They Say
Ethel Waters Lyrics


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They say you have no lips for a fool such as I
They say you just believe in hello and goodbye
And they say that the one I admire
Isn't even remotely concerned
And that I'll go on playing with fire
Until I have learned my heart has been burned
They say I shouldn't dream of your face in the moon
They say all of my dreams will be nightmares too soon
Let 'em talk, let 'em think what they want to
If it makes them feel happy that way
'Cause I know I'll always love you no matter what they say
Let 'em say you have no lips for a fool such as I
Yes, let 'em say you just believe in hello and goodbye
And what do I care if they say the one I admire
Isn't even remotely concerned
And that I'm a fool just to go on playing with fire
Until I learn my heart has been burned
They say I shouldn't dream of your face in the moon
Let 'em say all of my dreams will be nightmares too soon
Let 'em talk, let 'em think what they want to




If it makes them feel happy that way
'Cause I know I'll always love you no matter what they say

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of Ethel Waters's "They Say" describe the singer's defiant stance against the judgement of society, as she expresses her unwavering love for someone who is not deemed good enough for her. The song opens with the singer being warned that she is setting herself up for disappointment by falling in love with someone who is not reciprocating her feelings. The people around her seem to think that the object of her affection is not only indifferent to her but also incapable of loving her back. However, the singer chooses to ignore their cynicism and decides to continue pursuing the object of her love.


As the song progresses, the singer is cautioned not to cling onto her illusions and dream of a future with someone who will not be there for her. She is firmly told that all her passion and aspirations are destined to end in heartbreak if she does not let go of her unwarranted fantasies. Nevertheless, she is not swayed by these opinions and does not let them influence her emotions. The singer declares that no amount of criticism or ridicule can change the way she feels, stating that she will always love her beloved, no matter what others may say.


In essence, "They Say" is a song about perseverance, self-determination, and staying true to yourself, even when the odds are against you. It highlights the importance of standing up for what you believe in, even if it means going against societal norms and expectations.


Line by Line Meaning

They say you have no lips for a fool such as I
People say you are out of my league and that I am foolish for pursuing you


They say you just believe in hello and goodbye
People say you are not interested in a serious relationship and only interested in brief interactions


And they say that the one I admire isn't even remotely concerned
People say the person I love does not care about me in the slightest


And that I'll go on playing with fire until I have learned my heart has been burned
People warn that I am continuing to pursue a risky and potentially painful relationship even though I know the risks


They say I shouldn't dream of your face in the moon
People advise me to stop fantasizing about being with you


They say all of my dreams will be nightmares too soon
People warn that my hopes will be dashed and I will be left with nothing but pain


Let 'em talk, let 'em think what they want to
I am choosing to ignore other people's opinions and judgments


If it makes them feel happy that way
I recognize that other people may derive pleasure from putting me down or discouraging me


'Cause I know I'll always love you no matter what they say
Despite other people's warnings and negativity, I am confident in my feelings for you and am committed to loving you regardless of outside opinions




Writer(s): Edward Heyman, Paul Mann, Stephan Weiss

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