If I Loved You
Frank Sinatra Lyrics


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If I loved you, time and again I would try to say
All I'd want you to know
If I loved you, words wouldn't come in an easy way
`Round in circles I'd go
Longin' to tell you but, afraid and shy,
I'd let my golden chances pass me by

Soon you'd leave me, off you would go in the mist of day
Never, never to know
How I love you, if I loved you

Soon you'd leave me, off you would go in the mist of day




Never, never to know
How I love you, if I loved you

Overall Meaning

The lyrics to Frank Sinatra's song "If I Loved You" convey a sense of longing and regret for not being able to express his own love for someone due to fear and shyness. The repetition of the phrase "if I loved you" further emphasizes this feeling of missed opportunities and unfulfilled potential. Sinatra sings about wanting to say everything he feels for this person, but feeling like he can't find the right words to say it. He admits to being afraid and shy, which shows vulnerability and adds to the overall emotional impact of the lyrics.


The use of imagery in the song also adds depth to its message. The line "off you would go in the mist of day" paints a picture of loss and separation, while "golden chances" suggests there have been multiple opportunities to tell this person how he feels, but they have all been missed. Despite the sadness and regret that permeate the lyrics, the melody and Sinatra's smooth delivery of the song add a sense of wistfulness and nostalgia.


Line by Line Meaning

If I loved you, time and again I would try to say
If I had feelings for you, I would make multiple attempts to express myself


All I'd want you to know
My objective would be to make sure you knew my true feelings


If I loved you, words wouldn't come in an easy way
I would struggle to articulate my emotions if I had strong feelings for you


`Round in circles I'd go
My thoughts and feelings would make me feel disoriented and uncertain


Longin' to tell you but, afraid and shy,
I would desperately want to confess, but my fear and timidity would hold me back


I'd let my golden chances pass me by
I would miss opportunities to express myself and potentially start a relationship


Soon you'd leave me, off you would go in the mist of day
If I failed to express myself, you would eventually depart without ever knowing how I truly felt


Never, never to know
You would never be aware of my feelings


How I love you, if I loved you
If I had the courage to confess my love, you would understand my passion for you




Lyrics © CONCORD MUSIC PUBLISHING LLC
Written by: OSCAR HAMMERSTEIN II, RICHARD RODGERS

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godschild01

I love his voice. Hes always been my favorite. So soothing.

Rebekah Johnson

 I adore Frank Sinatra's voice. It also adds diversity to my playlists. And this one has a story with it.
I was in choir this past Friday (we sing songs from a choir book on Fridays) and my friend asked the director for a recommendation, and he chose this song. I knew he had a crush on a soprano, and when we sang this song, I saw them meet eyes. I personally thought it was adorable and a big step for the emotionally introverted guy. ^_^ personally, I felt happy, maybe even proud for him.

century123ful

Yes, there were some singers who had a stronger voice than Sinatra, but none could match him  in the depth of feeling and phrasing that only Frank could put into a song. He was the best.

Matheus Bezerra de Lima

Sinatra's voice was at its peak in 53-55! Listen to Rain (Falling From The Skies), recorded in Capitol in 1953!

Steve Silverman

I don't suppose you've heard I'm a Fool to Want You from '51, much less read what Whitney Balliett wrote on the subject. Then there's Close to You from '56, Only The Lonely from '58, Sinatra & Strings from '61, The Concert Sinatra - '64, September of My Years, '65 and others before, in between and after right on up until My Way in '69, after which he took a few years off. His voice grew darker, deeper and more expressive, more a cello and less a violin. It's one thing to say you prefer the violin, quite another to suggest Sinatra's peak lasted a mere three years, from age 37 - 40.

Peter Holwill

Well said, agree with you 100%.

Peter Holwill

​@Matheus Bezerra de LimaYes you are right albums he recorded with Capitol Records his greatest work.'Only the Lonely' and 'Close To You' 'Where Are You ? ' particular favourites but all his Capitol albums showcase the definitive artist for the genre.

Peter Holwill

​@Steve SilvermanYes agree with you 100%, tracks and albums you mention, favourites of mine, along with 'Where Are You ?' 'Close To You', and 'No One Cares' albums.All the albums recorded with Capitol Records, including the swing albums set the standard for the genre.

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Peter Holwill

The Sinatra voice at it's peak.

maureen1938

I love Frank Sinatra but Gorden McGrae was perfect in the role of Billy Bigelow in Carousel... no regrets. They were both superb artists. !!!

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