Call Me When Youre Sober
Evanescence渀 Lyrics


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Don't cry to me, if you loved me
You would be here with me
You want me, come find me
Make up your mind

Should I let you fall, lose it all
So maybe you can remember yourself?
Can't keep believing
We're only deceiving ourselves
And I'm sick of the lie
And you're too late

Don't cry to me, if you loved me
You would be here with me
You want me, come find me
Make up your mind

Couldn't take the blame, sick with shame
Must be exhausting to lose your own game, selfishly hated
No wonder you're jaded
You can't play the victim this time
And you're too late

Don't cry to me, if you loved me
You would be here with me
You want me, come find me
Make up your mind

You never call me when you're sober
You only want it 'cause it's over, it's over

How could I have burned paradise?
How could I?
You were never mine!

So don't cry to me, if you loved me
You would be here with me




Don't lie to me, just get your things
I've made up your mind!

Overall Meaning

"Evanescence- Call Me When You're Sober" is a song that speaks to the pain of a broken relationship, and the struggle of the singer to come to terms with the situation. The lyrics start by setting the tone for the song, as the singer tells their ex-lover not to come crying to them if they truly loved them, as they would still be together. The back and forth of the chorus is a plea from the singer to their ex to make up their mind and decide if they truly want to be together, or if they should let go and move on.


The second verse is a more direct attack on the ex, as the singer questions their motives and their actions. They accuse the ex of being selfish and playing games, leading to their own downfall. The chorus repeats again, with the singer reiterating that the ex needs to make a decision. The bridge of the song features an introspective moment, where the singer questions their own actions and how they may have contributed to the downfall of the relationship. However, they quickly turn the blame back to the ex, declaring them as never being theirs.


Line by Line Meaning

Don't cry to me, if you loved me
Don't come to me crying if you truly loved me


You would be here with me
Because if you did, you would be here with me


You want me, come find me
If you want me, then you need to come find me


Make up your mind
Decide what you truly want


Should I let you fall, lose it all
Should I let you fail and lose everything


So maybe you can remember yourself?
So that you can remember who you truly are


Can't keep believing
I can no longer continue to believe


We're only deceiving ourselves
We are only lying to ourselves


And I'm sick of the lie
I'm tired of lying to myself


And you're too late
It's too late for you to change


Couldn't take the blame, sick with shame
You refuse to take responsibility and are consumed by shame


Must be exhausting to lose your own game
It must be tiring to constantly lose at your own game


Selfishly hated
You are only capable of focusing on yourself and your hate


No wonder you're jaded
It's no surprise that you have become disillusioned and bitter


You can't play the victim this time
You can't pretend to be the victim in this situation


You never call me when you're sober
You only reach out to me when you're drunk and vulnerable


You only want it 'cause it's over, it's over
You only want me back now that it's too late


How could I have burned paradise?
How could I have destroyed what we had?


How could I?
I can't figure it out


You were never mine!
You were never truly mine to begin with


So don't cry to me, if you loved me
Don't come crying to me if you really loved me


Don't lie to me, just get your things
Don't lie to me anymore, just leave and take your things


I've made up your mind!
I have made the decision for you




Lyrics © Warner/Chappell Music, Inc., Universal Music Publishing Group, Reservoir One Music, RESERVOIR MEDIA MANAGEMENT INC, BMG RIGHTS MANAGEMENT US, LLC
Written by: TERRY BALSAMO, AMY LEE

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@Imalostboy

Don't cry to me
If you loved me
You would be here with me
You want me?
Come find me
Make up your mind

Should I let you fall? Lose it all?
So maybe you can remember yourself
Can't keep believing, we're only deceiving ourselves
And I'm sick of the lie

And you're too late

Don't cry to me
If you loved me
You would be here with me
You want me?
Come find me
Make up your mind

Couldn't take the blame, sick with shame
Must be exhausting to lose your own game
Selfishly hated, no wonder you're jaded
You can't play the victim this time

And you're too late

So don't cry to me
If you loved me
You would be here with me
You want me?
Come find me
Make up your mind

You never call me when you're sober
You only want it 'cause it's over
Oh, oh, it's over

How could I have burned paradise?
How could I? You were never mine

So don't cry to me
If you loved me
You would be here with me
Don't lie to me
Just get your things
I've made up your mind



@arielalves1993

LYRICS
Don't cry to me, if you loved me
You would be here with me
You want me, come find me
Make up your mind

Should I let you fall, lose it all
So maybe you can remember yourself?
Can't keep believing
We're only deceiving ourselves
And I'm sick of the lie
And you're too late

Don't cry to me, if you loved me
You would be here with me
You want me, come find me
Make up your mind

Couldn't take the blame, sick with shame
Must be exhausting to lose your own game, selfishly hated
No wonder you're jaded
You can't play the victim this time
And you're too late

Don't cry to me, if you loved me
You would be here with me
You want me, come find me
Make up your mind

You never call me when you're sober
You only want it 'cause it's over, it's over

How could I have burned paradise?
How could I?
You were never mine!

So don't cry to me, if you loved me
You would be here with me
Don't lie to me, just get your things
I've made up your mind!



@user-hr6de1pj7f

Lyrics:

Don't cry to me, if you loved me
You would be here with me
You want me, come find me
Make up your mind

Should I let you fall, lose it all
So maybe you can remember yourself?
Can't keep believing
We're only deceiving ourselves
And I'm sick of the lie
And you're too late

Don't cry to me, if you loved me
You would be here with me
You want me, come find me
Make up your mind

Couldn't take the blame, sick with shame
Must be exhausting to lose your own game, selfishly hated
No wonder you're jaded
You can't play the victim this time
And you're too late

Don't cry to me, if you loved me
You would be here with me
You want me, come find me
Make up your mind

You never call me when you're sober
You only want it 'cause it's over, it's over

How could I have burned paradise?
How could I?
You were never mine!

So don't cry to me, if you loved me
You would be here with me
Don't lie to me, just get your things
I've made up your mind!



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@voltaspeeder17

"Don't lie to me, just get your things. I've made up your mind". Such powerful lyrics and truly amazing song. You don't fully understand it when you're young, but it just evolves and hits differently when listening when you're older. Truly a rock classic, i thank you Amy and Evanescence for this masterpiece.

@alexcal24

It also shows empowerment. "I've made up your mind" after THREE choruses in which she pleads him to "make up your mind".
The narrator is truly fed up and finally makes up his mind for him. Truly intelligent writing.

@user-xi2hy2ms5n

U would be surprised 😮

@D1SaVaGeZ

People in your 30s this was our shit back in the day and still is

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