This Old Routine
First Aid Kit Lyrics


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So you come on home, walk through the door.
She's in the kitchen searching through the drawers.
So you stop and watch her and ask what she's looking for.
She says she's not sure.

And it gets late and you turned off the lights.
Her body's so close to you in the night.
But you dare not touch her and you don't wanna fight, so you just say,
"Goodnight."

This old routine will drive you mad
It's just a mumble never spoken out loud
And sometimes you don't even know why you loved her.
Well you look at her now, and you see why.

And your youngest is out fighting a war.
But he won't say what he's fighting for.
If he's gone because of war for you, in which you rather be true.

This old routine will drive you mad
It's just a mumble never spoken out loud
Sometimes you can't even recall the sound of his laughter.
Oh, well did you ever really know the sound?

This old routine will drive you mad
It's just a mumble never spoken out loud
Sometimes you don't even know how you're still standing.




Well she looks at you now, and you see how.
Well you look at her now, and you know how.

Overall Meaning

The song "This Old Routine" by First Aid Kit is a melancholic reflection on the weariness that can come from long-term relationships and the inevitable turns that life takes. The verses detail a couple going through the motions - the man comes home and finds his wife rummaging through drawers without any clear purpose, and they end the day in bed inches apart, but with a growing emotional distance between them. The chorus repeats the same refrain, "this old routine will drive you mad / it's just a mumble never spoken out loud," acknowledging the emptiness of complacency and the fear of voicing one's dissatisfaction with the status quo.


The second half of the song shifts to the story of a son fighting in a war, presenting the idea that this "old routine" is not just a personal experience, but can also refer to larger societal structures and conflicts. The singer wonders about the reasons for the war and the true motivations behind it, feeling helpless in the face of global turmoil. The final lines bring the song full circle, with the suggestion that both the man and his wife see clearly the distance that has grown between them, and the devastating mundanity of their life together. The repetition of the phrase "you see how" implies that recognition is the first step towards change, but it remains to be seen whether or not the couple will follow through on this insight.


Line by Line Meaning

So you come on home, walk through the door.
You arrive home and enter your house.


She's in the kitchen searching through the drawers.
Your partner is in the kitchen looking for something.


So you stop and watch her and ask what she's looking for.
You pause and observe your partner's actions before asking about their intentions.


She says she's not sure.
Your partner admits to being uncertain about what they are trying to find.


And it gets late and you turned off the lights.
Time passes and you turn off the lights.


Her body's so close to you in the night.
Your partner is physically near you during the night.


But you dare not touch her and you don't wanna fight, so you just say, "Goodnight."
You avoid physical contact and conflict by simply bidding your partner goodnight.


This old routine will drive you mad
The repetition of these patterns and habits can be frustrating and overwhelming.


It's just a mumble never spoken out loud
These emotions and thoughts are never fully expressed or verbalized.


And sometimes you don't even know why you loved her.
Occasionally, you struggle to pinpoint why you fell in love with your partner in the first place.


Well you look at her now, and you see why.
Presently, you are reminded of why you love your partner despite the difficulties.


And your youngest is out fighting a war.
Your youngest child is serving in the military and engaging in combat.


But he won't say what he's fighting for.
Your child is keeping his reasons for fighting a secret.


If he's gone because of war for you, in which you rather be true.
You question whether your child is away at war because of a higher purpose or if he is simply fulfilling your expectations.


Sometimes you can't even recall the sound of his laughter.
You struggle to remember what your child's laughter sounds like due to the distance between you.


Oh, well did you ever really know the sound?
You wonder if you truly knew your child's laughter in the first place.


Sometimes you don't even know how you're still standing.
You are uncertain about how you have managed to cope with the challenges and hardships of life.


Well she looks at you now, and you see how.
Your partner's gaze reflects her admiration for your resilience and strength.


Well you look at her now, and you know how.
You appreciate your partner's support and the role she has played in enabling you to persevere through tough times.




Lyrics © Warner Chappell Music, Inc.
Written by: JOHANNA KAJSA S�DERBERG, JOHANNA KAJSA SOEDERBERG, KLARA MARIA S�DERBERG, KLARA MARIA SOEDERBERG

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LYRICS

So you come on home, walk through the door.
She's in the kitchen searching through the drawers.
So you stop and watch her and ask what she's looking for.
She says she's not sure.

Then it gets late and you turn off the lights.
Her body so close to you in the night.
But you dare not touch her and you don't want to fight,
So you just say, "Goodnight."

This old routine will drive you mad
It's just a mumble never spoken out loud
And sometimes you don't even know why you loved her.
Well you look at her now, and you see why.

And your youngest is out fighting a war.
But he won't say what he's fighting for.
If he's gone because of war for you,
In which you'd rather be true.

This old routine will drive you mad
It's just a mumble never spoken out loud
Sometimes you can't even recall the sound of his laughter.
Oh well, did you ever really know the sound?

This old routine will drive you mad
It's just a mumble never spoken out loud
Sometimes you don't even know if you're still standing.
Well she looks at you now, and you see how.

Well you look at them now, and you know how.



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@lilianadelgado3925

man oh man i dont even have words to describe how much i enjoy their music

@tedmtaverner7664

Finest group on YouTube. Their music makes this old guy feel young again.
You will stay gold, ladies. I'm sure of it.

@Tyndle

I saw them live few days ago at Qstock, Oulu, Finland. The rhythm of the drum together with their perfect duet was so hypnotic... I fell in love right away.

@HelloIamVampire

for christ sake, i have never ever before listened to a better voice

@kevsul47

some of the most beautiful melodies and harmonies i have ever heard.

@DanacaLove

This song gives me such a nostalgic feeling, right from the first time I heard it... I’ve only been listening to this albums for about 2 weeks. I love these sisters❤️

@hailiedances

they're so amazing. refreshing to see REAL artists up in here.

@benbeck1

Forgot how good this song is, love the lyrics!!!!!

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weirdly i know their other songs but only discovered this one last year! I cant get enough

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Talent and lyricism, voices and words, beauty and intelligence, heart and soul. Just wonderful.

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