Comfort Me
Feist Lyrics


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When you comfort me
It doesn't bring me comfort actually
When you comfort me

True life in haiku
Imbalance is the phrase out of the blue
The meaning shown to you
What does sadness see?
The mirror has a mirror in its teeth
That's what sadness is

Big sky, tiny bird
And when the paragraph betrays the word
Big sky, tiny bird

While you held me up
I held my calendar out like a cup
While you held me up

Make it about me
I want to hold the blame to guillotine
Make it all blame-free





When you comfort me
It doesn't bring me comfort actually

Overall Meaning

Feist's song Comfort Me is a hauntingly beautiful piece that explores the complexities of human emotions and how we sometimes try to mask them using different means. The first verse sets the tone for the song with the lines, "When you comfort me, it doesn't bring me comfort actually, when you comfort me." Feist seems to be suggesting that the act of comfort, while well-intentioned, doesn't necessarily alleviate one's pain or sadness. The second verse is almost like a haiku, with the lines "True life in haiku, imbalance is the phrase out of the blue, the meaning shown to you." Feist is highlighting the imbalance that exists in life, and how sometimes we can't make sense of it all.


The chorus of the song is particularly striking, with the lines "What does sadness see? The mirror has a mirror in its teeth, that's what sadness is." Here, Feist seems to be suggesting that sadness is a cyclical and self-perpetuating emotion. We look at our reflection in the mirror and see sadness staring back at us, which only reinforces our feelings of despair. The second half of the chorus features the lines "Big sky, tiny bird, and when the paragraph betrays the word, big sky, tiny bird." Feist is playing with the idea of paradoxes here. The idea of a big sky with a tiny bird seems incongruous at first, but Feist is perhaps suggesting that even the smallest things can sometimes have a profound impact, especially when they betray larger expectations.


The final verse features the lines "While you held me up, I held my calendar out like a cup, while you held me up. Make it about me, I want to hold the blame to guillotine, make it all blame-free." Feist is reflecting on how, while someone may try to lift us up in times of hardship, we can't help but focus on ourselves and our own problems. She wants to take ownership of her sadness and hold herself accountable for it, even if that means directing blame inward. Ultimately, the song paints a picture of a person struggling to come to terms with their emotions, their insecurities, and their flaws.


Line by Line Meaning

When you comfort me
The act of receiving comfort doesn't necessarily bring me the comfort that you intended to give.


When you comfort me
The act of receiving comfort doesn't necessarily bring me the comfort that you intended to give.


True life in haiku
The reality of life can often feel complicated, but it can be expressed in simple statements through haikus.


Imbalance is the phrase out of the blue
Unexpected feelings of imbalance can arise in one's life at any point.


The meaning shown to you
These feelings of imbalance can be communicated to others through words and actions.


What does sadness see?
When experiencing sadness, one's perception of the world can be distorted.


The mirror has a mirror in its teeth
The reflection of oneself during times of sadness can be a daunting sight.


That's what sadness is
The true nature of sadness lies in the harsh reflections it presents.


Big sky, tiny bird
The contrast between the vast expanse of the sky and smallness of the bird represents the constant battle between insignificance and significance in life.


And when the paragraph betrays the word
Sometimes, the entirety of a situation is not captured by the words used to describe it.


Big sky, tiny bird
The contrast between the vast expanse of the sky and smallness of the bird represents the constant battle between insignificance and significance in life.


While you held me up
During times of support, it's possible to detach and focus on other things like daily routines.


I held my calendar out like a cup
One's priorities can shift during times of emotional support, leading to the prioritization of practical tasks over emotional reflection.


Make it about me
During times of stress, it's easy to desire control over one's own situation at the expense of others.


I want to hold the blame to guillotine
The desire for control can lead to assigning blame for negative situations, even if it's not based in reality.


Make it all blame-free
Instead of assigning blame, focusing on finding a solution together can lead to a more productive outcome.




Lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group
Written by: Leslie Feist

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Most interesting comment from YouTube:

@ourlittlesecretjk

When you comfort me
It doesn't bring me comfort actually
When you comfort me

True life in haiku
And balances of phrase
Out of the blue
And meaning shown to you

Where does sadness see?
The mirror has a mirror in his teeth
That's what sadness sees

Big sky, tiny bird
And when the paragraph betrays the word
Big sky, tiny bird

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While you held me up
I held my calendar out like a cup
While you held me up

Make it about me
I wanna to hold the blame to guillotine
Make it all blame free

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When you comfort me
It doesn't bring me comfort actually



All comments from YouTube:

@ChuckFristian

This song is so underrated. This whole album is slept on. Such raw emotional expression. I love all of Feists work but this album really feels like a person becoming themselves

@APalGal

Feist is amazing, underrated and pure genius.🧡

@alexandrudobos8567

Genius is a small world for her 🏅

@naomi.e.333

This is such an amazing album. I miss hearing it for the first time

@Rh1no1

"When you comfort me, it doesn't bring me comfort actually." (I know the type).

@meganritchie823

This song is amazing

@kenzaplenty

this song is perfect to me

@Willowheart4321

Oh my god, I didn't see her there at all! I thought it was snow :p

@Jennalovesrainbows

Great song

@LilRinner

At first i didn't realize that she was lying on that branch. O.o

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