Unemployed Boyfriend
Everclear Lyrics


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This is gonna sound
A little obsessive
A little bit strange
I have one thing to say
Before I turn and I walk away
This is gonna sound
A little impulsive
This is gonna sound
A little insane
I know you don't know me yet
But you and I
We will be together
Someday
Someday

I know, I know, I sound
Like I'm on drugs
But listen to me now
When I say

That ever since when I first saw you
Sitting on your car outside
You asked for a cigarette
I couldn't stop staring
At your eyes

Ever since when I first saw you
Looking bored in that plastic chair
With the lights of the office
Around you
Those blond streaks
They look so pretty
In your black hair

You look cool and alternative
With that disaffected stare
You want people to think
That you just don't care

Hey you can be with me
'cause I just might be the one
Who will treat you like you're perfect
Who will always make you come

You can be with me
I will always let you win
I will never be like those other guys
I will never be your
Unemployed boyfriend

This is gonna sound
A little bit out there
This is gonna sound
A little insane
But I keep having the same dream
That you will
Be the mother of my children
Someday

Someday

I heard you sleep with that
Obnoxious guy
I know he is in that famous band
You look so sad when you
Are with him
I never see him reach
To hold your hand

You can be with me
Yes I will treat you like a queen
I will go to all those
Chick flick movies
That I really don't want to see

You can be with me
No I will never let you down
I will never make out
With your girlfriend
When I know you're not around

You can be with me
Yeah I just might be the one
Who will treat you like you're special
I will always make you come

You can be with me
I will always let you win
I will never be like those other guys
I will never be like those other guys!




I will never be your
Unemployed boyfriend

Overall Meaning

The song "Unemployed Boyfriend" by Everclear is a love song from a man to a woman who he's never officially met. He's seen her before and is immediately attracted to her. He thinks about her all the time, and he's already planning for their future together. He promises to be better than the other guys she's been with by saying he won't be her unemployed boyfriend, someone who can't hold down a job or support her. He wants to treat her like a queen, be there for her always, and never hurt her. This is a simple and straightforward song about love, but it also touches on social issues.


The song can be interpreted as a commentary on gender roles and societal expectations. The man promises to treat the woman like a queen, which implies that he sees her as someone who deserves to be respected and worshipped. Yet, this idea of putting women on a pedestal and providing for them is unrealistic and unfair. Women are perfectly capable of taking care of themselves and should not be expected to rely on a man for financial stability. Additionally, the man's promise to always let the woman win raises questions about power dynamics in relationships. It's not healthy for one person to always be in control, and the fact that the man is willing to give up his own desires for the sake of the woman's victory is concerning.


Line by Line Meaning

This is gonna sound A little obsessive A little bit strange I have one thing to say Before I turn and I walk away
I know this might be weird but I need to tell you something before I leave


This is gonna sound A little impulsive This is gonna sound A little insane I know you don't know me yet But you and I We will be together Someday Someday
I know we just met but I have a feeling that we will be together in the future


I know, I know, I sound Like I'm on drugs But listen to me now When I say
I know what I'm about to say might make me sound crazy but please hear me out


That ever since when I first saw you Sitting on your car outside You asked for a cigarette I couldn't stop staring At your eyes
Ever since I saw you sitting on your car and you asked for a cigarette, I couldn't help but stare at your beautiful eyes


Ever since when I first saw you Looking bored in that plastic chair With the lights of the office Around you Those blond streaks They look so pretty In your black hair
Ever since I saw you sitting bored in that chair with the office lights shining on you, I couldn't help but think how pretty the blond streaks in your black hair looked


You look cool and alternative With that disaffected stare You want people to think That you just don't care
You have a cool and alternative look with a disaffected stare that makes it seem like you don't care what others think


Hey you can be with me 'cause I just might be the one Who will treat you like you're perfect Who will always make you come
You should be with me because I might be the one who treats you perfectly and makes you happy


You can be with me I will always let you win I will never be like those other guys I will never be your Unemployed boyfriend
You can be with me because I will always let you win and never be like those other guys who can't hold a job


This is gonna sound A little bit out there This is gonna sound A little insane But I keep having the same dream That you will Be the mother of my children Someday Someday
I know this may sound crazy, but I keep having the same dream that someday you will be the mother of my children


I heard you sleep with that Obnoxious guy I know he is in that famous band You look so sad when you Are with him I never see him reach To hold your hand
I heard you sleep with that obnoxious guy who is in a famous band, but you always look sad when you're with him and I never see him reach to hold your hand


You can be with me Yes I will treat you like a queen I will go to all those Chick flick movies That I really don't want to see
You can be with me because I will treat you like a queen, even if it means going to all those chick flick movies that I don't really want to see


You can be with me No I will never let you down I will never make out With your girlfriend When I know you're not around
You can be with me because I will never let you down and I will never make out with your girlfriend when you're not around


You can be with me Yeah I just might be the one Who will treat you like you're special I will always make you come
You can be with me because I might be the one who treats you like you're special and always makes you happy


You can be with me I will always let you win I will never be like those other guys I will never be like those other guys! I will never be your Unemployed boyfriend
You can be with me because I will always let you win and never be like those other guys who can't hold a job - I will never be your unemployed boyfriend




Lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group
Written by: ART ALEXAKIS, CRAIG MONTOYA, GREG EKLUND

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