A Good Man Is Hard To Find
Fats Waller Lyrics


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A good man is hard to find, you always get the other
Kind
Just when you think that he′s your pal,
You look for him and find him fooling around some
Other gal
Then you rave, you even pray,
To see him laying in his grave
So if your man is nice,
You better take my advice
Hug him in the morning,
Kiss him every night,
Give him plenty loving,
Treat him right
Cause a good man now day's is hard to find
A good man is hard to find,
You always get the other kind
Just when you think that he′s your pal,
You look for him and find
Him fooling around some other gal
Then you rave,
You even pray,
To see him laying in his grave
So if your man is nice,
You better take my advice
Hug him in the morning,
Kiss him every night,
Give him plenty loving,
Treat him right
Cause a good man now day's is hard to find
So if your man is nice,
You better take my advice
And hug him in the morning,
Kiss him every night,
Give him plenty loving,




And treat him right
For a good man now day's is hard to find

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of Fats Waller's song, A Good Man Is Hard To Find, seems to be about the difficulty of finding a faithful and committed man in a romantic relationship. The song conveys the message that even when one thinks they have found a trustworthy partner, they may end up being disappointed, as the man could be with another woman. The lyrics hint at frustration and disappointment on the part of the singer, as it seems that finding and keeping a good man is a difficult task. The song suggests that a woman should cherish and love her man every day, as finding a good man in current times is rare.


The lines "Just when you think he's your pal, you look for him, and find him fooling around some other gal" refers to the betrayal a woman feels when their partner, who they thought was fully committed to the relationship, cheats on them. The line "To see him laying in his grave" shows how heartbroken someone feels after they have been betrayed. The song's final lines, "For a good man nowadays is hard to find," emphasize the importance and rarity of finding a good man. Therefore, the song serves as a warning to other women that they have to appreciate their partners and treat them right.


Line by Line Meaning

A good man is hard to find, you always get the other kind
It's difficult to come across a good man, instead, you often encounter the opposite kind.


Just when you think that he’s your pal, you look for him and find him fooling around some other gal
Just when you believe that you are close to him, you discover that he has been disloyal and unfaithful.


Then you rave, you even pray, to see him laying in his grave
You become angry and upset, to the point where you wish that he was dead.


So if your man is nice, you better take my advice
If your man is kind and good, it’s wise to heed my words.


Hug him in the morning, kiss him every night, give him plenty loving, treat him right
Show him affection frequently, give him love, care for him and treat him properly to keep him good.


Cause a good man now day’s is hard to find
It's tough to find a virtuous man in the present scenario.




Writer(s): William E Davison, Anne Davison (estate), Eddie Green (dp)

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