Front-man Felix Hagan and guitarist Tom Webber met at the University of Liverpool where they both studied music. At university, they started recruiting fellow students and acquaintances for the band, and by 2012, the full seven-member band had formed.
The band's first EP, "String Up the Entertainer," was released in 2013, and after sharing their music with singer Frank Turner, the band gained his public support. This transitioned into the band's role as a supporting act for Turner during his 2016 tour. There they played music from their first EP, as well as their latest 2015 release, "Kiss the Misfits."
On 24 November 2017 they released their debut album, "Attention Seeker," with glam, pop, rock, and punk influences. "Attention Seeker" topped out at number 6 on the iTunes rock chart, and soon after, the band went on tour to support the Arkells in 2018.
Tough to Be a Dreamer
Felix Hagan & The Family Lyrics
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Everyone's a sucker for a taste of glory
But stories are for children
And glory's not a taste I can acquire
And people say that wishes are the path to freedom
See the stars a-shining, honey
You could be one
The cold grey light of day they expire
'Cause I've built my castle on broken dreams
And as time goes by, I must admit it seems like
I was sold a lie
Makes me want to cry so loud
So loud
'Cause it's tough to be a dreamer when they don't come true
Nothing seems to happen and you can't break through
Feel like your blossoming is overdue
And you realize no one's gonna give the world to you
Well ain't no use in crying, darling
So they say
Find a thing you love to do and make it pay
Nothing you accomplish matters anyway
So all that really counts is how you live today
Well I'm not one to get uptight for no good reason
While some might see decay I see a change of season
And everyone's got problems
No more or less pathetic than mine
'Cause I'm trying to project a sunny disposition
But it's hard to paint a smile on wasted young ambition
And every day's another little grain of sand lost to the mists of time
'Cause if I can't make it, then what's the point?
If my whole damn life is set to disappoint
Well I guess there's nothing left to do but smile, so smile
'Cause it's tough to be a dreamer when they don't come true
Nothing seems to happen and you can't break through
Feel like your blossoming is overdue
And you realize no one's gonna give the world to you
Well ain't no use in crying, darling
So they say
Find a thing you love to do and make it pay
Nothing you accomplish matters anyway
So all that really counts is how you live today
Well if this is that ever will be, that's okay
But there's no damn noise left to drown out
The sound of the petals that sigh as they're falling away
'Cause it's tough to be a dreamer when they don't come true
Nothing seems to happen and you can't break through
Feel like your blossoming is overdue
And you realize no one's gonna give the world to you
Well ain't no use in crying, darling
So they say
Find a thing you love to do and make it pay
Nothing you accomplish matters anyway
So all that really counts, all that really counts
Ooooh, Oooooh, Ooooh, Yeah!
The song Tough to be a Dreamer by Felix Hagan & The Family is about the struggles that come with being a dreamer, holding onto aspirations for life that may not come true. The song describes how everyone wants to be the hero in their own story and crave taste of glory but sometimes these dreams don’t come out as expected. The artist says that stories are for children and glory is not something that can be achieved easily.
The song talks about how it is tough being a dreamer because sometimes wishes don’t come true and pipe dreams just fade away. This is. referenced in the lyrics 'Cause I've built my castle on broken dreams, And as time goes by, I must admit it seems like, I was sold a lie; it makes me want to cry so loud, so loud'. However, the artist also speaks about not giving up hope and finding a reason to smile, no matter how difficult it might seem.
In the end, the song encourages the listener to find something they love to do and make it pay, since nothing you accomplish really matters anyway. What matters most is how one lives their life today. Tough to be a Dreamer is a relatable song that inspires people to keep chasing their dreams, but also suggests they should be realistic and find ways to transform their passions in a way that is feasible and profitable.
Line by Line Meaning
Well everyone's the hero in their own story
Everyone thinks of themselves as the singer of their own life story
Everyone's a sucker for a taste of glory
Everyone is drawn to the idea of achieving greatness
But stories are for children
The idea of a simple, straightforward narrative is childish
And glory's not a taste I can acquire
Achieving fame or notoriety is not something the singer believes they can realistically attain
And people say that wishes are the path to freedom
Some people believe that the key to achieving happiness is to follow one's desires
See the stars a-shining, honey
The singer is acknowledging the allure of the idea of following one's dreams
You could be one
The singer is suggesting that the listener has the potential to achieve their dreams
But pipe dreams flush away and in
But unrealistic dreams often fade and disappear
The cold grey light of day they expire
When exposed to the reality of life, unrealistic dreams lose their appeal
'Cause I've built my castle on broken dreams
The singer has staked their hopes and aspirations on unrealistic goals
And as time goes by, I must admit it seems like
As the singer grows older, they are coming to the realization that their goals may never be achieved
I was sold a lie
The singer feels that they were misled about the likelihood of their dreams coming true
Makes me want to cry so loud
The singer is full of regret and sadness about the prospect of never achieving their dreams
'Cause it's tough to be a dreamer when they don't come true
It's difficult to maintain a positive outlook on life when one's aspirations are unlikely to be fulfilled
Nothing seems to happen and you can't break through
No matter how hard the singer tries, they feel stuck in life and unable to progress
Feel like your blossoming is overdue
The singer feels as though they should have achieved more by now, but have not
And you realize no one's gonna give the world to you
The singer recognizes that they alone are responsible for their own success and happiness
Well ain't no use in crying, darling
It won't do any good to be upset about the situation, according to the accepted wisdom
So they say
This is a common piece of advice that the singer has heard before
Find a thing you love to do and make it pay
Find something you are passionate about and find a way to make a living doing it
Nothing you accomplish matters anyway
In the grand scheme of things, individual achievements are not particularly significant
So all that really counts is how you live today
The most important thing is to make the most of each day and find fulfillment in the present moment
Well I'm not one to get uptight for no good reason
The singer tries to maintain a positive mindset, even when things aren't going well
While some might see decay I see a change of season
The singer tries to find the positive in difficult situations and not dwell on the negative
And everyone's got problems
Everyone has struggles in life
No more or less pathetic than mine
The singer recognizes that their problems are not more or less significant than anyone else's
'Cause I'm trying to project a sunny disposition
The singer is trying to appear upbeat and positive, even if they don't necessarily feel that way
But it's hard to paint a smile on wasted young ambition
The singer finds it difficult to maintain a positive outlook when they feel as though they have wasted their youth chasing unrealistic dreams
And every day's another little grain of sand lost to the mists of time
With each passing day, the singer feels as though time is slipping away and they are no closer to achieving their dreams
'Cause if I can't make it, then what's the point?
The singer is questioning the purpose of life if they are unable to achieve their dreams
If my whole damn life is set to disappoint
The singer feels as though their entire life has been a letdown, with no meaningful accomplishments to their name
Well I guess there's nothing left to do but smile, so smile
The singer is resigned to their situation, and feels that the only thing left to do is put on a brave face and try to be happy
'Cause it's tough to be a dreamer when they don't come true
Once again, the singer reiterates the difficulty of maintaining optimism in the face of unfulfilled aspirations
Nothing seems to happen and you can't break through
The singer feels as though they are stuck in place and unable to progress, no matter how hard they try
Feel like your blossoming is overdue
Once again, the singer feels as though they should have achieved more by this point in their life
And you realize no one's gonna give the world to you
The singer understands that they are solely responsible for their own success and happiness
Well ain't no use in crying, darling
Once again, the singer recognizes that there is no point in getting upset about the situation
So they say
Repeating the common advice that one should find something they love to do and make it pay
Nothing you accomplish matters anyway
Reiterating the idea that individual achievements are not particularly significant
So all that really counts, all that really counts
The emphasis is once again on finding fulfillment in the present moment
Ooooh, Oooooh, Ooooh, Yeah!
The song ends on a musical note of ambiguous emotion, leaving the listener to interpret the singer's state of mind for themselves
Contributed by Connor P. Suggest a correction in the comments below.