath of that mistake on the relationship, as well as the person's response to it. The first two verses express regret and frustration over the situation, with the repeated refrain โ€œthis is whyโ€ seemingly referring to reasons why the relationship should not have started in the first place.


The chorus changes focus, however, as Emily makes it clear that she is done with the relationship and will not accept any further attempts at reconciliation. She is clear about this, stating that โ€œWeโ€™re dead to me, thatโ€™s it, donโ€™t care, no changes of heartโ€ and insisting that the other person not call or write. The song ends with a warning, as Emily declares that she will not hesitate to walk away and forget the other personโ€™s name, once she gets out of the car.


Overall, โ€œOut of This Carโ€ is a powerful breakup song that expresses the conflicting emotions that people experience when ending a relationship. It highlights the importance of taking responsibility for oneโ€™s actions and standing firm in oneโ€™s decisions, even when they might be difficult.


Line by Line Meaning

This is why I didn't want to meet your sister
I knew that if I met your sister, I would ultimately end up heartbroken.


This is why I didn't want to post a picture
I didn't want to put our relationship on display, knowing that it was destined to fail.


Four months to the day and all the sweet is bitter
Even though we had a wonderful four months together, it has all become sour now.


This what I get for being brave, it figures
I took a chance on us, but it seems like it was all for nothing.


If you got something left to say, you better say it
If you still have something to say, now is the time to speak up.


If you're gonna break my heart, you better break it right
If you're going to hurt me, at least do it in the most effective way possible.


Boy, it's your mistake to make
Ultimately, whatever happens between us is your responsibility.


And I'm officially the girl who got away
From this point on, you will be the one who regrets losing me.


When I get out of this car
Once I step out of this car, our relationship is officially over.


We're dead to me, that's it, don't care, no changes of heart
I have made up my mind and will not change it, no matter what.


Don't call, don't write, we're done when I get out of this car
Please don't try to contact me after this moment, as we are completely finished.


Believe me, babe, I'll walk away, forget your name
I am fully prepared to move on from you and erase you from my memory.


I'll swear to God, I don't know who you are
Once our relationship is over, I will have no connection to you whatsoever.


Don't think I won't do it
I am completely serious about ending this relationship and leaving you behind.


Don't think I won't prove it
I will not hesitate to follow through with my decision to end things.


Just because I imagined us getting married, having babies
Although I had visions of a future together, I now see that it was just a fantasy.


Doesn't mean that I won't let you go
Despite my past feelings, I am willing to let go of our relationship and move on.




Writer(s): Joe Khajadourian, Laura Veltz, Alex Schwartz, Emily Weisband

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Comments from YouTube:

@claire5765

idrk why she's underrated but this song hits rlly hard tbh. the meaning, her voice, the music video, this is rlly wholesome. stan Emily Weisband for awesome songs!!!!

@cutefoxy3102

Giiirrrllll Iโ€™m so obsessed with this song. I SWEAR YOU DID THAT. LITERALLY. LOVE YOU Emily for sure a follower. ๐Ÿ”ฅ ๐Ÿ”ฅ

@hansonl3550

I love this song (out of this car)I cried โค๏ธ๐Ÿ˜ญ

@rachelmyers3228

Wow. This is everything Iโ€™m feeling right now. Itโ€™s put so succinctly. When she says the first set of โ€˜This is whyโ€™ it sounds like the internal reprimand you give yourself for buying into it all. The next time sounds like she is singing it at someone. Some things only god can forgive.

@MaravillaBrenda

First time listening to you and wow! Love your voice and this song!

@jcsontos4

Next superstar ๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿป๐Ÿ”ฅ๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿป๐Ÿ”ฅ๐Ÿ’…๐Ÿป๐Ÿ’…๐Ÿป๐Ÿ’…๐Ÿป๐ŸŽ€๐ŸŽ€
Finally a new fresh artist.

@gomongio

Great songwriting and voice, plus a pair of eyes I can't get out of my head. Thumbed up.

@adambettlestonne1888

This is now on fire! This c0nfid3ntial video has been revealed - https://youtu.be/I7UfuxKf5ko

@loyivpatton5808

U deserve all the happiness in this world Emily โค๏ธ

@JAKER882

You're so underrated.

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