I'm Gonna Take What He's Got
Etta James Lyrics


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He beat on me
He cheat on me
He's mean to me
Ooh, but he could be so sweet to me

My friends say I should give him up
But oh, I need him, I need him a lot
That's why I'm gonna take it (take it, take it)
Take what he's got
He disowns me
He's going to sleep
But when we're alone
He tells me "I'm his very own"

Yes, he's got what I need
But oh, I need what he's got
That's why I'm gonna take it (take it, take it)
Take what he's got

Oh, my friends say he's no good
He's not worth the time of day
For he could be an ice man, trash man, a junk man any kind of man
But nothing can drive me away, oh!

He cause me pain,
You make me wait sometimes out in the rain
You can make me feel ashamed
But I never dress the same

And I love him so much
Nothing can make me stop
That's why I'm gonna take it (take it take it)
Take what he's got

That's why I'm gonna take it (take it take it)
Take what he's got

Oh, give it up, give it up, right now
I'm gonna take it, baby




(Take it take it)
Take what he's got

Overall Meaning

The song "I'm Gonna Take What He's Got" by Etta James is a powerful love ballad that delves into the complexities of a dysfunctional romantic relationship. The lyrics explore the physical and emotional abuse that the subject of the song endures at the hands of her partner. Despite the mistreatment, she is unable to let go of the relationship and continues to stay with him. The opening line of the song, "He beat on me, he cheated on me, he's mean to me," immediately sets the tone and introduces the central theme of the song.


The subject of the song is torn between her love for her abusive partner and the advice of her friends who urge her to leave him. She acknowledges that he is not good for her, but still needs him and cannot bring herself to leave. The lyrics, "My friends say I should give him up, but oh, I need him, I need him a lot," capture this struggle. Despite the abuse and advice of her loved ones, she finds comfort in the moments when he is kind to her and holds on to those moments. The lyrics "He's got what I need, but oh, I need what he's got," speaks to this internal conflict.


The repetition of the chorus, "That's why I'm gonna take it (take it, take it), take what he's got," emphasizes the power dynamic in the relationship. The subject of the song is taking control in her own way by holding on to what her partner offers her, even if it is only fleeting moments of kindness. The song ultimately ends with the subject proclaiming that she will take what her partner has to offer and that nothing will make her stop.


Overall, "I'm Gonna Take What He's Got" is a poignant and emotive song that explores the complicated nature of love and abusive relationships. It highlights the difficult decision one must make when staying in a relationship that is not healthy, even in the face of sound advice from loved ones.


Line by Line Meaning

He beat on me
He physically abuses me


He cheat on me
He is unfaithful in our relationship


He's mean to me
He is cruel and unkind to me


Ooh, but he could be so sweet to me
Despite his bad behavior, he can be charming and affectionate


My friends say I should give him up
My friends advise me to end our relationship


But oh, I need him, I need him a lot
Despite their advice, I feel a strong attachment to him


That's why I'm gonna take it (take it, take it)
I will do whatever it takes to keep him in my life


Take what he's got
I will take whatever he can offer me


He disowns me
He denies our relationship in public


He's going to sleep
He is emotionally distant from me


But when we're alone
He acts more loving in private


He tells me "I'm his very own"
He claims ownership over me


Yes, he's got what I need
I am dependent on him


But oh, I need what he's got
Despite his flaws, I cannot imagine my life without him


Oh, my friends say he's no good
My friends have a negative opinion of him


He's not worth the time of day
He is not deserving of my attention or affection


For he could be an ice man, trash man, a junk man any kind of man
For all his faults, I'll still choose him over anyone else


But nothing can drive me away, oh!
I am committed to him no matter what


He cause me pain,
He hurts me emotionally and physically


You make me wait sometimes out in the rain
He keeps me waiting and is unreliable


You can make me feel ashamed
He makes me feel embarrassed or guilty


But I never dress the same
I am still myself despite his attempts to change me


And I love him so much
I have deep feelings of affection for him


Nothing can make me stop
I am determined to stay with him, no matter what


Oh, give it up, give it up, right now
Others may try to convince me to leave him


I'm gonna take it, baby
I will continue to accept and tolerate his flaws


(Take it take it)
I will take whatever he is willing to give me


Take what he's got
I will take whatever he can offer me




Writer(s): Don Covay

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Erik brodland


on I Just Want to Make Love to You

Love this song so much, it makes me think of my son's Beautiful mommy jasmin and her amazing.voice.

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