Bang the Doldrums
Fall Out Boy Lyrics


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I wrote a goodbye note
In lipstick on your arm
When you passed out
I couldn't bring myself to call
Except to call it quits

Best friends
Ex-friends till the end
Better off as lovers
And not the other way around
Racing through the city
Windows down
In the back of
Yellow-checkered cars

This city says
Come hell or high water
When I'm feeling hot and wet
I can't commit to a thing
Be it heart or hospital

Best friends
Ex-friends till the end
Better off as lovers
And not the other way around
Racing through the city
Windows down
In the back of
Yellow-checkered cars

The tombstones are waiting
They were half engraved
They knew it was over
Just didn't know the date

And I cast a spell over the West
To make you think of me
The same way I think of you
This is a love song in my own way
Happily ever after below the waist

Best friends
Ex-friends till the end
Better off as lovers
Racing through the city
Windows down
In the back of
Yellow-checkered cars

Best friends
Ex-friends till the end
Better off as lovers
And not the other way around




Ex-friends till the end
Better off as lovers

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of Fall Out Boy's song, "Bang The Doldrums," are a poignant reflection on a past relationship that has come to an end. The first verse of the song reveals that the singer has left a note for their lover on their arm in lipstick before leaving. It seems that the singer has been wanting to end the relationship for some time, but could not bring themselves to confront their lover. The line "When you passed out, I couldn't bring myself to call, except to call it quits" reveals that the end of the relationship was not sudden, but that the singer had been planning it for some time.


The second verse of the song reinforces the idea that the singer and their lover were "better off as lovers and not the other way around". The two were best friends but the chemistry between them as lovers was more potent. The line "racing through the city, windows down, in the back of yellow-checkered cars" portrays a vivid image of the carefree and wild nature of their relationship.


The final verse is particularly interesting as the singer casts a spell over the West to make their lover think of them the same way they do. The imagery of the tombstones waiting and being half-engraved conjures up questions about the inevitability of the relationship ending. Nevertheless, the chorus reiterates that the two are better off as lovers despite their tumultuous past.


Line by Line Meaning

I wrote a goodbye note
I left a note to say goodbye to you


In lipstick on your arm
I used lipstick to write the note on your arm


When you passed out
You were unconscious when I did it


I couldn't bring myself to call
I didn't have the courage to call you


Except to call it quits
The only thing I called to do was end our relationship


Best friends
We were once best friends


Ex-friends till the end
Now we're not even friends anymore


Better off as lovers
We were better in a romantic relationship than as friends


And not the other way around
Being friends again would not work


Racing through the city
We used to drive fast through the city


Windows down
With the windows open


In the back of
Sitting in the backseat of


Yellow-checkered cars
A taxi or race car with yellow and checkered markings


This city says
The city seems to be telling us


Come hell or high water
No matter what happens


When I'm feeling hot and wet
When I'm emotional and vulnerable


I can't commit to a thing
I can't make a decision


Be it heart or hospital
Whether it's love or medical care


The tombstones are waiting
Our relationship is dying


They were half engraved
It was already halfway over


They knew it was over
The relationship was beyond repair


Just didn't know the date
We didn't know exactly when it would end


And I cast a spell over the West
I wanted to make you think of me


To make you think of me
In the same way I think of you


This is a love song in my own way
This song is my way of expressing love


Happily ever after below the waist
Our physical relationship was satisfying




Lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC
Written by: Andrew John Hurley, Joseph Mark Trohman, Patrick Martin Stump, Peter Lewis Wentz, Wesley Eisold

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