Benét's father loved rap music and inspired an interest in music in his son. He sang with a Top 100-style group called Gerard in the late 1980s, and then Benét, his sister, Lisa, and his cousin, George Nash Jr., formed a band called Benét and released a self-titled album in 1992 but only sold 100,000 copies.
Benét's career-building, however, was interrupted by a series of personal tragedies. His father died of cancer, and his girlfriend, Tami Marie Stauff, the mother of Benét's daughter, India, born in 1992, died of injuries suffered in an automobile crash (April 24, 1993) after languishing in a coma for five days. Benét endured a long period of personal and creative depression, often feeling that only his responsibilities as a father kept him going. He took a job with United Parcel Service in Milwaukee and eased back into music by producing demo recordings for local artists.
In 1994, Benét signed with Warner Bros. Records, releasing his solo debut album, True to Myself, in fall (1996). Individual songs from the album were successful, including the top-ten R&B hit "Spiritual Thang" and "Let's Stay Together," which appeared on the soundtrack of the film A Thin Line Between Love and Hate.
His next album, A Day in the Life, was released in 1999; its first single, "Georgy Porgy (featuring Faith Evans)" received significant airplay, but the second single, "Spend My Life With You (featuring Tamia)", became a smash hit. "Spend My Life With You" rose to number one on the American R&B charts, was certified gold, and nominated for a 2000 Grammy Award for Best R&B Performance by a Duo or Group. The album, A Day In The Life also won a Soul Train Music Award for Best R&B/Soul Album, Male.
Benét also recorded for Earth, Wind, and Fire's 30th anniversary CD. He contributed vocals to the post-Katrina charity single, "Heart of America" along with Michael McDonald, Wynonna Judd, and Terry Dexter. He has also lent his vocals to many jazz albums for such artists as Wayman Tisdale, George Duke, Chris Botti, Jeff Lorber, Boney James, etc.
Benét has also been active as an actor; he had a recurring role on the television program For Your Love (1998 - 2002). He made his film debut alongside Mariah Carey in Glitter (2001). He has a recurring role on the MTV scripted show "Kaya" (2007) where he plays a music producer.
His Love & Life was released on September 9, 2008. The first single You're The Only One is currently rising on the r&b charts (having already hit No.1 on the Adult R&B Airplay chart (Billboard)). It is his first top twenty hit in 2 years.
Be Myself Again
Eric Benét Lyrics
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I lost my rhythm, I forgot my style
Too complicated for this simple man
But now I understand
Like a circle peg in a square hole
I tried to push it but it wouldn't go
It didn't kill me so my strength increased
And now I finally see
I found a love that was gone deep inside of me
I found a man who was lost and I set him free
I thought that the pain was never gonna end
But now I can be myself again
I had the best the world could offer for sho'
But peace of mind is much more precious than gold
I was in place where truth was hard to find
But it's all revealed in time
Stick out my chest and hold my head up high
Forgot how it felt to feel so good inside
A fool would gain the world just to lose himself
Now I'm gonna be true to no one else
I gotta light in my eyes for the world to see
Thank God the music's back inside of me
It was a long hard road to be a better man
But now I can be myself again
I feel the roll of thunder in my bones
I hold my head up high everywhere that I go
And the gift of life I truly understand
'Cause I can be myself again
No there ain't no wound that love can't heal for sho'
And if you lose yourself the Lord will guide you home
This I know
Well I found a joy and serenity
Won't let nobody tell me something's wrong with me
Gotta big love inside and I'm 'mo set it free
And be myself again
I found a love that was gone deep inside of me
I found a man who was lost and I set him free
I thought that the pain was never gonna end
But now I can be myself again
I feel the roll of thunder in my bones
I hold my head up high everywhere that I go
And the gift of life I truly understand
And I can be myself again
I said I can be myself again
I know I can be myself again
I can be myself again
The song "Be Myself Again" by Eric Benét is about the theme of rediscovering one's true self. The singer expresses his struggles in finding himself again after losing his way in life. The song tackles the idea of how people often change or try to be a different version of themselves to conform to societal standards or to please others. However, in the end, the singer realizes that true happiness comes from being true to oneself and not to others' expectations.
The lyrics "Like a circle peg in a square hole, I tried to push it but it wouldn't go It didn't kill me so my strength increased And now I finally see" emphasizes the struggles of trying to fit in and failing at it. The singer acknowledges that trying to be someone he's not is tiring and even caused him to lose himself. However, it also led him to become stronger, enabling him to rediscover his true self.
The song also talks about how finding love helped the singer rediscover his true self. "I found a love that was gone deep inside of me. I found a man who was lost, and I set him free" shows how love played a significant role in helping him find himself again. The lyrics "No, there ain't no wound that love can't heal for sho'. And if you lose yourself, the Lord will guide you home. This I know" further emphasize this point, suggesting that even when one gets lost or loses themselves, love can help guide them back to their true self.
Overall, "Be Myself Again" is a motivational song that encourages listeners to be true to themselves and know that rediscovering one's true self is an ongoing process.
Line by Line Meaning
I've been away too long awhile
I have been absent for quite some time
I lost my rhythm, I forgot my style
I lost my sense of flow and creative expression
Too complicated for this simple man
I found it difficult to thrive amidst complexity
But now I understand
But now I have gained insight and comprehension
Like a circle peg in a square hole
I felt like an awkward misfit in unfamiliar surroundings
I tried to push it but it wouldn't go
Despite my efforts, I struggled to find success
It didn't kill me so my strength increased
My resilience grew as I persevered through trials
And now I finally see
I have gained clarity and insight
I found a love that was gone deep inside of me
I discovered a deep love within me that had been lost
I found a man who was lost and I set him free
I helped to release a lost part of myself and rediscovered it
I thought that the pain was never gonna end
I believed my suffering would never cease
But now I can be myself again
But I have regained my authenticity and self-expression
I had the best the world could offer for sho'
I had access to everything the world offered
But peace of mind is much more precious than gold
But inner tranquility is far more valuable than material wealth
I was in place where truth was hard to find
I was in a situation where sincerity and honesty were elusive
But it's all revealed in time
But eventually, the truth emerged
Stick out my chest and hold my head up high
I carry myself confidently and with pride
Forgot how it felt to feel so good inside
I had forgotten what it was like to feel inner happiness
A fool would gain the world just to lose himself
It is foolish to pursue worldly success at the expense of losing oneself
Now I'm gonna be true to no one else
I choose to live authentically and true to myself
I gotta light in my eyes for the world to see
I radiate positivity and joy for all to witness
Thank God the music's back inside of me
I am grateful to have rediscovered my creative and expressive spark
It was a long hard road to be a better man
It was a difficult journey to become a more virtuous person
But now I can be myself again
But I have returned to my true self
I feel the roll of thunder in my bones
I feel a powerful sense of strength and vitality
I hold my head up high everywhere that I go
I carry myself with pride and confidence in all situations
And the gift of life I truly understand
I appreciate the value and significance of life
'Cause I can be myself again
Because I have returned to my true self
No there ain't no wound that love can't heal for sho'
There is no emotional pain that love cannot eventually heal
And if you lose yourself the Lord will guide you home
When you feel lost, faith can help guide you back to yourself
This I know
I have come to understand this through personal experience
Well I found a joy and serenity
I discovered a sense of happiness and inner peace
Won't let nobody tell me something's wrong with me
I refuse to let anyone make me feel bad or ashamed of who I am
Gotta big love inside and I'm 'mo set it free
I have a tremendous capacity for love and I will share it without hesitation
And be myself again
And live authentically, true to myself
I said I can be myself again
I affirm and celebrate my return to my true self
I know I can be myself again
I am confident in my ability to live authentically
I can be myself again
I have regained my authenticity and self-expression
Lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC, Universal Music Publishing Group
Written by: ERIC BENET, HOD DAVID, ANDREW WYATT
Lyrics Licensed & Provided by LyricFind
@colettebyfield195
Love how they showed a beautiful simple story of a couple getting married in a simple way and rejoicing over those exciting "first moments". Very very touching!
@russelljohnson2008
Amazing... Why this man is not given the respect due him is beyond me.
@sparx180
+russelljohnson2008 Halle Berry ruined this man's career. She cannot keep a man so it has to be her.
@carebear433
+Chloe wilson it is the proofs in the pudding.my cousin's friend was one of eric's good friends. Says she's nuts foreal.
@thalease10
THIS DUDE CAN SING!
@daksnadaks6499
Of course!
@anthonywilliams5815
You're right he sung the mess out that song !!!!! Wow !!!!
@ricknelson1637
Yesss🙌🏽🙌🏽🥰
@reginawatson5021
My wedding party is going to walk down the aisle to this song when I get married👰🏽♀️💍🤵🏽♂️
@wshelby83
Those who get to experience this type of love are so so blessed man