I Am Better Without You
Everclear Lyrics


Jump to: Overall Meaning ↴  Line by Line Meaning ↴

Sometimes I need your sex
Like a junkie needs a hard drug
We are poison to each other
We are like opposites attract on crack

Sometimes you hit me in my sleep
We are poison to each other
We will never be friends
We are a bad movie that never ends

You call my house
Wasted late at night
Want to come over and get in my bed
Maybe you just want to fight

Please please please baby
Leave me alone
I know you blame me
For a not so happy home

I cheated on you, you cheated on me
We will never be happy until
We see each other toothless
And crazy living on the street

You call my name
I kind of lose my mind
I just can't help myself
You are my favorite waste of time

You call my name
I crave the pain only you can do
The voice inside it tells me
I am better without you
I am better without you

I am better without the shame
Yeah the only thing I miss was sex with you
The voice inside it tells me
You are better without me too

I will never admit it to myself
I will never admit it to you

When I hear your name
It takes me back to the day we met
We didn't have to try so hard
We had nothing to forget
I hear your name
I think about the changes we refuse to see
Like the fact that I don't like you
And you don't like me

You call my name
I lose my f***ing mind
I kiss my daughter goodnight
I drive to your house and I set myself on fire

You call my name
I crave the pain that only you can do
I will gladly take the blame
If it will make you go away
I know I'm not the only one
That feels this way

My cat doesn't like you
She thinks I'm better without you
Your boyfriend says I'm awesome
He says I'm better without you

All our friends that knew us in the day
They tell me
I am better without
All the games you play

I am better without you, oh
I am better without you, oh
I am better without the shame
You make me cringe when I hear
All the stupid things you say
I am better without the drama

I am better without you
(You are better without me too)
I am better without you
(You are better without me too)

I am better without all the hate
I don't want to see your face and
You don't want to hear my name

We will meet again someday
We will stand there face to face




You will smile at me, and I'll smile at you
And we'll turn and walk away

Overall Meaning

The Everclear song "I Am Better Without You" is a raw, honest, and intense depiction of a broken relationship. The lyrics describe the conflicting emotions of two people who are physically and emotionally addicted to each other but know that their relationship is toxic and will never work out. The opening lines, "Sometimes I need your sex, like a junkie needs a hard drug," set the tone for the rest of the song, highlighting the intense physical attraction the two have for each other. However, the following lines, "We are poison to each other, we are like opposites attract on crack," convey the idea that their relationship is dangerous and can lead to destruction.


The song goes on to describe the emotional turmoil and abuse present in the relationship. The line "Sometimes you hit me in my sleep" suggests physical abuse, while the chorus repeats the idea that even though they crave each other's company, they are better off without one another. The lyrics describe a relationship that is beyond repair, that is destined to end in chaos if they keep indulging in it.


Overall, the song is a powerful depiction of a love-hate relationship that is full of pain and regret. It is an intense and honest confession of the dark and destructive side of passion and lust.


Line by Line Meaning

Sometimes I need your sex
I crave the physical act of sex with you.


Like a junkie needs a hard drug
My need for sex with you is like an addiction.


We are poison to each other
Our relationship is toxic and detrimental to both of us.


We are like opposites attract on crack
Our difference in personalities only intensifies the destructive nature of our relationship.


Sometimes you hit me in my sleep
Our relationship has been physically and emotionally violent in the past.


We will never be friends
There is no hope for a positive platonic relationship between us.


We are a bad movie that never ends
Our relationship is like a terrible film, with constant conflict and no conclusion.


You call my house
You attempt to contact me through my phone.


Wasted late at night
You are intoxicated, presumably with alcohol or drugs, when you contact me.


Want to come over and get in my bed
You express a desire to have sex with me.


Maybe you just want to fight
There is a chance that you are also seeking conflict with me.


Leave me alone
I want no further interaction or communication with you.


I know you blame me For a not so happy home
You hold me accountable for the negative state of our previous living arrangements or relationship.


We will never be happy until We see each other toothless And crazy living on the street
The only way for us to finally be rid of each other is to see each other at our absolute worst, with nothing left to lose.


I crave the pain only you can do
I have an unhealthy inclination towards the emotional pain that comes from interacting with you.


The voice inside it tells me I am better without you
There is a part of me that realizes my life would improve without you in it.


I am better without the shame Yeah the only thing I miss was sex with you
My current state without you is preferable, although I still long for the physical aspect of our past sexual relationship.


You are better without me too
I acknowledge that our relationship is negative for both of us, and you would also improve without me in your life.


When I hear your name It takes me back to the day we met
Thoughts of you bring me back to our first meeting.


Like the fact that I don't like you And you don't like me
We have fundamental dislikes of each other that are impossible to overcome.


I kiss my daughter goodnight I drive to your house and I set myself on fire
The thoughts of you create a sense of pain that I am unable to ignore, and I act on self-destructive behavior.


I will gladly take the blame If it will make you go away
I would rather take fault or responsibility for things that were not my fault to encourage you to leave me alone.


My cat doesn't like you She thinks I'm better without you
Even my pets recognize that our relationship is negative, and it is better for me to not have you around.


Your boyfriend says I'm awesome He says I'm better without you
Others in your life also recognize that our relationship was negative and it is positive for me to have moved on.


All our friends that knew us in the day They tell me I am better without All the games you play
People who knew us previously also feel that I am better off without the negative games played in our relationship.


We will meet again someday We will stand there face to face You will smile at me, and I'll smile at you And we'll turn and walk away
We may cross paths again in the future, but it will be brief and neither of us will make an effort to reignite past conflicts or hurt.


I don't want to see your face and You don't want to hear my name
Both of us wish to avoid future interaction and want nothing to do with each other.


I am better without the drama
I have improved my life by removing the drama that came with our past relationship.


(You are better without me too)
I reiterate that our interaction was negative for both of us, and you are also better off without me.




Lyrics © O/B/O APRA AMCOS

Lyrics Licensed & Provided by LyricFind
To comment on or correct specific content, highlight it

Genre not found
Artist not found
Album not found
Song not found
Comments from YouTube:

BrainzFreek

Everclear will always for eternity and forever and ever be the best band. No other bands especially today's bands can ever compare. Why couldn't I have been a teen in the days when music was good????? I love 90s bands!!!!!!!!

Paul Flint

true

1 More Replies...

pyoumans36

So many great lyrics in one song. "You call my name....I lose my f*cking mind....I kiss my daughter good night, I drive to your house and I set myself on fire"...probably my favorite. Great song.

Happy

Their lyrics allways hit you like a freight train dont they ? :) - sharing your love for this band :)

Lilly La Fon

I lov everclear! they keep the essence of their sound

loganrising

i love everclear . every album feels like a sound track to my next or recent experience in life....it gets frustrating waiting in between the albums so i can play them contemplate what im going through with musical accompaniment lol

Patrick Chavez

I think this is an awesome Everclear song been a fan since I was 14 years old that was 15 years ago

henry lacruz

dude by my calculations he has had way to many girl friends his music is therapy man wow.

Gilbert Rogus

Awesomeness

Nikki Corona

Resonates so hard right now.

More Comments

More Versions