Big Girls Don't Cry
Fergie Feat. Sean Kingston Lyrics


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The smell of your skin lingers on me now
You're probably on your flight back to your hometown
I need some shelter of my own protection, baby
Be with myself and center
Clarity, peace, serenity

I hope you know, I hope you know
That this has nothing to do with you
It's personal, myself and I
We've got some straightenin' out to do
And I'm gonna miss you like a child misses their blanket
But I've got to get a move on with my life
It's time to be a big girl now
And big girls don't cry

Don't cry
Don't cry
Don't cry

The path that I'm walking
I must go alone
I must take the baby steps 'til I'm full grown, full grown
Fairy tales don't always have a happy ending, do they?
And I foresee the dark ahead if I stay

I hope you know, I hope you know
That this has nothing to do with you
It's personal, myself and I
We've got some straightenin' out to do
And I'm gonna miss you like a child misses their blanket
But I've got to get a move on with my life
It's time to be a big girl now
And big girls don't cry

Like the little school mate in the school yard
We'll play jacks and Uno cards
I'll be your best friend, and you'll be mine
Valentine
Yes, you can hold my hand if you want to
'Cause I wanna hold yours too
We'll be playmates and lovers, and share our secret worlds
But it's time for me to go home
It's getting late and dark outside
I need to be with myself and center
Clarity, peace, serenity

I hope you know, I hope you know
That this has nothing to do with you
It's personal, myself and I
We've got some straightenin' out to do
And I'm gonna miss you like a child misses their blanket
But I've got to get a move on with my life
It's time to be a big girl now
And big girls don't cry

Don't cry
Don't cry
Don't cry





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Overall Meaning

The lyrics to Fergie Feat. Sean Kingston's song "Big Girls Don't Cry" are a complex mixture of emotions that revolve around the concept of self-discovery and learning how to stand on one's own two feet. The song starts with Fergie recollecting the memory of being with someone, and how their smell still lingers on her skin, but then, she goes on to acknowledge that it's time for her to be on her own, in order to find clarity, peace, and serenity.


In the next verse, Fergie sings about the journey that lies ahead of her and how she has to take small steps to grow and mature to learn how to deal with the challenges that may arise. She realizes that fairy tales don't always have happy endings, and there may be dark times ahead, but she needs to face them on her own.


The final verse is directed towards the person she was reminiscing about in the beginning, as she acknowledges how much she'll miss them, but it's something she needs to do for herself. She then describes the innocence of childhood friendships, where they played jacks and card games, and how it's time for her to leave and return to the clarity and serenity she needs.


Overall, "Big Girls Don't Cry" is a song about self-discovery, self-love and standing on one's own feet. It's about the process of growing up and the challenges that come with it, but also the importance of staying true to oneself and finding peace within oneself while navigating through life.


Line by Line Meaning

The smell of your skin lingers on me now
Your presence still feels so strong, but it's time for me to move on.


You're probably on your flight back to your hometown
You're gone, and I need to accept that reality.


I need some shelter of my own protection, baby
I need to take some time for myself to heal and figure things out.


Be with myself and center, clarity, peace, serenity
I need to find inner peace and clarity within myself as I move forward.


I hope you know, I hope you know, that this has nothing to do with you
This isn't about you - it's about me and my journey.


It's personal, myself and I, we've got some straightenin' out to do
I need to work on my own personal growth and development.


And I'm gonna miss you like a child misses their blanket
It's hard to let you go, but it's necessary for me to grow.


But I've got to get a move on with my life, it's time to be a big girl now
I have to be strong and mature in this situation - I can't hold on to the past.


And big girls don't cry, don't cry, don't cry
I can embrace my emotions, but I won't let them control me.


The path that I'm walking, I must go alone
I have to navigate my own journey without relying on anyone else.


I must take the baby steps 'til I'm full grown, full grown
I need to take small, gradual steps to grow into a stronger person.


Fairy tales don't always have a happy ending, do they?
Life isn't always perfect - sometimes things don't work out the way we want them to.


And I foresee the dark ahead if I stay
If I don't move on, I'll be stuck in a dark and unhappy place.


Like the little school mate in the school yard, we'll play jacks and Uno cards
We'll have fun memories together, like childhood friendships.


I'll be your best friend, and you'll be mine, Valentine
We care about each other deeply, but it's time to move on.


Yes, you can hold my hand if you want to
We can still support each other as we move on to separate paths.


'Cause I wanna hold yours too
I still care about you and want the best for you.


We'll be playmates and lovers, and share our secret worlds
We had a special connection, but it's time to let that go.


But it's time for me to go home, it's getting late and dark outside
The time has come for me to move forward and let go.


I hope you know, I hope you know, that this has nothing to do with you
I need to focus on myself and let go of the past - this isn't about you.


It's personal, myself and I, we've got some straightenin' out to do
I need to work on myself and focus on personal growth.


And I'm gonna miss you like a child misses their blanket
Letting go is hard to do, but necessary for my own growth.


But I've got to get a move on with my life, it's time to be a big girl now
It's time for me to be strong and mature as I move on to new things.


And big girls don't cry, don't cry, don't cry
I can embrace my emotions and feelings, but I won't let them control me.


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A simple way of expressing emotions and feelings that cannot be put into words.




Lyrics © BMG Rights Management, Universal Music Publishing Group, Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC, Songtrust Ave, Kobalt Music Publishing Ltd., Warner Chappell Music, Inc.
Written by: Tobias Gad, Stacy Ferguson

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I miss 2007. Times flies by man... wish we had a time machine

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And 13 years ago now🙏❤

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