The Hard Way
Faith Hill Lyrics


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I hear every word they say
They tell me to stay away
They say I'm better off without you, baby
You've caused me nothing but pain

Heartache's your middle name
But seems I never see it coming
I'll just admit it baby
You really drive me crazy

Let go of my heart
'Cause every time you're near me
I can't think clearly
Defenses fall apart

I keep livin' and lovin' and learnin' the hard way
You're the hardest lesson, baby, of my life
I keep livin' and lovin' and learnin' the hard way
Someday baby, I will get it right

I never will understand
Why I let you think you can
Treat me any way you please, baby
I guess I hope someday

You'll settle down and say
Give me all the love I need, baby
Time and time I've found
You always let me down

Always ends the same way
You'd think that I could see the way you're treatin' me
Won't ever change

I keep livin' and lovin' and learnin' the hard way
You're the hardest lesson, baby, of my life
I keep livin' and lovin' and learnin' the hard way
Someday baby, I will get it right

If I could just hold on, if I could just be strong
My heart would see it's wrong, lovin' you, lovin' you

I keep livin' and lovin' and learnin' the hard way
You're the hardest lesson, baby, of my life
I keep livin' and lovin' and learnin' the hard way
Someday baby, I will get it right

Livin' and lovin' the hard way
You're the hardest lesson, oh baby, of my life




Livin' and lovin' the hard way
Someday, I will get it right

Overall Meaning

The song "The Hard Way" by Faith Hill is about a woman who is in love with a man who causes her nothing but pain and heartache. She knows she should stay away from him, but she can't help herself. She keeps living and loving and learning the hard way. She admits that this man really drives her crazy, and every time he's near her, her defenses fall apart. She's hoping that someday he'll settle down and give her all the love she needs, but she's been let down by him time and time again. She keeps holding on to him, hoping that one day she'll get it right and be able to move on.


This song is relatable to anyone who has been in a toxic relationship and struggled to let go. The lyrics capture the emotional turmoil that comes with loving someone who is bad for you. The melody is also emotional and powerful, making this song one of Faith Hill's most popular and beloved ballads.


Line by Line Meaning

I hear every word they say
People tell me bad things about you


They tell me to stay away
They advise me to stay away from you


They say I'm better off without you, baby
They suggest that my life will be improved in your absence


You've caused me nothing but pain
Your presence has only brought me emotional pain


Heartache's your middle name
You are a heartache personified


But seems I never see it coming
I am too blinded by your charm to see the inevitable heartache you bring


I'll just admit it baby
I confess that I cannot resist you


You really drive me crazy
Your behavior towards me is irrational and upsetting


Let go of my heart
Release my heart from your grasp


'Cause every time you're near me
Being in your presence clouds my judgement


I can't think clearly
My thoughts become muddled and unclear


Defenses fall apart
My emotional barriers crumble when I'm around you


I keep livin' and lovin' and learnin' the hard way
I repeatedly experience pain and disappointment in relationships


You're the hardest lesson, baby, of my life
You are the most difficult relationship I've experienced


Someday baby, I will get it right
One day I will learn from my mistakes and have a successful relationship


I never will understand
I will never comprehend


Why I let you think you can
Why I allow you to believe certain behaviors are acceptable


Treat me any way you please, baby
Why I let you treat me however you want


I guess I hope someday
Perhaps one day


You'll settle down and say
You will mature and say


Give me all the love I need, baby
You will give me the love and attention I deserve


Time and time I've found
Repeatedly I have experienced


You always let me down
You always disappoint me


Always ends the same way
Our relationship always has the same negative outcome


You'd think that I could see the way you're treatin' me
You would expect that I'd realize how poorly you treat me


Won't ever change
Your behavior will never improve


If I could just hold on, if I could just be strong
If only I could maintain my willpower and resist you


My heart would see it's wrong, lovin' you, lovin' you
My heart would finally realize that loving you is detrimental to my emotional wellbeing


Livin' and lovin' the hard way
Living and loving with difficulties and heartache


You're the hardest lesson, oh baby, of my life
You have taught me the most difficult lesson in life


Someday, I will get it right
I am optimistic about eventually having successful relationships




Lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group, Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC, Peermusic Publishing, Kobalt Music Publishing Ltd.
Written by: KEITH BROWN, DONNA DOUGLAS

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