You're Taking Up Another Man's Place
Etta James Lyrics


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You don't want me
And you don't want nobody else to want me
What kind of man
What kind of man are you?

You don't need me
And you don't want nobody else to need me
What kind of man
Are you trying to send me to?

Now if you're not gonna take care of business
Then you ought to stop taking up space
'Cause you're just taking up, that's all you're doing
You just taking up another man's place

Aw baby, you don't even
You don't even want me to go to the store
What kind of man
What manner of man are you?

You run over me
You run right over me trying to answer the telephone
Tell me what kind of thing, what kind of thing
What kind of thing you think you gonna put me through?

You keep me wanting
You keep me wanting the one thing you never gave
Well, right here right now
You can stop taking up another man's space

Baby, I been faithful
And you know I been true
But if you're not gonna love me, baby
Tell me what do you expect me to do?

You keep me wanting
You keep me wanting the one thing you never gave
Well, right here right now
Right here right now

You can stop taking up another man's place
If you're not gonna love me baby
And you know I need somebody to love me
You're just taking up another man's place

If you really don't need me, baby




If you say you just don't need me
You just, oh, stop taking up another man's place

Overall Meaning

In "You're Taking Up Another Man's Place," Etta James sings about a man who doesn't truly want her, but doesn't want anyone else to have her either. She questions what kind of man he is to behave in such a possessive and selfish way. The lyrics suggest that this man uses her for his own convenience and takes up space in her life without truly caring for her. James implores the man to take care of business and stop occupying a space that another man could potentially occupy.


The lyrics also convey James's frustration and longing for a fulfilling relationship. She expresses that the man keeps her wanting something that he never gives her, implying that he does not reciprocate her love and affection. Despite being faithful and true, she questions what she should do if the man does not truly love her. The repetition of the phrase "taking up another man's place" highlights the idea that someone else could occupy the space that this man occupies in her life.


Overall, the song can be interpreted as a critique of possessive and selfish behavior in relationships, as well as an expression of longing for a deeper connection and love.


Line by Line Meaning

You don't want me
You do not have any desire for me


And you don't want nobody else to want me
You do not want anyone else to have any desire for me


What kind of man
What type of person


What kind of man are you?
What type of person are you being?


You don't need me
You do not require me


And you don't want nobody else to need me
You do not want anyone else to require me


What kind of man
What type of person


Are you trying to send me to?
Are you attempting to push me away?


Now if you're not gonna take care of business
If you are not going to handle things


Then you ought to stop taking up space
You should not take up space


'Cause you're just taking up, that's all you're doing
Because you are simply occupying, that is all you are doing


You just taking up another man's place
You are taking up the spot of another man


Aw baby, you don't even
Oh baby, you do not even


You don't even want me to go to the store
You do not even want me to go to the store


What kind of man
What type of person


What manner of man are you?
What type of person are you being?


You run over me
You disregard me


You run right over me trying to answer the telephone
You disregard me while attempting to answer the phone


Tell me what kind of thing, what kind of thing
Explain to me what type of behavior, what type of behavior


What kind of thing you think you gonna put me through?
What type of behavior do you think you will subject me to?


You keep me wanting
You keep me desiring


You keep me wanting the one thing you never gave
You keep me desiring the one thing you have never given


Well, right here right now
At this very moment


You can stop taking up another man's space
You are capable of ceasing to take up another man's spot


Baby, I been faithful
Darling, I have been loyal


And you know I been true
And you are aware that I have been genuine


But if you're not gonna love me, baby
However, if you are not going to love me, darling


Tell me what do you expect me to do?
Tell me, what do you want me to do?


And you know I need somebody to love me
You are aware that I require someone to love me


If you really don't need me, baby
If you truly do not require me, darling


If you say you just don't need me
If you declare that you just do not require me


You just, oh, stop taking up another man's place
You simply must stop occupying another man's spot




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Erik brodland


on I Just Want to Make Love to You

Love this song so much, it makes me think of my son's Beautiful mommy jasmin and her amazing.voice.

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